The apple bit was an analogy that fits the situation perfectly. It was not a numerical summation of the number of black male deadbeats.
Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?
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Hollering.
A single mother of 2 only gets 316 a month They don't get shyt. Keep spouting Fox News shyt
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
Where are your observations and anologies about good black men being ignored and rejected?
It's like you pretend that they don't exist lol.
What kind of dumb shyt is that? 99% of Black men aren't deadbeats.
There are enough decent Black men to go around for the decent Black women we have in the community.
Somehow, the decent Black women either 1) hold out for some baller nikka or 2) get knocked up by some deadbeat.
If decent Black women would simply settle down with regular decent Black men, we'd not have these problems.
Hollering.
A single mother of 2 only gets 316 a month They don't get shyt. Keep spouting Fox News shyt
According to the study, an Illinois family of one mother and two children receiving Temporary Assistance for Needy Families, or TANF; Medicaid, food stamps, Women, Infants and Children, or WIC; public housing; utility assistance; and free commodities (e.g., milk and cheese) would have a benefits package worth $19,442 per year.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
swag
he gotta good car though
that gold chain
he got 50 girls on fb liking every photo
he light skin
Yup, I reconnected with an older friend from middle school. She is 22, pregnant, not married, and in a relationship with a lightskin dude with swag. She is having a son. I am 80% sure they will not get married and break up. I'm 20, so I didn't graduate high school too long ago. A lot of young ladies got pregnant right after high school. only one of them married the father of the child. Most of them are no longer with the father of the child. They are no saying their sons are "their man", "their husband", "Their protector", and etc. many of these women are more interested in buying their sons cute clothes, and making sure they look fly. They teach their sons how not to be punks. The mothers are not teaching their sons anything valuable. This is why we have many superficial young black over sensitive young black men running around. This is why in a lot of rap music today you have rappers going on and on about the name brands they own, how bad their bytch is, or going back and forth over petty stuff. Those are things a lot of women do. Who is raising these boys into men? Black women.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
And that's the problemWell
You guys are self defeating by ignoring the good black men and just focusing on the bad ones.
yup there is a good black men for every black woman out there
but to a black woman hes a "square", he doesnt have that "edge" that "swag"
Try again.
You have to get on lists for public housing and or section 8. They take can take up to 5-10 years to receive that. If you call most of the housing lists, they're closed.
You have 5 years to get cash benefits in the USA. Depending on the state, they make you work (volunteer) for said benefits.
Most single mother are only receiving medical and food stamps.
In order to get unties paid for, you have to be in dire needs, you just can't ask and get it.
Where are they? I don't deny the existence of good black males I deny the PREVALENCE.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Yup, a lot of those women get housing, food stamps, health insurance, utility assistance, and then some get an extra stipend. I've come across several women like that. Then they go on and have more kids.
That's a mathematical impossibility.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
Check your friend zone, look back at the men you rejected, look back at the men you ignored because a better looking one started to talk to you.
We've all been immature and ignored the good ones.
Do some self reflection and evaluation and improve your judgment in men and they will pop up again.
Why are you personalizing this argument?