Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[MikelArteta]

I didn't marry or have a child with a deadbeat and I'm a woman and yet I recognize its a collective problem that falls on the community.

no its not
the only problem is women opening their legs raw and procreating with nikkaz who aint ish

there isnt a deadbeat problem thee is a women sleeping around with deadbeat problems.

if y'all wanna sleep with the jarkells and the treyvathians at least make sure he wears protection but nah we gon make cute babies, so i can post on instagram and facebook and get likes

 

[bcrusaderw]

You said straight up that there are no good black men


Only a c00n would say that lol

Hyperbole. I've stated multiple times that there are good black men. They are just a rarity.

 

[Elle Driver]

no its not
the only problem is women opening their legs raw and procreating with nikkaz who aint ish

there isnt a deadbeat problem thee is a women sleeping around with deadbeat problems.

if y'all wanna sleep with the jarkells and the treyvathians at least make sure he wears protection but nah we gon make cute babies, so i can post on instagram and facebook and get likes

So magically all the deadbeats will disappear if they stop getting p*ssy?

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Yeah. You're 100% correct.

It's definitely a recipe for disaster.

Black women claim to want leaders but always seem to get knocked up by worthless nikkas!

Somehow, after the fact, they all become experts at defining what a "real" man is!

Yep they all become experts after losing the Super Bowl of Life 40-0. As in real life football, noone else except the other losers on your team(other baby mamas) is taking you seriously. Unlike real life football you are stuck with those Ls for life and can't redeem yourself next season if you pick better in the draft.

 

[mamba]

Hyperbole. I've stated multiple times that there are good black men. They are just a rarity.

Good Black women are just as rare.

 

[Blackout]

Hyperbole. I've stated multiple times that there are good black men. They are just a rarity.

Rarity? No.

They may not be the majority but they aren't a rarity.

They are the ones getting friend zoned and ignored until they finally get a woman and then they magically exist.

 

[PartyHeart]

Why would men wife if women aren't demanding marriage? That's ass backward.

If he can get all the benefits of marriage without wifing, why would he?

You all honestly have no idea what a healthy community looks like.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

The amount of deflecting on the first page alone let's one know this thread was never meant to be taken too seriously...*ducks back out*

 

[MikelArteta]

What thots? You called me a old thot earlier.

It's not as cut and dry, sometimes its naivete too. Believing you can change a man or just all together making the wrong decision as a youngster. Birth control seems to be a issue. Some folks use abortion as a form of birth control and are against condoms and spread around STDs. Its a lot of ignorance flying around. Destruction breeds more destruction.

if im a women :kony: and i see that the out of wedlock at nearly 80%, and see the large amount of snigle mothers out there living in poverty, struggling day to day, and I see no good men are wifing them up you think you think hey I wouldn't want to be in that situation but nah, but nah. My jarkell will be different, he really loves me

 

[Elle Driver]

Hyperbole. I've stated multiple times that there are good black men. They are just a rarity.

Far far far from true. There are way more good black men than shytty ones they're just being over shadowed by the idiots. And black men have a hypersexual and masculine stereotype they feel they have to live up to, so that leaves all the normal, well rounded, good black guys either in their niche with their female counter parts or they're left behind. But all the good ones are usually quiet and its odd because as black women we are so used to bold, loud, and brash black men.

 

[Elle Driver]

if im a women :kony: and i see that the out of wedlock at nearly 80%, and see the large amount of snigle mothers out there living in poverty, struggling day to day, and I see no good men are wifing them up you think you think hey I wouldn't want to be in that situation but nah, but nah. My jarkell will be different, he really loves me

Where's my apology for calling me a old thot?

 

[Kitsch]

Y'all in cahoots.

 

[MikelArteta]

So magically all the deadbeats will disappear if they stop getting p*ssy?

not all but men will start to better themselves.
Nikkaz are followers

If only nikkaz in baggy clothes were considered cool and got puzzy then nikkaz will start rocking baggy clothes

just like how before when women saved themselves for married, gasp Men used to marry

 

[Elle Driver]

not all but men will start to better themselves.
Nikkaz are followers

If only nikkaz in baggy clothes were considered cool and got puzzy then nikkaz will start rocking baggy clothes

just like how before when women saved themselves for married, gasp Men used to marry

Why you insulting your own gender like that, like nikkas don't have brains?

 

[PartyHeart]

This was legit sad reading.. probably one of the most ignorant things you've said on here.. u sounding like lady Simone

agnosticlady's are just as sad tbh. At least bcrusaderw keeps her comments individualized to herself and her relationships.