Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

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So magically all the deadbeats will disappear if they stop getting p*ssy? :dead:
Well it will help decrease the number of them.

Men basically do what works and if being a deadbeat isnt working they will change up.
 

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not all but men will start to better themselves.
Nikkaz are followers

If only nikkaz in baggy clothes were considered cool and got puzzy then nikkaz will start rocking baggy clothes

just like how before when women saved themselves for married, gasp Men used to marry

If a man's only goal in life is to "get p*ssy" he is already lost. There is nothing a woman can do or demand to change him. He will just pretend long enough to "get p*ssy" and then ditch her and possibly the child he created in the process. The change will have to come from within.
 

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not all but men will start to better themselves.
Nikkaz are followers

If only nikkaz in baggy clothes were considered cool and got puzzy then nikkaz will start rocking baggy clothes

just like how before when women saved themselves for married, gasp Men used to marry

Yeah. I think people underestimate the degree to which Black men are followers.

nikkas are the ultimate followers--more so than any other group of men.

It's sad when you think about it!

I don't know what it is, but the Black man isn't a natural leader. Even that half cac Obama isn't a leader of men.
 

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Yeah. I think people underestimate the degree to which Black men are followers.

nikkas are the ultimate followers--more so than any other group of men.

It's sad when you think about it!

I don't know what it is, but the Black man isn't a natural leader. Even that half cac Obama isn't a leader of men.
Black man is fit to lead, our ancient civilizations had chiefs, elders, kings and a strict social order and democracy by which society followed. So miss me with that.
 

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Far far far from true. There are way more good black men than shytty ones they're just being over shadowed by the idiots. And black men have a hypersexual and masculine stereotype they feel they have to live up to, so that leaves all the normal, well rounded, good black guys either in their niche with their female counter parts or they're left behind. But all the good ones are usually quiet and its odd because as black women we are so used to bold, loud, and brash black men.

It's sad in that Black men and women have bought into the white man's propaganda.

They said nikkas are hypersexual animals. Black men think we have to live up to it and Black women are programmed by media to desire it.
 

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I suppose you're going to tell me how black women facing higher rates of intraracial violence has nothing to do with black males either. :dead: Then you have the actual gall to lecture me about accountability. What are black males responsible for?

Black women need to stop picking shytty men and entertaining dysfunctional relationships. Let's not even get into how some black women are so desperate for a non black man and will take a shytty non black man over a good black man. I'll let that cook though :sas2:
 

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Black man is fit to lead, our ancient civilizations had chiefs, elders, kings and a strict social order and democracy by which society followed. So miss me with that.

That was a different Black man, brehette.

The Black American man is not a chief, elder or king.

He's a reactionary, fad-driven follower whose masculinity is predicated on what white media has told him about himself (hypersexual, loud, etc.)
 

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If a man's only goal in life is to "get p*ssy" he is already lost. There is nothing a woman can do or demand to change him. He will just pretend long enough to "get p*ssy" and then ditch her and possibly the child he created in the process. The change will have to come from within.
Thats a possibility yet this could have men being raised to take care of black women and be faithful to them but you will never know until you try miss negative nancy.
 
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