Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[bcrusaderw]

women file for divorce 75% of the time,

So then their rates of filing dependent upon race of partner is significant right?

 

[DarkHorse23]

I know what a real man is because I have several examples in my life. I am sorry that you don't, as indicated by your hormonal and feminine posting style.

You are not very intelligent. You are very emotional. Men have emotions, but usually they are able to express them without sounding like a 10 year old brat.

The fact that women are not attracted to you has nothing to do with me. It doesn't have anything to do with black women either because if you speak how you type, I can see why you are constantly getting rejected. That is your personal problem and it has nothing to do with black women.

I don't have problems choosing a mate. I am married to a great black man. He was friend zoned several times before meeting me, but he didn't turn into a bitter, whiny little harlot. He looked at it as, "we'll she just wasn't the one for me, but my wife is out here somewhere."

I don't need to take responsibility for the choices that other women make, as I chose not to have sex before marriage, and I chose to get married at a young age. I will however encourage women to consider not having sex before marriage if commitment is what they really want. It will help weed out the liars, pretenders, and whiny little sex crazed boys. It will help ensure that any children born will have the proper protection and foundation.

And I will continue to tell men to man up and stop whining. Stop patting your friends on the back when they dog women out. Stop promoting the player mentality. Stop objectifying women. Stop referring to women as bytches. Start stressing commitment, make it cool to be a family man. Stop worrying about your dikk, and start building some businesses. Grow up. There is a lot that men can do besides blame black women.

Walk in a man's shoes before you speak on what a man should or shouldn't be "bitter" about. Ok?

thanks.

 

[Elle Driver]

truth stings doesn't it

Not really. You wouldn't know the truth.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Even if this was true, which it isn't it's not an excuse to settle for an ain't shyt nikka or a nikka they think they can change cause it never happens

Like I said earlier it's both black men and women's fault.

How is it black men's fault?

 

[MikelArteta]

If you have so many answers, I'm surprised it hasn't occurred to you to encourage your brethren to stop leaving their children. If you notice a problem with women raising their children alone, and you have data to back up that it is not working well, then why are you not encouraging men to stop leaving?

Why aren't you saying, "we have an issue! Your families need you! Stop leaving these women to raise these kids who don't know how to deal with life"

You aren't saying that because you lack self control. You can't tell them to man up when you haven't done so yourself. You are a man with numerous sexual partners and has had a round of STDs and probably a baby murder or two under your belt. At this current time you are not fit to be a leader. Therefore you have nothing of value to add to this particular discussion. Have a seat and let the real men work.

You don't even know me, first off I mentor youth, do toastmasters, and I'm writing a book so miss me with that. Y'all hoes just think because a man speaks out against the ills of the community he's just a sideline nikka seeing his community crumble.


Lack self control? I've had sex once in the past 4 years, don't confuse me with these fatherless hypersexal negroes. Yeah I had a std when i was dating a woman of 2 years in a monogamous relationship and she cheated. Typical of black women to try and throw stones, I have no b*stard children nor do I indulge in some jarkell type lifestyle so hop off my dikk "queen" , tell your brehettes to start closing their legs and do something of worth instead of raising criminals and thots and poisoning our communities, ol look at me i got a good black man now ill keep quiet and watch as everything else crumbles thot

 

[MikelArteta]

Not really. You wouldn't know the truth.

No you wouldn't know the truth, your just a black woman blinded.

 

[Elle Driver]

Even if this was true, which it isn't it's not an excuse to settle for an ain't shyt nikka or a nikka they think they can change cause it never happens

Like I said earlier it's both black men and women's fault.

You're the only male here who acknowledges that.

 

[Elle Driver]

No you wouldn't know the truth, your just a black woman blinded.

How the fukk would you know living in that bubble of yours?

 

[DarkHorse23]

If you have so many answers, I'm surprised it hasn't occurred to you to encourage your brethren to stop leaving their children. If you notice a problem with women raising their children alone, and you have data to back up that it is not working well, then why are you not encouraging men to stop leaving?

Why aren't you saying, "we have an issue! Your families need you! Stop leaving these women to raise these kids who don't know how to deal with life"

You aren't saying that because you lack self control. You can't tell them to man up when you haven't done so yourself. You are a man with numerous sexual partners and has had a round of STDs and probably a baby murder or two under your belt. At this current time you are not fit to be a leader. Therefore you have nothing of value to add to this particular discussion. Have a seat and let the real men work.

Like a black woman would know what a leader is? They don't even know how to pick a husband/father.

 

[agnosticlady]

If you have so many answers, I'm surprised it hasn't occurred to you to encourage your brethren to stop leaving their children. If you notice a problem with women raising their children alone, and you have data to back up that it is not working well, then why are you not encouraging men to stop leaving?

Why aren't you saying, "we have an issue! Your families need you! Stop leaving these women to raise these kids who don't know how to deal with life"

You aren't saying that because you lack self control. You can't tell them to man up when you haven't done so yourself. You are a man with numerous sexual partners and has had a round of STDs and probably a baby murder or two under your belt. At this current time you are not fit to be a leader. Therefore you have nothing of value to add to this particular discussion. Have a seat and let the real men work.

Those men are worthless and will not listen. That is why society tells women to be very careful who they choose to procreate with and let into your body. I can't go and tell a construction worker to do my hair, and then get mad that they can not do my hair. Instead I need to go to a beautician who actually knows how to do hair. I can't talk a construction worker into being a beautician. Instead I don't give them the role of a beautician. Women need to stop giving worthless men the role of fatherhood. They are not fit for fatherhood.

 

[MikelArteta]

How the fukk would you know living in that bubble of yours?

aint you just a old thot on her last legs who found a cuban to get down on one knee?

 

[bcrusaderw]

ok so answer this

So you're saying that the reason why more than 70% of black children are born out of wedlock is because there are not enough good black men? Ok, so after having the first child out of wedlock why do some black women go back and have more kids out of wedlock?

Again the prevalence of deadbeats explain that. The women who do that are irresponsible. Though if they had the option of better mates they would choose that.

I've already ANSWERED that. Those black men aren't the father/husband types. Get a black man that is. There is a PLENTY of them out there, you just IGNORE/REJECT them. It's not rocket science or complicated.If you want a fukk buddy type, get that. If you want a husband/father type then GET THAT.

The point of this thread has always been that that's rare. In fact black men marry the LEAST out of any group. Finding a black male that has never been to jail, has no children, is college educated, sttaight, and who actually wants to marry is like finding a rainbow colored unicorn. Of course you'll come back to me with anecdotes about all of your friends, but facts trump that at every turn.

 

[Elle Driver]

Those men are worthless and will not listen. That is why society tells women to be very careful who they choose to procreate with and let into your body. I can't go and tell a construction worker to do my hair, and then get mad that they can not do my hair. Instead I need to go to a beautician who actually knows how to do hair. I can't talk a construction worker into being a beautician. Instead I don't give them the role of a beautician. Women need to stop giving worthless men the role of fatherhood. They are not fit for fatherhood.

Men need to practice self control.

aint you just a old thot on her last legs who found a cuban to get down on one knee?

Lmao. Is that all you got?

I swear you're a year older than me with STDs and double digit bodies under his belt and I'm a old thot?

 

[MikelArteta]

Men need to practice self control.


Lmao. Is that all you got?

I swear you're a year older than me with STDs and double digit bodies under his belt and I'm a old thot?

I have no stds, I had a std 5 years ago for one day.

 

[Elle Driver]

I have no stds, I had a std 5 years ago for one day.

Like that makes it any better?

I've never had any STD, I respect my body. We all know who the old thot is.