Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[Elle Driver]

Haven't read the whole thread but it seems some of the females on here don't want to admit it either, shyt is stupid honestly. Blaming others and not coming together to fix problems that will clearly effect our future generations is a huge problem in our community. Yeah white supremacy is a huge problem that is easily masked in our society, but theres things we have the power to do now that we don't do

The problem is, collectively, as A COMMUNITY we do not CHOOSE better. As a community, not as just black men, and not just as black women but both. It takes fukkin two to tango.

 

[MikelArteta]

You live in Woodbridge
Maybe 2,000 black folks there...

woodbridge is apart of the gta idiot, its the same as living in the queens and saying you live in new york

go giggle and laugh wiht your cac friends

 

[agnosticlady]

I find it hilarious that you don't call out @Emperor_ReinScarf who don't even live in America, yet they ALWAYS have something bad to say about black women.

Oh please stop the bullshyt. Whenever @Yup and @LadySimone make a thread about black men the shyt doesn't even make sense.

There was a thread about a twerking lady looking for her cat and screaming at her daughter while mostly naked twerking. Somehow @LadySimone managed to make it into black men not looking out for black women.

 

[MikelArteta]

The problem is, collectively, as A COMMUNITY we do not CHOOSE better. As a community, not as just black men, and not just as black women but both. It takes fukkin two to tango.

who chooses?
Women

an average woman will have like 10 black men trying to get with her, SHE DECIDES.

 

[thirdeye]

woodbridge is apart of the gta idiot, its the same as living in the queens and saying you live in new york

go giggle and laugh wiht your cac friends

 

[Queen]

You don't even know me, first off I mentor youth, do toastmasters, and I'm writing a book so miss me with that. Y'all hoes just think because a man speaks out against the ills of the community he's just a sideline nikka seeing his community crumble.


Lack self control? I've had sex once in the past 4 years, don't confuse me with these fatherless hypersexal negroes. Yeah I had a std when i was dating a woman of 2 years in a monogamous relationship and she cheated. Typical of black women to try and throw stones, I have no b*stard children nor do I indulge in some jarkell type lifestyle so hop off my dikk "queen" , tell your brehettes to start closing their legs and do something of worth instead of raising criminals and thots and poisoning our communities, ol look at me i got a good black man now ill keep quiet and watch as everything else crumbles thot

I am not a hoe. I have never been a hoe, and I will never be a hoe.

What I think is that you are the poster who said he has had sex with 16 women. That would make you an irresponsible whore, not me. Just because you have no living children, it doesn't make you a good role model. It makes you a potential baby murdering whore with a history of STD's. Now if that wasn't you that said 16 women, then I will retract the irresponsible whore part, and keep the rest.

I said women shouldn't have sex outside of marriage so the rest of your overemotional rant is moot.

Your lack of self control and whorish past has nothing to do with me. If a man can't control his dikk, he is not fit to lead or mentor anything.

You are writing a book, good for you. So is my 5 year old.

 

[MikelArteta]

if im buying a car and I have ten different options, but I don't do my due dilligence to do my research and test drive and inspect and I just say I want that one the shiny one with the leather seats but end up with a lemon whose fault it is?
The car for being a lemon, or me for not doing my due dilligence?

 

[MikelArteta]

I am not a hoe. I have never been a hoe, and I will never be a hoe.

What I think is that you are the poster who said he has had sex with 16 women. That would make you an irresponsible whore, not me. Just because you have no living children, it doesn't make you a good role model. It makes you a potential baby murdering whore with a history of STD's. Now if that wasn't you that said 16 women, then I will retract the irresponsible whore part, and keep the rest.

I said women shouldn't have sex outside of marriage so the rest of your overemotional rant is moot.

Your lack of self control and whorish past has nothing to do with me. If a man can't control his dikk, he is not fit to lead or mentor anything.

You are writing a book, good for you. So is my 5 year old.

I never chased a woman in my life, not my problem they opened up their legs. I'm irresponsible because 16 women found me worthy enough to stick my dikk in their vagina?

Solomon had many wives yet he was the king of israel and the wisest man to walk the worth

You said women shouldn't have sex outside of marriage who are you preaching this message to? because finding a black virgin over the age of 18 I only seen that on the coli

 

[bcrusaderw]

if im buying a car and I have ten different options, but I don't do my due dilligence to do my research and test drive and inspect and I just say I want that one the shiny one with the leather seats but end up with a lemon whose fault it is?
The car for being a lemon, or me for not doing my due dilligence?

The problem is that most of the cars you have to choose from are

 

[agnosticlady]

I don't want children. The majority of women have a strong biological urge to procreate. The women don't have to procreate with anyone. The fact is if they choose to procreate with a black male they will more than likely end up with a deadbeat. Women of other races luckily can accidentally have children (how most births are), and still expect their male counterparts to stick around and take care of the offspring.

I don't understand your responses to this thread. You and I are two sides of the same coin. You opine that good black women are rare, and I opine that good black men are rare.

OMG you don't want kids so YOU make the conscious decision not to have kids. I want to have kids. As a matter of fact I want to be a wife and have kids before I am 30. I am not pregnant now though. Hmmmm I wonder why I am not pregnant by a worthless black man.Maybe it's because I make the conscious decision not to marry a man that is not husband material and good father material. I wonder if some of the black women could also make that decision when choosing a mate.
I've sad on many occasions that there are a lot of vain disrespectful women running rampant in America. This is a hyper feminine society where a lot of women feel as if they don't have to do much for their man. You have women saying that they shouldn't have to cook for their man or be submissive to him. It's hilarious when someone thinks like that, but get's mad at men not marrying them.

 

[thewiz]

The problem is that most of the cars you have to choose from are

Smh you're better than this

 

[MikelArteta]

The problem is that most of the cars you have to choose from are

so take the bus until you find a good car

but nah y'all would rather deal with a rustbucket ass nikka than be single

again digging your own hole time and time and time again

 

[Elle Driver]

who chooses?
Women

an average woman will have like 10 black men trying to get with her, SHE DECIDES.

Conversely, if a black woman gets with one of those 10 men, who decides to wife?

 

[DarkHorse23]

The problem is that most of the cars you have to choose from are

I told you not to tempt me.....

* Reenters the thread*

 

[Queen]

I never chased a woman in my life, not my problem they opened up their legs. I'm irresponsible because 16 women found me worthy enough to stick my dikk in their vagina?

Solomon had many wives yet he was the king of israel and the wisest man to walk the worth

You said women shouldn't have sex outside of marriage who are you preaching this message to? because finding a black virgin over the age of 18 I only seen that on the coli

You are irresponsible because you lack self control. Don't use Solomon to support your whoredom.

Did not Solomon king of Israel sin by these things? yet among many nations was there no king like him, who was beloved of his God, and God made him king over all Israel: nevertheless even him did outlandish women cause to sin. Nehemiah 13:26