Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[MikelArteta]

Oh word? Since when?

um i dated a half breed last year for a 3 months, and this year canoodled with one

 

[Elle Driver]

um i dated a half breed last year for a 3 months, and this year canoodled with one

So you went half black? Lmao

Gotta start somewhere.

 

[MikelArteta]

So you went half black? Lmao

Gotta start somewhere.

full black to

 

[Elle Driver]

full black to

Why is your old ass still canoodling

 

[agnosticlady]

You still haven't answered my question about the fatherless rates seen in all children with black fathers.

I clearly stated those women choose shytty men and also have their kids out of wedlock. let's not act like this doesn't happen. Boy meets girl. Girl let's boy get her pregnant. Boy leaves because he wasn't ish to began with. Also let's no act like some women do not willing marry terrible men then have some lame epiphany later realizing their man is terrible.

Now why do these women go back and have more kids out of wedlock.

 

[thirdeye]

Why is your old ass still canoodling

"Committment is the male vagina"

 

[MikelArteta]

Why is your old ass still canoodling

im 30, im still a young black male with chubby cheeks and a baby face

plus why settle for some thot whose on instagram with 1000 followers, and chatting to 15 dudes on whatsapp a day

nah

 

[Elle Driver]

im 30, im still a young black male with chubby cheeks and a baby face

plus why settle for some thot whose on instagram with 1000 followers, and chatting to 15 dudes on whatsapp a day

nah

But you're old you should settle down.

 

[MikelArteta]

But you're old you should settle down.

im 30, and im a male


you married 34 year old manuel

i still got 4 years to find my elle :kony:

 

[Michael9100]

Oh no I know that. I'm taking specifically to and about coli men. They spend all day on here talking bad about "Treyvathian" and call other black men thugs and deadbeats. But when it comes to child rearing and creating, they think exactly the same way as those men. A black woman would end up just as much of a single mother dealing with them and their self hatred as they would dealing with the men they claim they are better than.

Come on.... I know what type of black men that African American women like...... I can easily look through this forum and see that "substance" isn't the reason why you like them..... A lot of bullshyt African American women go through, in regards to men, they bring it on themselves....

 

[Elle Driver]

im 30, and im a male


you married 34 year old manuel

i still got 4 years to find my elle :kony:

His name is not Manuel

Why didn't you get a old thot a wedding gift?

 

[thirdeye]

plus why settle for some thot whose on instagram with 1000 followers, and chatting to 15 dudes on whatsapp a day

Well, you're supposed to be choosing better women lmao not settling lol, older folks tend to settle..you're still young

 

[mamba]

It doesn't matter what your preferences are. If you have a kid, then get over yourself and do the right thing. If you want to be a loser, you should have thought about that before impregnating someone. That is what I learned from these discussions.

These men were not all related to me, but they were all in agreement that men need to deal with scumbags in only a way that other men can. That didn't involve anyone in relation to me, so I didn't care. But it was refreshing to hear such a sense of honor and lack of cowardice.

No, I did not hear anyone blaming women. Not when it was just hypothetical discussions about deadbeats in general, and not down the line when they were actually talking about a real scenario. They didn't blame women because they think that men need to be responsible for any children they create.

I'm totally with men checking other men. Men should check deadbeats. Men do check deadbeats.

But, when are women going to ever check women?

I know a woman whose best friend is dating a loser man. Instead of giving her friend some real talk, she just takes the "that's none of my business" stance.

So, as a man, I'm supposed to go and check some loser dude before he knocks up her friend?

Or, as a woman, should she give her friend some real talk?

 

[Elle Driver]

I'm totally with men checking other men. Men should check deadbeats. Men do check deadbeats.

But, when are women going to ever check women?

Men don't check dead beats as much as they should.

 

[Blackout]

Anyone with a brain can see that black males have a penchant for abandoning their offspring across racial lines. That is a pervasive problem among black males that they need to fix themselves.

Black men are fixing themselves everyday b

We cant fix other black men who have some black women enabling them to be deadbeat dads.