Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

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The problem is that too many of you exhibit the bad behavior. A woman involving herself with a black male will most likely end up with someone exhibiting that behavior. :manny:

No. A small subset of Black men exhibit that behavior. That small subset also happens to be the group the media has programmed you all into thinking are most exciting and attractive.

Most Black men are just trying to survive out here.
 

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They'll even get nonblack women to toss it their way as well too as apparently all women have an affinity for the "rare" deadbeat black male.

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ima be real every white women I see with a biracial kid is a hog:heh:

I remember this little chubby girl ran into the store looked 100% white but her hair was 100% black. I was like :wtf: and she walked past this black guy and he did a double take with the :dahell:. I saw the momma like 5 seconds later and it was all clear
 

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Honestly such a teeny portion of the population.
Youd think this" teeny portion" of the population would be valued like rare gems and not rejected lol.

Setting a bad example for up and coming black men who see aint shyt black men get rewarded.
 

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And I don't know why you tagged me in that dark skinned women nonsense thread as you made the other day as I am neither dark-skinned, nor do I advocate for black men to date dark-skinned women. I only advocate for you all to tell the truth that you think black looks better with significant amounts of white DNA mixed into it.

I advocate for Black men to exercise their free will in the dating game. They don't have to date dark. They don't have to date light.

They don't even have to date Black if they don't want to. Everyone has preferences. Black men shouldn't be shamed into dating anyone.

Black women certainly don't like Black men shaming them into dating certain types of Black men.
 

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I advocate for Black men to exercise their free will in the dating game. They don't have to date dark. They don't have to date light.

They don't even have to date Black if they don't want to. Everyone has preferences. Black men shouldn't be shamed into dating anyone.

Black women certainly don't like Black men shaming them into dating certain types of Black men.
And you all do at twice the rate of black women. I've never been one to advocate IR for black women, but the answer is clear.
 

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Youd think this" teeny portion" of the population would be valued like rare gems and not rejected lol.

Setting a bad example for up and coming black men who see aint shyt black men get rewarded.
They are. They get snatched up quick then everyone else is left with the plethora of deadbeats.
 

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*irresponsible

You do realize that there are MANY black women doing that right? Going back and having more kids out of wedlock after the first kid. I rarely meet a black woman with a child/children out of wedlock that has just one kid out of wedlock. It usually takes 2+ kids for them to realize their mistake.
 

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They are. They get snatched up quick then everyone else is left with the plethora of deadbeats.
No they dont :mjlol:

Those same men who "get snatched up quick" usually go through years geting rejected by women and getting tessed by male peers who went the playa/aint shyt route until a smart woman gives them a chance. :dead:
 

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You do realize that there are MANY black women doing that right? Going back and having more kids out of wedlock after the first kid. I rarely meet a black woman with a child/children out of wedlock that has just one kid out of wedlock. It usually takes 2+ kids for them to realize their mistake.
And there are MANY black men littering b*stards across the globe. Your point?
 

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No they dont :mjlol:

Those same men who "get snatched up quick" usually go through years geting rejected by women and getting tessed by male peers who went the playa route until a smart woman gives them a chance. :dead:
I'm not understanding your point? The fact of the matter is that due to the huge population difference between Black American women and Black American men, and Black American men's dismal social stats there are not enough non deadbeats for every black woman who wants one. The impulse to procreate is strong, and thus that leaves women to procreate with what is available to them. Which is why I am a big advocate for free and readily available sterilization.
 

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And there are MANY black men littering b*stards across the globe. Your point?

Why are black women allowing themselves to get pregnant by men who have not given them their last name? You said that you don't want kids so what's stopping you from "mistakenly" getting pregnant? I want kids, but I want to have them in wedlock, so why haven't I gotten pregnant yet? Why is it that we haven't gotten pregnant yet but there are many black women allowing themselves to get pregnant?
 

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Go for it. :yeshrug:

No one is stopping Black women from marrying other men.

Are "bad" Black men preventing Black women from doing that, too?
No, some kind of twisted sense of loyalty to one of the most disloyal groups in the US prevents Black women from doing that.
 
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