So, even women with a proven ability to pick fathers that will stick around for their offspring just so happen to get with the "rare" black male deadbeat when getting with black males. If that isn't the height of unaccountability. As I stated before women having multiple children OOW are responsible. Now, let's get back to the only party involved in ALL of these cases of abandoned children.
Arent you supposed to be men? I thought men led?
I don't know man people just go in circles with this
I think there's just a general lackadaisicalabout pregnancies in our community. even though so many kids are born out of wedlock a lot of these fathers are in the kids lives but its just like neither party is stressing about having an intact family unit.
in the case of the single mothers who's guy ran off that reality hits real quick about how hard it is to raise a kid by themselves. and some of the women once they have one they care even less and get run through and have like 2-3 kids in a 4 year period (sadly I've seen this multiple times).
and why are we expecting the type of dudes who'd run out on their kids to shape up when so many of us grow up in an environment where that type shows up and same for the women who are on the same level just letting a dude in raw. if both didn't want a kid he would be likelet me put this condom on and she would be
where yo condom at?. but those interactions go:
condom!? I can't even feel it with those things on.
I guess the men could go even harder on deadbeats and basically make them pariah's in the community. make life miserable for embut it's hard to do that because how do you know he's a deadbeat unless he's well known in the community?
women and men gotta try harder to drill it into these girls heads that you having no protection at all against pregnancy is a losing formula. you've got way more sacrifices and responsibility if you get pregnant by a man who you aren't married to or sure is a good dude.
outside sources can only do so much a lot of this stuff could be toned down a lot at home but we have so many broken families out here
We only lead who follow.
They'll even get nonblack women to toss it their way too as apparently all women have an affinity for the "rare" deadbeat black male.
Make whatever face you want but a woman choosing to let these aint shyt men fukk them is giving them a reward for their bad behavior.
The problem is that too many of you exhibit the bad behavior. A woman involving herself with a black male will most likely end up with someone exhibiting that behavior.
Yet many of those black men who dont exhibit that behavior get rejected for not being above average looking or popular lol.The problem is that too many of you exhibit the bad behavior. A woman involving herself with a black male will most likely end up with someone exhibiting that behavior.
And I don't know why you tagged me in that dark-skinned women nonsense thread you made the other day as I am neither dark-skinned, nor do I advocate for black men to date dark-skinned women. I only advocate for you all to tell the truth that you think black looks better with significant amounts of white DNA mixed into it.
