Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[mamba]

There is a high percentage of black women procreating with worthless men.

Look at this man with 34 kids by 17 different women. All of the women are stupid for having kids with this man. How do you let him get you pregnant more than once. If more black women had higher standards he would not have an kids to abandon. Why are you having unprotected ex with a man not knowing how many kids he has and by how many different women? A lot of women need to learn that they should ONLY have kids with a man they are married to.
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A lot of Black American women don't think in terms of marriage first and then kids!

They just pop out the kids and then try to pick up the pieces and build afterward. It's the most ass backward shyt currently going in our community.

 

[The Mad Titan]

This isn't about white supremacy. This is about a group of males who litter children across the globe. None of you will admit that the deadbeat problem is pervasive and real. The percentage is such that your average woman of any race couldn't avoid a deadbeat when procreating with black males (as evidenced by their single parenthood rates).

That's because they are more than likely women from other races looking to engage in the fantasy hiphop or player lifestyle that is promoted world wide in music, tv, movies and sports. "The black experience" That's what these women of other races are entertaining.. And what is that going to lead too?


Hell most of the black women who KNOW better than to deal with black men like that still do it. So what do you think people of other races and nationalities are going to do.


No one is checking for average black men like they check for average white men.

Black men are sex object's to the world just like black women are.


not sex symbols, just straight objects.

 

[agnosticlady]

If you had watched the interview you would know that he actively his his children from most of those women. Your arguments don't explain the deadbeat problem among biracial children with black fathers. A group of women does not go from a single parenthood rate of 20% to 80% because of her "bad choices". There is a penchant for abandoning parental responsibility among black males.

So that explains why he wasn't in the other kids life? He already has older kids saying that they never really got to know their father. 34 kids by 17 different women and you can not even financially or emotionally support all your kids? Way to deflect on the stupidity of them women allowing themselves to get pregnant MULTIPLE times by him. Too many black women are allowing themselves to be easy prey and opening their legs for any man.
Regardless of that those women were stupid enough to allow themselves to get pregnant. Standards are really low in the black community and too many black women are letting worthless men give them kids. Stop expecting a worthless man to become a good father. Instead start choosing great men to be fathers of your children.Too many black women lack self accountability. You have black women allow unemployed broke men to get them pregnant then they complain when he can;t financially support the child.

 

[agnosticlady]

A lot of Black American women don't think in terms of marriage first and then kids!

They just pop out the kids and then try to pick up the pieces and build afterward. It's the most ass backward shyt currently going in our community.

In many other black populated countries people look down upon you for having kids out of wedlock. The child needs a father.

 

[mamba]

In many other black populated countries people look down upon you for having kids out of wedlock. The child needs a father.

Yes. That's why I made it clear that it's primarily a Black American phenomenon.

Our culture and value system is fundamentally broken.

 

[bcrusaderw]

There's also a large percentage of women with underdeveloped minds who choose to procreate with said deadbeats. I agree. It's a big problem and is destroying the Black community in the process.

Wouldn't the males abandoning their offspring in droves have underdeveloped minds as well, or is that something you reserve for women only?

A lot of Black American women don't think in terms of marriage first and then kids!

They just pop out the kids and then try to pick up the pieces and build afterward. It's the most ass backward shyt currently going in our community.

Apparently neither do the women with the highest rates of marriage when procreating with black males.

So that explains why he wasn't in the other kids life? He already has older kids saying that they never really got to know their father. 34 kids by 17 different women and you can not even financially or emotionally support all your kids? Way to deflect on the stupidity of them women allowing themselves to get pregnant MULTIPLE times by him. Too many black women are allowing themselves to be easy prey and opening their legs for any man.
Regardless of that those women were stupid enough to allow themselves to get pregnant. Standards are really low in the black community and too many black women are letting worthless men give them kids. Stop expecting a worthless man to become a good father. Instead start choosing great men to be fathers of your children.Too many black women lack self accountability. You have black women allow unemployed broke men to get them pregnant then they complain when he can;t financially support the child.

Again if you had watched the interview you'd know that he actually has quite a lucrative career. He actively hid his other children from most of the women that he procreated with. The argument is that the "great men" are not in plethora in our community. Pulling up any kind of social stats will verify that.

That's because they are more than likely women from other races looking to engage in the fantasy hiphop or player lifestyle that is promoted world wide in music, tv, movies and sports. "The black experience" That's what these women of other races are entertaining.. And what is that going to lead too?


Hell most of the black women who KNOW better than to deal with black men like that still do it. So what do you think people of other races and nationalities are going to do.


No one is checking for average black men like they check for average white men.

Black men are sex object's to the world just like black women are.


not sex symbols, just straight objects.

I thought average black men went to other races of women because black women only chose the deadbeats. Which is are non-black women getting with deadbeats or average black men. Or perhaps those two are synonymous more often than not?

 

[mamba]

Wouldn't the males abandoning their offspring in droves have underdeveloped minds as well, or is that something you reserve for women only?

Yes. Those deadbeats also have underdeveloped minds. That's par for the course!

 

[Arishok]

Key word there is "supposed".

Expect every Black man to be a leader, brehettes.

Expect Black men who demonstrate no leadership qualities prior to knocking you up to magically transform into seasoned leaders of households afterward, brehettes.

Chase after nikkas who are proven followers (chasing trends, etc.) and be surprised when they are not leaders, brehettes.

If you're after a nikka that's a carbon copy of every other nikka out here, you don't have a leader on your hands. Yet, you expect him to lead when the time comes?

Leaders aren't followers. Followers aren't leaders. Vast majority of these nikkas yall get wet over are followers (same tats, same cuts, same wardrobes, same cars, same shoes, etc. as the next nikka).

Y'all

I don't have multiple children by different men and all the dudes I've been with don't have children either, try again.

 

[Blackout]

Both, I know plenty of black women who lay up with black men, knowing they have children from other women they don't take care of.

I do put most of the blame on the men though, stop having children and abandoning them. Condoms are a lot cheaper than birth control.

I feel that but those men are like scammers.

I can blame scammers all I want but that isn't gonna stop me from being scammed.

Defensive measures is key

 

[The Mad Titan]

I thought average black men went to other races of women because black women only chose the deadbeats. Which is are non-black women getting with deadbeats or average black men. Or perhaps those two are synonymous more often than not?

Average black men and women get in were they fit in is what I tend to gather. I said in my post that black women (and the more attractive the truer this is) let these dead beat, player, hiphop influenced black men that give off those illusions smash before some average black dude that's working a 9-5. Honestly its no different with white people... the thing with white people is they will kill a baby in a heart beat... I need to find the abortion numbers I promise you white people and asian are at the top. White probably blacks and mexicans at the bottom.

Women of other races actively searching for black men..probably gonna end up with a deadbeat asap. Simply because that's what is promoted in the media. White people of all types are promoted as a "good catch" in the media. Its not the case for us black people.

 

[LadySimone]

Yea... a certain type of Black man both African American and non-black women are attracted too.....

Lol. No one knows how to choose a black man it seems.

 

[Michael9100]

Lol. No one knows how to choose a black man it seems.

I'm just saying African American women are shallow.... I'm sure I can look through The Salon and to see that you've proved my point...

 

[bcrusaderw]

I'm just saying African American women are shallow.... I'm sure I can look through The Salon and to see that you've proved my point...

 

[agnosticlady]

Lol. No one knows how to choose a black man it seems.

The point is that there are too many women allowing themselves to get pregnant by worthless men instead of upstanding men. Then they are surprised when the men aren't good fathers. It's like getting a job at Burger King not thinking and then you're surprised that you have to work in a hot greasy environment, deal with extremely rude customers, be on your feet all day, and get paid little nothing with barely any benefits.

 

[bcrusaderw]

The point is that there are too many women allowing themselves to get pregnant by worthless men instead of upstanding men. Then they are surprised when the men aren't good fathers. It's like getting a job at Burger King not thinking and then you're surprised that you have to work in a hot greasy environment, deal with extremely rude customers, be on your feet all day, and get paid little nothing with barely any benefits.

The point we are trying to make is that if across racial lines women are procreating with black male deadbeats then just perhaps maybe there might just be a problem with black males being deadbeats. Clearly the instance of deadbeats is high among black males, or women who traditionally don't have high rates of single parenthood wouldn't see their rates increase when procreating with black males. This isn't seen with any other group. Where's that personal responsibility you love to blabber on and on about?