Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[(Lean Ambrose)]

As usual you are glossing over the main argument. Until you can speak to that argument stop replying to me.



There has been no sonning here just a deflection. No one in this thread has explained the fatherless rate of mulatto children. If white women who produce white children have a single parenthood rate of 23%, but one of 80% when producing children with black males whose fault is that. If Hispanic women have a single parenthood rate of 40% when producing hispanic children, but it jumps to 90% when they have children with black males whose problem is that? When Asian women have a single parenthood rate of 13% when producing Asian children, but one of 85% when producing children with black males whose problem is that. These are women who have demonstrated that they know not how to pick deadbeats, yet when they procreate with black males their single parenthood rates increase exponentially. There is only one answer here, and only a member of the group that is apart of the problem would skirt around the answer.

Not my problem... I don't have kids and I love kids too much to ever even consider running from my own... Y'all need to pick better nikkas point blank...

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

So nobody is going to bring up the fact that sexuality and "muh dyck" syndrome is rampant among many blk males in our community. That the self-esteem of many blk males is so low that they only value themselves in terms of what they can do with their dycks.

Nobody is going to talk about how our music and culture glorifies side chicks and main chicks and tells men that if they are responsible family men, they are simps and fools. #GMB <---but I bet they'll still make some illegitimate babies even as they shame other men out of commitment.

Nobody is going to talk about how the pinnacle of femininity for many in our pop culture is a big booty hoe that sucks and fukks. While "good girls ain't no fun!" And educated chicks are shunned.

Nobody finds it strange that out of all the shyt c00ns talk about blk women, they go and make the same mistake with allegedly perfect non-blk women.

Anybody? No...

Well how about this...
Is anybody gonna bring up the fact that 70% of our population is being birthed by 1/4 of the same blk women...?
Or why men keep choosing these women and hoes even when they have multiple babies by different men...?

Must be all in my head then.

You can talk to a hoe and a thug until you are blue in the face about birth control. They ain't interested. Why? Because they're sorry.

Instead good blk women and especially blk men in this instance need to stop nutting raw in people you can't build with.

And stop pretending that the media we consume hasn't influenced and popularized this nonsense in our community. Many view t.v., radio, and the internet as sources of authority. When you consume images, words, songs, opinions, ideas, pictures, and people who all say "fukk deez hoes!" "Fuk marriage" "would not pull out" "deez hoes for everybody" "if she don't fuk on the first date her azz outta here" "fuk dem dark butts" "ain't no fun unless the homies get some" "deez hoes ain't loyal" "trap queen"

Daily. On repeat. With no mitigating force. How the hell you gonna deny that this shyt hasn't impacted sheeple's minds when you see them trying to live that lifestyle?

 

[onelastdeath]

As usual you are glossing over the main argument. Until you can speak to that argument stop replying to me.



There has been no sonning here just a deflection. No one in this thread has explained the fatherless rate of mulatto children. If white women who produce white children have a single parenthood rate of 23%, but one of 80% when producing children with black males whose fault is that. If Hispanic women have a single parenthood rate of 40% when producing hispanic children, but it jumps to 90% when they have children with black males whose problem is that? When Asian women have a single parenthood rate of 13% when producing Asian children, but one of 85% when producing children with black males whose problem is that. These are women who have demonstrated that they know not how to pick deadbeats, yet when they procreate with black males their single parenthood rates increase exponentially. There is only one answer here, and only a member of the group that is apart of the problem would skirt around the answer.

Yeah, the answer is that women of all races feel more comfortable leaving black men

We can't win anywhere
We just want someone to hold us down

 

[DarkHorse23]

Clearly everyone is negatively affected by the fatherlessness epidemic among children with black fathers. 67% of black children are born out of wedlock, and the stats for biracial children with black fathers are just as abysmal

We've heard it time and time again "black women need to choose better", but we see the same problems of fatherlessness across racial lines. So, are women across ALL racial lines choosing "deadbeats", or is there a more pervasive problem?

Ok I'm going to try and answer this objectively and not let my negative experiences influence my answer. The fact is regardless of race, women In general are very competitive and want the man every other woman wants. So the man regardless of race they find attractive they are going to try and lock down. The only problem is a man with 10+ women can't be locked down. Regardless women think there p*ssy and looks is going be the cryptonite to Superman. Nope sorry Charlie. Some of these women even think a baby will do it. Nope it won't. Women in a nutshell want to turn players into husband types instead of getting with men who are actually husband and faithful types, but nope that would be using too much common sense. So yes it's women(regardless of race) fault. A man can only do what you allow him to do.

 

[MikelArteta]

the article is total bs the author is prob some white supremicist or some fat single black women with two cats and her tv on oprah, the "author" has never written another piece of paper I can, and to think some no name person can find 1,000 moms with mixed kids to base an article on is ABSURD

secondly women dig their own hole and never want to take accountability, whether its dating a thug or aggressive nikka or a man without father materials, or being "conned" by a pimp to sell her body, or being "conned" by a director to star in a porno film, or being "conned" by a nikka who was so "nice", or blaming my absent dad , or my mom was this and that, or my low self esteem or "i was once was ugly and fat, but now i got attnetion and it was so hard to handle" all bs and never taking accountability for their rancid mistakes.

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

Did @bcrusaderw answer this question yet

 

[bcrusaderw]

Did @bcrusaderw answer this question yet

It's the some of the only black literature written. Of course it would be popular.

 

[bcrusaderw]

the article is total bs the author is prob some white supremicist or some fat single black women with two cats and her tv on oprah, the "author" has never written another piece of paper I can, and to think some no name person can find 1,000 moms with mixed kids to base an article on is ABSURD

secondly women dig their own hole and never want to take accountability, whether its dating a thug or aggressive nikka or a man without father materials, or being "conned" by a pimp to sell her body, or being "conned" by a director to star in a porno film, or being "conned" by a nikka who was so "nice", or blaming my absent dad , or my mom was this and that, or my low self esteem or "i was once was ugly and fat, but now i got attnetion and it was so hard to handle" all bs and never taking accountability for their rancid mistakes.

The data presented in the article isn't BS.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Not my problem... I don't have kids and I love kids too much to ever even consider running from my own... Y'all need to pick better nikkas point blank...

The point of this thread is that "better nikkas" are few and far in between.

 

[(Lean Ambrose)]

The point of this thread is that "better nikkas" are few and far in between.

You sound white saying some stupid shyt like that... If somebody said that about black women you'd be heated...

 

[DarkHorse23]

The point of this thread is that "better nikkas" are few and far in between.

That's BS. You just ignore them or you want to make the player/pretty boy types to be faithful. If you wanted a good dude who is faithful you could have it. There are millions of black men in america who fit that bill.

 

[bcrusaderw]

That's BS. You just ignore them or you want to make the player/pretty boy types to be faithful. If you wanted a good dude who is faithful you could have it. There are millions of black men in america who fit that bill.

 

[bcrusaderw]

You sound white saying some stupid shyt like that... If somebody said that about black women you'd be heated...

Y'all say that about black women all the time.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Prove me wrong.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Prove me wrong.

9 million of the 20 million black men in the US are children. 33% of you will end up in jail in your lifetime. 5-10% of you are gay. 10% of you marry out. 11% of you are unemployed. I mean do I need to go on?