Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[mamba]

i did answer you, because MEN build and maintain the physical infrastructure of the community. men BUILD and maintain the patriarchy that women and children benefit from.

you can try to teach women leadership, but you still wont go out and BUILD. or even if y'all did build, you would no longer be desirable. who wants some masculine black women that thinks and acts exactly like a man?

Women don't build shyt.

When women show me the skyscrapers they've designed and built, they can talk shyt.

When women can show me the manufacturing companies they've built, they can talk shyt.

Even the smartphones, tablets and computers they are typing on were designed and manufactured by companies built by men.

 

[Elle Driver]

you black women play a sick fukking game. you run from patriarchal men because you feel black male leadership is inherently oppressive. you want the freedom to live hwo you choose to live. then you blame the nikkas y'all used as sperm donors for not sticking around--even though 9/10, the nikka y'all chose has NOTHING to offer you or his offspring.

it's such a sick fukking game, man

What patriarchal men exactly?

 

[marcuz]

Which physical infrastructures are you referring to and are you referring to black men building and maintaining them? Because.

And again I ask you: remember when you defined a matriarchy as an absence of a father in the home, and said the Black community would be a patriarchy if black women abandoned black children en masse and left them with black men?

once more, "the physical infrastructure of any given community." what do you understand? go to your local blighted neighborhood, and you will see a community that needs repair, and women wont be the ones doing it.

and yes, i remember. what's your point?

 

[agnosticlady]

i did answer you, because MEN build and maintain the physical infrastructure of the community. men BUILD and maintain the patriarchy that women and children benefit from.

you can try to teach women leadership, but you still wont go out and BUILD. or even if y'all did build, you would no longer be desirable. who wants some masculine black women that thinks and acts exactly like a man?

Exactly. Black women keep talking about how we are independent and can do everything on our own without realizing the damn roads that you are driving on aren't even paved by women. Many fail to realize men do not want some head honcho masculine chick. I have a close friend who is a complete tom boy. She was wondering why guys didn't approach her. I had to be honest and tell her that she needs to change her style. Get rid of the basketball shorts, try different hair styles, stop wearing the jordan flip flops, and etc. It sounds really cruel but it is the truth. A man does not want another man.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Which physical infrastructures are you referring to and are you referring to black men building and maintaining them? Because.

And again I ask you: remember when you defined a matriarchy as an absence of a father in the home, and said the Black community would be a patriarchy if black women abandoned black children en masse and left them with black men?

I didn't want to touch on that, but

 

[marcuz]

What patriarchal men exactly?

exactly. at this point, true patriarchs in the black community are damn near dinosaurs. y'all have fed BM the equality/feminist lie for decades.

but y'all still dont see how it's biting y'all in the ass with every passing generation.

 

[agnosticlady]

@agnosticlady are you a black woman??

Yes I am. Off topic didn't you ask me a question about keeping 4c hair moisturized? If you did I forgot to answer it. My apologies. I can inbox you some info if you still want it.

 

[marcuz]

Yes, she is.

proof

 

[PartyHeart]

Yes, she is.

Now you know

oh you're damn right. fatherless white women fall for the same trap. it's no secret that the BM is where you go as a woman, when you want to run the ship.

and make no mistake about it, this is a black male issue. but i'm focused on the BLACK WOMAN that raised this man and gave him all of her core values for 18 years

And its also where they go to get divorced at high rates too Okay.

Just to be clear what we are going with is that when any woman on the planet gets with a black man she is getting with a certain type--very few in number I'm sure--for the sole purpose of being abandoned with children, cheated on, and have to file for divorce (if they got to the marriage stage).

At the same time, there is an abundance of black men that are the exact opposite of that, who are true leaders, that if women just picked them and abandoned their kids and let the men raise them alone, would result in a perfect black patriarchy. Did I get it right?

 

[marcuz]

black feminist are fools. literally, the only thing that will protect us (black patriarchy), is the main thing they fight against.

 

[Elle Driver]

exactly. at this point, true patriarchs in the black community are damn near dinosaurs. y'all have fed BM the equality/feminist lie for decades.

but y'all still dont see how it's biting y'all in the ass with every passing generation.

Lol but that was a genuine question. What patriarchal men? What black male leadership? I don't think black women as a collective would have a problem with it tbh. The community would be in a lot better shape.

 

[mamba]

I didn't want to touch on that, but

As if Black men have never worked in construction.

 

[agnosticlady]

As if Black men have never worked in construction.

Yeah, I'm wondering where they get that info from....

 

[marcuz]

Now you know



And its also where they go to get divorced at high rates too Okay.

Just to be clear what we are going with is that when any woman on the planet gets with a black man she is getting with a certain type--very few in number I'm sure--for the sole purpose of being abandoned with children, cheated on, and have to file for divorce (if they got to the marriage stage).

At the same time, there is an abundance of black men that are the exact opposite of that, who are true leaders, that if women just picked them and abandoned their kids and let the men raise them alone, would result in a perfect black patriarchy. Did I get it right?

if you dumped kids off on the aint shyt nikkas y'all love, it would be patriarchal by default. that doesn't mean it would be a thriving patriarchy, that could compete with other races.

but BW would never position themselves like that, because y'all WANT matriarchy. y'all want to start broken homes with subordinate men.

want proof? would you, as a black feminist, follow a black mans lead and authority if he were on point?

 

[bcrusaderw]

As if Black men have never worked in construction.

Of course you have, but to act as if you've built the majority of this country is ludicrous. That's not even discussing the disarray of the continent where you are the male majority.