I always love when a females wants to sit up here and tell a man, someone she's never been, never will be, and probably never even had in her life growing up, or poorly chose in her youth what a "real" man is. fukk you! It's not my job to fix a problem you created. Black men like me get passed up everyday for thugs, pretty boys and athletes, and then when those men fukk up and don't fulfill your little fantasy you had in your head and leaves you with 3 kids then it's ALL black men's fault. And i'm very intelligent but it doesn't take a PHD to understand our problems are very simple. I don't even need a high school to understand our problems. What are our problems?
@mamba has already alluded to it. Black women are frustrated because the men they WANT can't get their act together, or they can't get, so instead of focusing their attention on the group of black men who would actually do right by them(that they ignore because of lack of looks or money) they instead sit around and complain and bytch. And you can dismiss whatever the fukk you want, the fact is you're in the motherfukkers to blame. Stop dismissing and ignoring good men because they don't have the looks of a model or male stripper or because they aren't millionaires and then maybe you'd find a good man. As a black man i will no longer be silent and allow you and other bytches to paint all black as the same or make this a 50/50 problem. No bytch this is YOUR problem. Do YOUR part to fix it by owning up to your lack of responsibility and accountability in picking men.
I know what a real man is because I have several examples in my life. I am sorry that you don't, as indicated by your hormonal and feminine posting style.
You are not very intelligent. You are very emotional. Men have emotions, but usually they are able to express them without sounding like a 10 year old brat.
The fact that women are not attracted to you has nothing to do with me. It doesn't have anything to do with black women either because if you speak how you type, I can see why you are constantly getting rejected. That is your personal problem and it has nothing to do with black women.
I don't have problems choosing a mate. I am married to a great black man. He was friend zoned several times before meeting me, but he didn't turn into a bitter, whiny little harlot. He looked at it as, "we'll she just wasn't the one for me, but my wife is out here somewhere."
I don't need to take responsibility for the choices that other women make, as I chose not to have sex before marriage, and I chose to get married at a young age. I will however encourage women to consider not having sex before marriage if commitment is what they really want. It will help weed out the liars, pretenders, and whiny little sex crazed boys. It will help ensure that any children born will have the proper protection and foundation.
And I will continue to tell men to man up and stop whining. Stop patting your friends on the back when they dog women out. Stop promoting the player mentality. Stop objectifying women. Stop referring to women as bytches. Start stressing commitment, make it cool to be a family man. Stop worrying about your dikk, and start building some businesses. Grow up. There is a lot that men can do besides blame black women.
Why are you all skirting around the original premise of the thread, and instead choosing to discuss my dating habits? The premise is fatherlessness among children with black fathers. If white males had such an issue you all would pounce on it, and proclaim it to be their fault, but because you are a member of the group with the bad behavior you offer nothing, but deflection and unaccountability.
