women choose, you decided to date manuel
you decided to accept manuels proposal
and you decided to walk down the aisle with manuel
at any time you could have kicked manuel to the curb and go through your rolodex of men
Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?
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women choose, you decided to date manuel
you decided to accept manuels proposal
and you decided to walk down the aisle with manuel
at any time you could have kicked manuel to the curb and go through your rolodex of men
This is 2015. If men expect traditional wives then they need to be traditional husbands, yet most women are providing and protecting the household as well. THAT is why women are rejecting an inferior position. Before it might have been worth it. Today it's not. This isn't a hyperfeminine society only an imbecile would think so. Women hold very little power in modern society.
DarkHorse23
Banned
The problem is that most of the cars you have to choose from are
No the car are like this.....
(bad boy/ thug/ pretty boy)
(nice guy/gentleman/ good black man)
With most black women they are choosing men based on flash and not substance and reliability and thus you have your problems. Stop thinking SHORT TERM and start thinking LONG TERM
Elle Driver
Veteran
Elle never had a rolodex of men.
Ellie Elle ain't never had it like that.
But what I mean is, what's stopping these men from actually wifing these women they decide to impregnate? What's stopping them from becoming a husband instead of a baby father? Like Future? He could've avoided having another man around his kid had he actually went through with the proposal.
Shouldn't the rare limited production car be representative of the nice/good/gentlemanly black guy? That'd be more accurate.No the car are like this.....
(bad boy/ thug/ pretty boy)
(nice guy/gentleman/ good black man)
With most black women they are choosing men based on flash and not substance and reliability and thus you have your problems. Stop thinking SHORT TERM and start thinking LONG TERM
Elle never had a rolodex of men.
Ellie Elle ain't never had it like that.
But what I mean is, what's stopping these men from actually wifing these women they decide to impregnate? What's stopping them from becoming a husband instead of a baby father? Like Future? He could've avoided having another man around his kid had he actually went through with the proposal.
ciara is the one that tossed future to the curb
instead of trying to work it out with her baby father
secondly ciara knew future wasn't father/husband material he had 3 other baby mothers.
This is another disease in the black community, if a nikka didn't marry his first baby mom he wont marry you
DarkHorse23
Banned
Nah baby girl.
The 2015 Toyota Corolla is ranked the most reliable car of the year. The Good black men are the reliable bunch that black women can have a family with, but yall ignore them to chase after the lamborghini murcielago.
So the women HAVE to procreate with the worthless black men because the good black men are non existent?
So wait, it is better to go and get pregnant by a worthless man, have a child, and then later complain about worthless men?
So there are black women CHOOSING to get pregnant by worthless men because there are no good black men?
So it's not that a lot of black women skip over good black men for college boy swag, tupac in a business suit, materialism, and etc. It's because there are no good black men. It's not because there are black women entering a relationship with men and not consider whether or not he would be a good father/husband, but instead because there are no good black men.
Ok so why didn't you get pregnant by a worthless black man since there are no good black men around? Since these women can't help that they are getting pregnant by worthless men why aren't you having a baby by a worthless black man?
That's a very good question.
Elle Driver
Veteran
ciara is the one that tossed future to the curb
instead of trying to work it out with her baby father
secondly ciara knew future wasn't father/husband material he had 3 other baby mothers.
This is another disease in the black community, if a nikka didn't marry his first baby mom he wont marry you
I agree with that. I actually think Ciara is an idiot, because I always advocate that black women should advocate for themselves. Demand and advocate for yourself, and if it's not up to par, walk away. She definitely should've used caution, protect your womb.
But let's push the point to Future's other baby mother's, what was stopping him from wifing the first?
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
LMAO how is cooking your husband and making him happy being in an inferior position? When your man goes out of his way to do something sweet for you is he now being in an inferior position? This is definitely a hyper feminine society. This is why we have young boys twerking on twitter. Fatherhood in this country is not even respected. Look at a lot of family sitcoms. The fathers are usually portrayed as dim witted, scared of their wives, and always making mistakes. The wife is always the hero that saves the fay after the husband did something really stupid. Women are protecting the household? So after a woman digs herself into deep hole she then has the badge of honor of protecting her household. When you have a husband you don't have to protect the household. No man of worth is going to put his wife at the forefront.
This isn't a hyper feminine society. Why do men need to wear heels and make up. Why?
DarkHorse23
Banned
Elle never had a rolodex of men.
Ellie Elle ain't never had it like that.
But what I mean is, what's stopping these men from actually wifing these women they decide to impregnate? What's stopping them from becoming a husband instead of a baby father? Like Future? He could've avoided having another man around his kid had he actually went through with the proposal.
Jesus! We've already told you WHAT? They aren't the marrying or commitment type. Get a man that is! I swear the lack of common sense women have is SCARY.
look at future does he scream family man?
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Honestly Future does not want to settle down. Look at the way he carries himself. Why would those women allow themselves to get pregnant by Future knowing the type of man he is?
