Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[PartyHeart]

black feminist are fools. literally, the only thing that will protect us (black patriarchy), is the main thing they fight against.

Your idea of patriarchy isn't even a patriarchy, its just black women abandoning their kids like black men do.

Your patriarchy isn't a patriarchy because it speaks nothing of going after other races of men, or even owning, providing and making the lives of the woman and children comfortable. It is literally just focused on getting black women to 'submit' so you can feel better about yourselves after other communities' men stomp you.

Your patriarchy literally forbids black men of being accountable, blaming every action they take and every outcome in their life on the women around them. Especially the one who stuck around to raise them.

Even if a black woman was a proponent of being taken care of, she would be an idiot to sign up for what you are advertising.

"Hey ladies, come let me lord over you, have you contribute just as much to the household as I do financially in addition to cooking, cleaning and rearing kids, and then be blamed for picking me if anything ever goes wrong in our relationship."

 

[bcrusaderw]

Women don't build shyt.

When women show me the skyscrapers they've designed and built, they can talk shyt.

When women can show me the manufacturing companies they've built, they can talk shyt.

Even the smartphones, tablets and computers they are typing on were designed and manufactured by companies built by men.

Which men?

 

[A1aaa]

Hyperbole. I've stated multiple times that there are good black men. They are just a rarity.

this is who y'all are arguing with... a rational man would see it's really not worth the effort to even try...

 

[bcrusaderw]

this is who y'all are arguing with... a rational man would see it's really not worth the effort to even try...

Rational and man being in the same sentence.

 

[marcuz]

Your idea of patriarchy isn't even a patriarchy, its just black women abandoning their kids like black men do.

no, that's just what you're trying to make patriarchy out to be, with your false comparisons to our pseudo matriarchy. all in an effort to disprove the idea that our communities are indeed, matriarchal.

 

[agnosticlady]

if you dumped kids off on the aint shyt nikkas y'all love, it would be patriarchal by default. that doesn't mean it would be a thriving patriarchy, that could compete with other races.

but BW would never position themselves like that, because y'all WANT matriarchy. y'all want to start broken homes with subordinate men.

want proof? would you, as a black feminist, follow a black mans lead and authority if he were on point?

The thing is that patriarchy requires cooperation, structure, and accountability. A lot of black feminist do not want that, so they prefer docile black men who are at their beck and call.

As black feminist/womanist and etc what they have done in the past 40 years for the black community socially, politically, economically, and industrial wise.They will have mostly nothing to show for it. They are good at organizing rallies, marches, and etc. At the same time they haven't done much but talked on and on and on. With a patriarchy things will get done.

 

[PartyHeart]

if you dumped kids off on the aint shyt nikkas y'all love, it would be patriarchal by default. that doesn't mean it would be a thriving patriarchy, that could compete with other races.

but BW would never position themselves like that, because y'all WANT matriarchy. y'all want to start broken homes with subordinate men.

want proof? would you, as a black feminist, follow a black mans lead and authority if he were on point?

No. Because just as you do not feel it is some inevitability that you have to follow any woman who you meet in life just because they are on point, I do not believe that for myself. And no man who I have ever been with, including my current even feels the need to push that on me, probably because I only deal with men with healthy self esteem.

 

[PartyHeart]

no, that's just what you're trying to make patriarchy out to be, with your false comparisons to our pseudo matriarchy. all in an effort to disprove the idea that our communities are indeed, matriarchal.

Nope, its exactly what you've explained it as every time and I'm glad you confirmed it all for others to see. You think a matriarchy exists in our community because black men abandon their children, and that you could create a patriarchy by black women abandoning instead.

Again,

Your patriarchy isn't a patriarchy because it speaks nothing of going after other races of men, or even owning, providing and making the lives of the woman and children comfortable. It is literally just focused on getting black women to 'submit' so you can feel better about yourselves after other communities' men stomp you.

Your patriarchy literally forbids black men of being accountable, blaming every action they take and every outcome in their life on the women around them. Especially the one who stuck around to raise them.

Even if a black woman was a proponent of being taken care of, she would be an idiot to sign up for what you are advertising.

"Hey ladies, come let me lord over you, have you contribute just as much to the household as I do financially in addition to cooking, cleaning and rearing kids, and then be blamed for picking me if anything ever goes wrong in our relationship."

 

[marcuz]

No. Because just as you do not feel it is some inevitability that you have to follow any woman who you meet in life just because they are on point, I do not believe that for myself. And no man who I have ever been with, including my current even feels the need to push that on me, probably because I only deal with men with healthy self esteem.

that's all that needs to be said.

even if the black man is on point and handling his business; you will STILL reject him. then your type usually chooses to get pregnant by a nikka that has NOTHING going for him. cus yall like that level of control. you want to wear the fukking pants.

 

[marcuz]

Nope, its exactly what you've explained it as every time and I'm glad you confirmed it all for others to see. You think a matriarchy exists in our community because black men abandon their children, and that you could create a patriarchy by black women abandoning instead.

Again,

Your patriarchy isn't a patriarchy because it speaks nothing of going after other races of men, or even owning, providing and making the lives of the woman and children comfortable. It is literally just focused on getting black women to 'submit' so you can feel better about yourselves after other communities' men stomp you.

Your patriarchy literally forbids black men of being accountable, blaming every action they take and every outcome in their life on the women around them. Especially the one who stuck around to raise them.

Even if a black woman was a proponent of being taken care of, she would be an idiot to sign up for what you are advertising.

"Hey ladies, come let me lord over you, have you contribute just as much to the household as I do financially in addition to cooking, cleaning and rearing kids, and then be blamed for picking me if anything ever goes wrong in our relationship."

just stop, you've already shot yourself in the foot. you dont believe in following black male leadership, that's all that needs to be said. creating all these bullshyt hypotheticals is irrelevant at this point.

 

[PartyHeart]

that's all that needs to be said.

even if the black man is on point and handling his business; you will STILL reject him. then your type usually chooses to get pregnant by a nikka that has NOTHING going for him. cus yall like that level of control. you want to wear the fukking pants.

I'm married. There are men out there who don't need their women to lower themselves to feel good. You will deal.

 

[marcuz]

I'm married. There are men out there who don't need their women to lower themselves to feel good. You will deal.

that's good to hear, man. what's his ethnicity?

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

'Fatherlessness' in the IR community is just as prevalent as it is in the black community when the paternal party is black. Is every woman playing this game with black men and black men only?

Eventually you all have to own up. It can't be everybody else forever. It can't be.

You act like black men havent been shamed about this for the better part of 4 decades

black feminist are fools. literally, the only thing that will protect us (black patriarchy), is the main thing they fight against.

 

[PartyHeart]

that's good to hear, man. what's his ethnicity?

He's black. Hope that helps.

You act like black men havent been shamed about this for the better part of 4 decades

You say that like they shouldn't have been

 

[marcuz]

He's black. Hope that helps.

well black isn't an ethnicity, so no.