Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[Elle Driver]

younger than manuel

You mean Danilo.

According to @agnosticlady, its beneficial to have a big age gap between spouses.

 

[PartyHeart]

Black women need to stop picking shytty men and entertaining dysfunctional relationships. Let's not even get into how some black women are so desperate for a non black man and will take a shytty non black man over a good black man. I'll let that cook though

Link?

 

[MikelArteta]

Far far far from true. There are way more good black men than shytty ones they're just being over shadowed by the idiots. And black men have a hypersexual and masculine stereotype they feel they have to live up to, so that leaves all the normal, well rounded, good black guys either in their niche with their female counter parts or they're left behind. But all the good ones are usually quiet and its odd because as black women we are so used to bold, loud, and brash black men.

thank you
well evne look at this forum, dudes laughing at russell wilson because he aint thinking with his dikk

 

[MikelArteta]

You mean Danilo.

According to @agnosticlady, its beneficial to have a big age gap between spouses.

its true im 30 and i'll only a date a woman 21-25

that 26-30 year old woman will be there when im 35

 

[Elle Driver]

That was a different Black man, brehette.

The Black American man is not a chief, elder or king.

He's a reactionary, fad-driven follower whose masculinity is predicated on what white media has told him about himself (hypersexual, loud, etc.)

No its the black man before his masculinity was taken from him by force (his balls ripped off), his woman taken from him, his family, everything. But he's still here. You can't play into it.

 

[PartyHeart]

You mean Danilo.

According to @agnosticlady, its beneficial to have a big age gap between spouses.

And to be in polygamous relationships. Only the ones with multiple wives though. None of that multiple husbands abomination.

What a woman

 

[marcuz]

Yeah. I think people underestimate the degree to which Black men are followers.

nikkas are the ultimate followers--more so than any other group of men.

It's sad when you think about it!

I don't know what it is, but the Black man isn't a natural leader. Even that half cac Obama isn't a leader of men.

well lets see, you raise a black male in a matriarchal home. only to expect him to become a patriarchal leader @ 18, how does that work?

i say it time and time again, leadership is not an intrinsic quality in men. it takes being TAUGHT leadership, along with being given the provisions required TO LEAD. but black women want to raise lil matriarchal simps, only to cry foul when they don't morph into a warrior class in adulthood.

 

[Elle Driver]

its true im 30 and i'll only a date a woman 21-25

that 26-30 year old woman will be there when im 35

My husband is only about 6 years older than me, its not that a big of a age gap. I'm 28.

 

[agnosticlady]

Link?

Oh please let's not act like there aren't black women who will get with a shytty non black because they want that mixed baby, or want to show that they can get a non black man too. I've seen black man do the same. Let's not act like this doesn't happen.

 

[MikelArteta]

My husband is only about 6 years older than me, its not that a big of a age gap. I'm 28.

exactly my point
when im 34,35 a 26-28 year old woman will be there
so why date old raggedy now

 

[mamba]

well lets see, you raise a black male in a matriarchal home. only to expect him to become a patriarchal leader @ 18, how does that work?

i say it time and time again, leadership is not an intrinsic quality in men. it takes being TAUGHT leadership, along with being given the provisions required TO LEAD. but black women want to raise lil matriarchal simps, only to cry foul when they don't morph into a warrior class in adulthood.

Good point.

Black women are out here expecting a warrior class of men when the vast majority of our men these days are being raised by women.

Women don't raise warriors.

 

[PartyHeart]

well lets see, you raise a black male in a matriarchal home. only to expect him to become a patriarchal leader @ 18, how does that work?

i say it time and time again, leadership is not an intrinsic quality in men. it takes being TAUGHT leadership, along with being given the provisions required TO LEAD. but black women want to raise lil matriarchal simps, only to cry foul when they don't morph into a warrior class in adulthood.

Why should men be taught it and not women if its not even intrinsic to men (I'm assuming you're also saying its not intrinsic to women)?

Also, remember when you defined a matriarchy as an absence of a father in the home, and said the Black community would be a patriarchy if black women abandoned black children en masse and left them with black men?

 

[Elle Driver]

exactly my point
when im 34,35 a 26-28 year old woman will be there
so why date old raggedy now

Lmao how you gonna call a woman your age "old raggedy".

 

[agnosticlady]

You mean Danilo.

According to @agnosticlady, its beneficial to have a big age gap between spouses.

I think that it is beneficial. America is one of the only countries that will frown at a 24 years old being with a 37 year old. When I am 24 I see nothing wrong with being with a man that is 37. My father is 13 years older than my mother. Women should come correct and be with good older men, or if dating in their age group get with a man with potential shown through actions. Too many women throw away their youth on frivolous relationships. Then wait until they are 30 to start seriously dating.

 

[MikelArteta]

That was a different Black man, brehette.

The Black American man is not a chief, elder or king.

He's a reactionary, fad-driven follower whose masculinity is predicated on what white media has told him about himself (hypersexual, loud, etc.)

i can just look at a black man and see the fatherlessness dripping

money, sex, material things and instagram likes is what defines most of these fatherless simps