I don't know man people just go in circles with this
I think there's just a general lackadaisical
about pregnancies in our community. even though so many kids are born out of wedlock a lot of these fathers are in the kids lives but its just like neither party is stressing about having an intact family unit. in the case of the single mothers who's guy ran off that reality hits real quick about how hard it is to raise a kid by themselves. and some of the women once they have one they care even less and get run through and have like 2-3 kids in a 4 year period (sadly I've seen this multiple times).
and why are we expecting the type of dudes who'd run out on their kids to shape up when so many of us grow up in an environment where that type shows up and same for the women who are on the same level just letting a dude in raw. if both didn't want a kid he would be like
let me put this condom on and she would be 
where yo condom at?. but those interactions go:
condom!? I can't even feel it with those things on. nikka just pull out, raw feels better anyway.I guess the men could go even harder on deadbeats and basically make them pariah's in the community. make life miserable for em
but it's hard to do that because how do you know he's a deadbeat unless he's well known in the community?
women and men gotta try harder to drill it into these girls heads that you having no protection at all against pregnancy is a losing formula. you've got way more sacrifices and responsibility if you get pregnant by a man who you aren't married to or sure is a good dude.
outside sources can only do so much a lot of this stuff could be toned down a lot at home but we have so many broken families out here
