Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

[agnosticlady]

at Jarkell.

But, yeah, they'll do all kinds of background research and product comparisons on trivial shyt.

But, when it comes to selecting a father for her children, the average Black woman willingly rolls the dice.

Look at this book called "Big Booty" by . It got 4.5 out of 5 stars. Look at the exercpt

"shyt. Everyone knows I like most of my men tatted up and on parole. Love my dikks thick, dark, and in Magnums. Love my p*ssy beat down to the seams. And this fat, juicy ass eaten with a buncha whipped cream and a whole lotta spit. Yes, lawd! The mofo better know how to heat this hole up right if he expects to get a taste of all this dark chocolate goodness. Flick, lick, tease the rim, and you’ll be guaranteed a night of some hot, freaky sex. Big Booty, baby . . . mmph, thought you knew!

Ain’t no shame in my game, sugah-boo. Bend me over, finger it, eat it, toy it, fukk it . . . do whatever you want with it as long as it’s filled. Yes, baby, this ass’s so good. It’ll have a nikkah nuttin’ up in less than ten minutes; in less than five if I start talkin’ all nasty ’n shyt to ’im. Please, most of these lame nikkahs can’t hang with all this golden-brown goody-goody. Once I bounce this juiciness all up on ’em, they get all strung out on it, then wanna fall in love ’n shyt.

Now one would think a book this whack would get 1 out of 5 stars. Here are some of the reviews

"I LOVE. LOVE. LOVE Big Booty, if you want non-stop laughter, drama, ratchetness(I know it aint a word), and sex all in one, then you need to pick up this book. Big Booty keeps it all the way 100 with her messy ass. And those bad ass kids LAWD LOL Ciaro penned out another banger! So do me right by buying this book!"

"loooove it. cass is a meeessss with her drama'd out freaky ass. cairo did a damn good job. her kids are halarious and her ass is soooo freaky. i never liked anal until this book. so yes, get it. its worth. the beginning is a litte slow but once you get into it, you not gonna put it down!"

"Great book the author did an outstanding job with this one. Love drama, this is the one for the intense reader. Thanks for Big Booty."

 

[Blackout]

Why are you personalizing this argument?

I don't see why not.

What I described is a solution.

Immaturity lasting so long is what created this problem in the first place.

 

[bcrusaderw]

I don't see why not.

What I described is a solution.

Immaturity lasting so long is what created this problem in the first place.

I'm not framing my argument from a personal point of view, so I don't see why you would. I don't entertain people who I think are stupid, and thugs and stupid are synonyms, so back to the original argument please.

 

[Blackout]

I'm not framing my argument from a personal point of view, so I don't see why you would. I don't entertain people who I think are stupid, and thugs and stupid are synonyms, so back to the original argument please.

Well generally those factors I named is why the fatherless rate is so high.

Just like scammers

Give these type of men opportunity and they will take it. Ignore the good ones and you will only and falsely see bad.

 

[mamba]

Yup, I reconnected with an older friend from middle school. She is 22, pregnant, not married, and in a relationship with a lightskin dude with swag. She is having a son. I am 80% sure they will not get married and break up. I'm 20, so I didn't graduate high school too long ago. A lot of young ladies got pregnant right after high school. only one of them married the father of the child. Most of them are no longer with the father of the child. They are no saying their sons are "their man", "their husband", "Their protector", and etc. many of these women are more interested in buying their sons cute clothes, and making sure they look fly. They teach their sons how not to be punks. The mothers are not teaching their sons anything valuable. This is why we have many superficial young black over sensitive young black men running around. This is why in a lot of rap music today you have rappers going on and on about the name brands they own, how bad their bytch is, or going back and forth over petty stuff. Those are things a lot of women do. Who is raising these boys into men? Black women.

Yep. A lot of these bytch ass nikkas running around in the Black community were raised by the Black women you described. Good post.

 

[mamba]

That's a mathematical impossibility.

Are you implying every Black woman is a good woman?

 

[mamba]

She could be reading anything else in the library. She's reading the Thug series.

 

[agnosticlady]

She could be reading anything else in the library. She's reading the Thug series.

The first woman has a tattoo on her breast.When I was in high school I was a library Aide, and I also frequent my local library since I love reading. A lot of the young black women enjoy reading those books. Many of them are always looking for Zane books. I don't hate Zane, but a lot of her followers are ratchet women. I follow her on Facebook. A lot of black women are used to chaotic relationships. and prefer that. That is why when they are younger they pass over normal black men that are not dabbling in the wrong stuff.
Too many black women believe that all black women are queens and etc. I was on Facebook and there was a post comparing a tatted up stripper and Michelle Obama. It was asking who is a queen. I am not a major fan of the Obamas, but Michelle is a queen compared to a tatted up stripper. All of the women said things like, "The stripper is a queen. She just misplaced her crown", "You shouldn't judge women. You don't know what they have been through". One of the lady's commenting is a former stripper with 5 kids by 3 different men. A lot of black women have separate themselves from the bad seeds. We don't want to be spoken bad of but look who made Olivia Pope famous.

 

[mamba]

The first woman has a tattoo on her breast.When I was in high school I was a library Aide, and I also frequent my local library since I love reading. A lot of the young black women enjoy reading those books. Many of them are always looking for Zane books. I don't hate Zane, but a lot of her followers are ratchet women. I follow her on Facebook. A lot of black women are used to chaotic relationships. and prefer that. That is why when they are younger they pass over normal black men that are not dabbling in the wrong stuff.
Too many black women believe that all black women are queens and etc. I was on Facebook and there was a post comparing a tatted up stripper and Michelle Obama. It was asking who is a queen. I am not a major fan of the Obamas, but Michelle is a queen compared to a tatted up stripper. All of the women said things like, "The stripper is a queen. She just misplaced her crown", "You shouldn't judge women. You don't know what they have been through". One of the lady's commenting is a former stripper with 5 kids by 3 different men. A lot of black women have separate themselves from the bad seeds. We don't want to be spoken bad of but look who made Olivia Pope famous.

Yeah. The books continue to get published because there is a market for them. The market is Black women.

The only type of love most Black women are familiar with is dysfunctional love.

Love to them only occurs alongside chaos, pain, betrayal, etc. That whole "Pain is Love" bullshyt.

If they aren't getting any of those things in a relationship, they get bored. They don't feel the love.

It's very sad when you really think about the state of our women.

 

[Dwolf]

This was a very productive thread.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

No matter who is at fault, it is a problem.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Look at this book called "Big Booty" by . It got 4.5 out of 5 stars. Look at the exercpt

"shyt. Everyone knows I like most of my men tatted up and on parole. Love my dikks thick, dark, and in Magnums. Love my p*ssy beat down to the seams. And this fat, juicy ass eaten with a buncha whipped cream and a whole lotta spit. Yes, lawd! The mofo better know how to heat this hole up right if he expects to get a taste of all this dark chocolate goodness. Flick, lick, tease the rim, and you’ll be guaranteed a night of some hot, freaky sex. Big Booty, baby . . . mmph, thought you knew!

Ain’t no shame in my game, sugah-boo. Bend me over, finger it, eat it, toy it, fukk it . . . do whatever you want with it as long as it’s filled. Yes, baby, this ass’s so good. It’ll have a nikkah nuttin’ up in less than ten minutes; in less than five if I start talkin’ all nasty ’n shyt to ’im. Please, most of these lame nikkahs can’t hang with all this golden-brown goody-goody. Once I bounce this juiciness all up on ’em, they get all strung out on it, then wanna fall in love ’n shyt.

Now one would think a book this whack would get 1 out of 5 stars. Here are some of the reviews

"I LOVE. LOVE. LOVE Big Booty, if you want non-stop laughter, drama, ratchetness(I know it aint a word), and sex all in one, then you need to pick up this book. Big Booty keeps it all the way 100 with her messy ass. And those bad ass kids LAWD LOL Ciaro penned out another banger! So do me right by buying this book!"

"loooove it. cass is a meeessss with her drama'd out freaky ass. cairo did a damn good job. her kids are halarious and her ass is soooo freaky. i never liked anal until this book. so yes, get it. its worth. the beginning is a litte slow but once you get into it, you not gonna put it down!"

"Great book the author did an outstanding job with this one. Love drama, this is the one for the intense reader. Thanks for Big Booty."

Wtf?

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

What kind of dumb shyt is that? 99% of Black men aren't deadbeats.

There are enough decent Black men to go around for the decent Black women we have in the community.

Somehow, the decent Black women either 1) hold out for some baller nikka or 2) get knocked up by some deadbeat.

If decent Black women would simply settle down with regular decent Black men, we'd not have these problems.

No one should settle. I, personally, don't want a chick who doesn't want me. Under any circumstance.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

yup there is a good black men for every black woman out there
but to a black woman hes a "square", he doesnt have that "edge" that "swag"

That's code for confidence which was beaten out of them real early.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

If a man chooses to sleep with an STD-ridden thot, and complains about catching an STD even though he clearly knew she was dirty, who is really at fault?

If a woman goes to an African safari, plays with a lion, then loses her arm to the lion, who is really at fault?

My point is, thots are gonna thot, lions are gonna lions, irresponsible men are gonna irresponsible. It's up to you to avoid an obvious danger.