Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[thewiz]

How is it black men's fault?

Cause nikkas leave their kid every day. Not even caping, that's reality, but at the same time women are in control when it comes to who they let have sex with them and they can only blame themselves for having bad discernment if the nikka ain't shyt.

It takes two people to make a baby and women decide if they want to keep a baby or not.

Look at it like this, if your friend wants you to hit a lick with them and you know there's a possibility both of you could get caught but you do it anyway and get caught who's fault is it?

 

[MikelArteta]

The point of this thread has always been that that's rare. In fact black men marry the LEAST out of any group. Finding a black male that has never been to jail, has no children, is college educated, sttaight, and who actually wants to marry is like finding a rainbow colored unicorn. Of course you'll come back to me with anecdotes about all of your friends, but facts trump that at every turn.

yeah if your fat and ugly

most black men don't go to jail, most black men don't have kids out of wedlock, most black men more than ever are college educated and heterosexual and why should black men settle and marry when the woman isn't bringing anything of value to the table, black women highest obesity rate, finding a black woman over 25 without a kid is like finding a black man in moscow russia

 

[agnosticlady]

I'm proud of you. You've finally grasped a concept that I stated 15 or more pages ago. I'll use my analogy again as it seems to be all any of you can relate to. If there are 100 apples to choose from, and 99 of them are bad then of course you are going to end up with a bad apple. And before you and the rest start that is simply an ANALOGY, and not an attempt to enumerate the number of "bad black men".

So the women HAVE to procreate with the worthless black men because the good black men are non existent?


So wait, it is better to go and get pregnant by a worthless man, have a child, and then later complain about worthless men?

So there are black women CHOOSING to get pregnant by worthless men because there are no good black men?



So it's not that a lot of black women skip over good black men for college boy swag, tupac in a business suit, materialism, and etc. It's because there are no good black men. It's not because there are black women entering a relationship with men and not consider whether or not he would be a good father/husband, but instead because there are no good black men.

Ok so why didn't you get pregnant by a worthless black man since there are no good black men around? Since these women can't help that they are getting pregnant by worthless men why aren't you having a baby by a worthless black man?

 

[Dwolf]

I find it hilarious that you don't call out @Yup and @LadySimone who don't even live in America, yet they ALWAYS have something bad to say about black men. I was raised in America. LMAO, if I agreed with your asinine line of thinking you wouldn't even bring up my nationality.

I find it hilarious that you don't call out @Emperor_ReinScarf who don't even live in America, yet they ALWAYS have something bad to say about black women.

 

[MikelArteta]

Like that makes it any better?

I've never had any STD, I respect my body. We all know who the old thot is.

thats great, i guess if your husband manuel were to ever cheat and infect you with something we'll see whose laughing

 

[MikelArteta]

I find it hilarious that you don't call out @Emperor_ReinScarf who don't even live in America, yet they ALWAYS have something bad to say about black women.

i swear the title of this thread said black women, like black women only live in america? theres like 250k black women in my city

 

[DarkHorse23]

The point of this thread has always been that that's rare. In fact black men marry the LEAST out of any group. Finding a black male that has never been to jail, has no children, is college educated, sttaight, and who actually wants to marry is like finding a rainbow colored unicorn. Of course you'll come back to me with anecdotes about all of your friends, but facts trump that at every turn.

That simply isn't true. Jesus SMH.

Whatever think what you want. I'm most likely going marry a black woman from Brazil, Dominican Republic, Columbia or Africa anyway. You North American women for the most part are a lost cause. Do you @Queen , @Panthera @bcrusaderw . If You guys wanna paint black men as the problem and say a lack of good marriage minded men are available then go right ahead. I'm done with this conversation going forward. The black community can't be fixed and i'm not going to spend another day of my life stressing about it. @agnosticlady is the perfect example of the type of black woman, black men have told me i can find out of the Matrix USA, and that's what i'm going do. As for the North America Black women...it's been "real"....peace

 

[Elle Driver]

thats great, i guess if your husband manuel were to ever cheat and infect you with something we'll see whose laughing

@ Manuel.

He still black.

But what I'm saying is, don't throw stones from Canada.

 

[bcrusaderw]

So the women HAVE to procreate with the worthless black men because the good black men are non existent?


So wait, it is better to go and get pregnant by a worthless man, have a child, and then later complain about worthless men?

So there are black women CHOOSING to get pregnant by worthless men because there are no good black men?



So it's not that a lot of black women skip over good black men for college boy swag, tupac in a business suit, materialism, and etc. It's because there are no good black men. It's not because there are black women entering a relationship with men and not consider whether or not he would be a good father/husband, but instead because there are no good black men.

Ok so why didn't you get pregnant by a worthless black man since there are no good black men around? Since these women can't help that they are getting pregnant by worthless men why aren't you having a baby by a worthless black man?

I don't want children. The majority of women have a strong biological urge to procreate. The women don't have to procreate with anyone. The fact is if they choose to procreate with a black male they will more than likely end up with a deadbeat. Women of other races luckily can accidentally have children (how most births are), and still expect their male counterparts to stick around and take care of the offspring.

yeah if your fat and ugly

most black men don't go to jail, most black men don't have kids out of wedlock, most black men more than ever are college educated and heterosexual and why should black men settle and marry when the woman isn't bringing anything of value to the table, black women highest obesity rate, finding a black woman over 25 without a kid is like finding a black man in moscow russia

I don't understand your responses to this thread. You and I are two sides of the same coin. You opine that good black women are rare, and I opine that good black men are rare.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Cause nikkas leave their kid every day. Not even caping, that's reality, but at the same time women are in control when it comes to who they let have sex with them and they can only blame themselves for having bad discernment if the nikka ain't shyt.

It takes two people to make a baby and women decide if they want to keep a baby or not.

Look at it like this, if your friend wants you to hit a lick with them and you know there's a possibility both of you could get caught but you do it anyway and get caught who's fault is it?

Bruh the point is those nikkas have always been like that. These women who slept with them raw knew they were like that in the beginning. It's a WOMAN'S BODY, WHY CAN'T SHE MAKE RESPONSIBLE DECISIONS with it. PICK a man from the jump who would be a good father/husband and we wouldn't have these problems. I'm sorry but this is 100% on black women. It's HER body, she needs to make better decisions who she lets ENTER it.

 

[ThisWorldAintRight]

It's World War III in this mf.

 

[thewiz]

You're the only male here who acknowledges that.

Haven't read the whole thread but it seems some of the females on here don't want to admit it either, shyt is stupid honestly. Blaming others and not coming together to fix problems that will clearly effect our future generations is a huge problem in our community. Yeah white supremacy is a huge problem that is easily masked in our society, but theres things we have the power to do now that we don't do

 

[bcrusaderw]

That simply isn't true. Jesus SMH.

Whatever think what you want. I'm going most likely going marry a black woman from Brazil, Dominican Republic, Columbia or Africa anyway. You North American women for the most part are a lost cause. Do you @Queen , @Panthera @bcrusaderw . If You guys wanna paint black men as the problem and say a lack of good marriage minded men are available then go right ahead. I'm done with this conversation going forward. The black community can't be fixed and i'm not going to spend another day of my life stressing about it. @agnosticlady is the perfect example of the type of black woman, black men have told me i can find out of the Matrix USA, and that's what i'm going do. As for the North America Black women...it's been "real"....peace

I encourage black American women to do the same as the average black American male leaves a lot to be desired.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I encourage black American women to do the same as the average black American male leaves a lot to be desired.

Whatever helps you sleep at night kiddo.

*Exits thread*

....peace

 

[thirdeye]

i swear the title of this thread said black women, like black women only live in america? theres like 250k black women in my city

You live in Woodbridge
Maybe 2,000 black folks there...