Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[RebelX]

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/339489/

 

[bcrusaderw]

Yep.

Do I need to keep fixing your posts?

 

[mamba]

I've said on many occasions that America is running on hyperfeminism, especially in the black community. There are black women willingly having kids out of wedlock, shocked that the bum they chose for a father is non existent, and then raising the kid on their own. Then after getting their degree they go on and on about how they did it all by themselves. All of these boys being raised without a father running rampant in the community are MOSTLY raised by single mothers.

I still want to know why some of those same women go and have MORE kids out of wedlock.

Most of the Black men in the prison system come from single parent households.

 

[agnosticlady]

That was a joke, you twit. I don't want patriarchy at all regardless of which color the male in charge is. I'm secure enough in my own capabilities that I don't need another person "leading" me. Perhaps that's what frustrates you so? You know you couldn't lead your way out of a paper bag. Do you have any thoughts that weren't given to you by others?

Docile yes. Unquestioning no. I don't dislike black men at all.

I have many thoughts that belong to me LOL. I've said on many occasions that I love men, and prefer masculine. A docile man is pretty much pathetic. You want a docile man but then cry about black men not protecting black women when the crazy white cops beat us in the streets.

 

[MikelArteta]

This is an excellent analogy and describes a lot of Black women who end us as single mothers.

They didn't do any homework on their purchase. Just copped it sight unseen!

that benz with the leather interior but transmission is gone
but its easy on the eyes and has swag

 

[bcrusaderw]

Why was this bullshyt created by an agent brought in here? I'm ashamed to haven even participated in it

I'm not an agent. I'm a black woman. I'm not a bedwench, nor am I a c00n.

 

[bcrusaderw]

I have many thoughts that belong to me LOL. I've said on many occasions that I love men, and prefer masculine. A docile man is pretty much pathetic. You want a docile man but then cry about black men not protecting black women when the crazy white cops beat us in the streets.

When have I ever cried about that? That would be asinine as the main people beating black women are black men.

 

[Elle Driver]

that benz with the leather interior but transmission is gone
but its easy on the eyes and has swag

That's a collective problem.

 

[wet landscapes]

 

[mamba]

that benz with the leather interior but transmission is gone
but its easy on the eyes and has swag

Yeah. Black women are easily fooled by facades. They are easy prey in that regard.

 

[Elle Driver]

This is an excellent analogy and describes a lot of Black women who end us as single mothers.

They didn't do any homework on their purchase. Just copped it sight unseen!

People also change when they can't accept responsibility. Black men and women both need to choose better partners for marriage tbh.

 

[agnosticlady]

Most of the Black men in the prison system come from single parent households.

I don't find that hard to believe. The black boys that I knew who were raised by their father are on a good path. Don't get me wrong they can do wrong, but it is waaaay more rampant when it comes from single mother households. Fathers are much better disciplinarians and consistent too. Mothers don't really try to discipline their child until they hit their tweens and teens. There is a lot that goes on in black single mother households that nobody talks about. A matriarchy is a recipe for disaster. Patriarchy demands structure and accountability. That is what the black community needs. When black women allow themselves to get pregnant by worthless men it puts worthless men in charge and pushes out the good black men. The worthless men have no interest in being leaders, providers, and protectors. This leaves the black community open for more destruction. Then you have women who can not teach a boy how to be a man, and ignite hatred for men in their daughters. You have boys thinking looking for their manhood in the wrong places and girls hating the idea of a man being a leader.

 

[mamba]

People also change when they can't accept responsibility. Black men and women both need to choose better partners for marriage tbh.

We aren't even talking about marriage here.

We're talking about Black women making the decision to bring all these children into the Black community outside the confines of marriage.

70% OoW births, brehette.

No one is pointing a gun at those Black women's heads and forcing them to carry those babies nine months.

A lot of our problems would be solved if Black women would simply live up to the religious ideals they claim to live by.

It's interesting in that they are the most religious group in the United States, yet lead in terms of OoW births! That's crazy to me.

 

[Blackout]

It's hard to acknowledge what isn't there.

That's the lie you tell yourself so you can keep on hating black men?

Your hopeless and a c00n.

Good black men? Yes they are, its just that the ones happening to be procreating with each other and destructive to the community and are a lot more obvious. I wish it were the opposite but the destructive ones happen to be the ones being put at the forefront unfortunately.

It can be the opposite if more people focused on them. We need to spread awareness about the good black men among black women.

 

[agnosticlady]

When have I ever cried about that? That would be asinine as the main people beating black women are black men.

Let's not get into that and how black women are entering clearly destructive relationships when there are obvious red flags. I've seen several times. Told an acquaintance to stay away from some dope boy she was seeing. She got mad at me and said I was being boujie. Dude whooped her ass and cheated on her. Was I shocked? Nope. Did I feel sorry for her? Nope