Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[agnosticlady]

The point we are trying to make, oh simple one is that if across racial lines women are procreating with black male deadbeats then just perhaps maybe there might just be a problem with black males being deadbeats. Clearly the instance of deadbeays is high among black males, or women who traditionally don't have high rates of single parenthood wouldn't see their rates increased when procreating with black males. This isn't seen with any other group. Where's that personal responsibility you love to blabber on and on about?

Women need to be responsible for who they let into their body. Don't scream, "It's my body" when it comes to abortion and being a slut, but then turn around and say "he got me pregnant, and won't support the child" when you choose to open your legs for a man you are not married to and who has not proven himself as a good father/husband.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Women need to be responsible for who they let into their body. Don't scream, "It's my body" when it comes to abortion and being a slut, but then turn around and say "he got me pregnant, and won't support the child" when you choose to open your legs for a man you are not married to and who has not proven himself as a good father/husband.

Continue to ignore the central argument. Human nature dictates that people need human contact to function properly, so people are going to procreate. If the group most available to you has a high percentage of deadbeats should people just ignore the human need for contact, so that they won't be abandoned with children. Black males need to stop abandoning their parental responsibility.

 

[agnosticlady]

Continue to ignore the central argument. Human nature dictates that people need human contact to function properly, so people are going to procreate. If the group most available to you has a high percentage of deadbeats should people just ignore the human need for contact, so that they won't be abandoned with children. Black males need to stop abandoning their parental responsibility.

Again black women need to stop procreating with worthless men. Why don't more black women get married to upstanding black men and black men who have something going for themselves?Why don't they have kids with those types of men? I see too many black women having kids with men who aren't upstanding. At the most he has a job, and I guess he's a nice person from time to time, but that's as far as it goes.

 

[mamba]

The point we are trying to make is that if across racial lines women are procreating with black male deadbeats then just perhaps maybe there might just be a problem with black males being deadbeats. Clearly the instance of deadbeats is high among black males, or women who traditionally don't have high rates of single parenthood wouldn't see their rates increase when procreating with black males. This isn't seen with any other group. Where's that personal responsibility you love to blabber on and on about?

No. What kind of bullshyt is that? There's no higher incidence of deadbeats among Black males? Just both Black and non-Black women deciding to open their legs to a certain "type" of Black man.

 

[mamba]

Lol. No one knows how to choose a black man it seems.

A lot of women get it right. They are typically the ones with fully developed minds and aren't functionally retarded.

 

[bcrusaderw]

No. What kind of bullshyt is that? There's no higher incidence of deadbeats among Black males? Just both Black and non-Black women deciding to open their legs to a certain "type" of Black man.

Convenient argument. It's everyone else's fault and not you.

 

[mamba]

Continue to ignore the central argument. Human nature dictates that people need human contact to function properly, so people are going to procreate. If the group most available to you has a high percentage of deadbeats should people just ignore the human need for contact, so that they won't be abandoned with children. Black males need to stop abandoning their parental responsibility.

So the need for human interaction now equals the need to simply pump out babies?

So, women have no control other than to pump out babies by whatever man happens to be around?

That totally kills the "my body" argument.

 

[mamba]

Convenient argument. It's everyone else's fault and not you.

I'm not a deadbeat.

I don't have any children.

 

[bcrusaderw]

I'm not a deadbeat.

I don't have any children.

General statement.

So the need for human interaction now equals the need to simply pump out babies?

So, women have no control other than to pump out babies by whatever man happens to be around?

That totally kills the "my body" argument.

That's not what I'm saying at all. I'm saying that the human need for contact will trump all. When dealing with a population that has a high number of deadbeats these are the results you will get. Your suggestion that women choose better is laughable. Where is the mythical overabundance of better? Then when women try to choose better they get labeled as gold diggers.

 

[mamba]

That's not what I'm saying at all. I'm saying that the human need for contact will trump all. When dealing with a population that has a high number of deadbeats these are the results you will get. Your suggestion that women choose better is laughable. Where is the mythical overabundance of better? Then when women try to choose better they get labeled as gold diggers.

So, better automatically equals wealthy man? We're not talking binaries here: broke nikka v. wealthy nikka.

There are plenty of "regular" Black men to marry and start a family.

Black women need to stop making excuses as to why they let a nikka who has nothing going for himself skeet up in them raw.

I'd rather have a lower birth rate in the Black community than a bunch of fatherless kids.

Quality >>>> Quantity.

 

[bcrusaderw]

So, better automatically equals wealthy man? We're not talking binaries here: broke nikka v. wealthy nikka.

There are plenty of "regular" Black men to marry and start a family.

Black women need to stop making excuses as to why they let a nikka who has nothing going for himself skeet up in them raw.

I'd rather have a lower birth rate in the Black community than a bunch of fatherless kids.

Quality >>>> Quantity.

Where?
I'm not disputing the fact that there are great black men out there. There are. They're just not the majority. And there certainly aren't enough to go around for every woman that wants one.

 

[Blackout]

Where?

Hi....

 

[bcrusaderw]

Hi....

You don't even want to date black women anymore.

That post needs to be amended. I'm not disputing the fact that there are great black men out there. There are. They're just not the majority.

 

[Blackout]

You don't even want to date black women anymore.

Since when?

Black women are always my preferred type of woman. I ain't no c00n

 

[bcrusaderw]

Since when?

Black women are always my preferred type of woman. I ain't no c00n

Shall I bring receipts?