Is Fatherlessness A Black Women's Problem, or A Black Males' Problem?

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Exactly....None of the women in my family have their kids out of wedlock. All of them are married. The fathers are also in their lives, so I don't understand why we should expecting worthless men to be great fathers. I can spot a worthless man form a mile away. Too many black women look at superficial stuff when picking a mate.

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he gotta good car though
that gold chain
he got 50 girls on fb liking every photo
he light skin

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Why do many black women go and have more kids out of wedlock after having one kid out of wedlock and seeing how hard it is? You saw how hard it is, so why do it again?
I see that you won't answer the question about fatherless biracial children with black fathers. :ohhh:
You dispute the data that I've provided. It's up to you to defend your position with sources. The answers that you seek are a simple Google search away. The US Census provides data on the biracial population, and the Kids Data Center contains information on single parenthood by race.
LOL of course you and your feminist/womanist sisterhood would never believe that a black woman is stupid enough to put herself in a dumb situation. Oh no it's never the black woman's fault. She does absolutely no wrong at all.
That has never been my position, and only a simpleton would infer that it was from what I have written.
 

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I see that you won't answer the question about fatherless biracial children with black fathers. :ohhh:

You dispute the data that I've provided. It's up to you to defend your position with sources. The answers that you seek are a simple Google search away. The US Census provides data on the biracial population, and the Kids Data Center contains information on single parenthood by race.

That has never been my position, and only a simpleton would infer that it was from what I have written.

you cant even post links

just some bs ass article written by a author who has never written anything else

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you cant even post links

just some bs ass article written by a author who has never written anything else

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I've posted data. If you have contrary data please do provide. You won't be able to because every source that you go to will back up the data that I've provided. This is across country lines as well.
 

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They chose those specific ain't shyt men too.
:laff: Isn't that rich? Every single group that black males procreate with has abysmal rates of single parenthood, and that has nothing to do with the HIGH percentage of deadbeat black males, but all to do with women's bad choices in the "rare deadbeat black male" (even in groups that have shown that they have no problems picking quality mates).
 

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:laff: Isn't that rich? Every single group that black males procreate with has abysmal rates of single parenthood, and that has nothing to do with the HIGH percentage of deadbeat black males, but all to do with women's bad choices in the "rare deadbeat black male" (even in groups that have shown that they have no problems picking quality mates).
Well they are a certain type of black men that these women choose.

Even worse when our own are even choosing these type of black men too and giving them value.
 

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Well they are a certain type of black men that these women choose.

Even worse when our own are choosing these men too and giving them value.

breh the article and stats aren't evne legit, the author has no credentials
 

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i just did a google search minus that article there is nothing

kep trying brehette
 

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This is very true. Growing up I loved reading, and became an avid reader. I became annoyed at how many thug love black books are out there, ESPECIALLY in the young adult romance section. I hated those books growing up. I remember being in high school and the young ladies LOVED reading those books. The boys loved them because of the raunchy sex scenes. You don't really start to see normal relationship romance novels until you enter the adult section. Even then the thug books far outnumber the normal romance books. There are also sick interracial romance stories/novels written by black women. I am not attacking black women, but when there is a LARGE segment written by black women something is wrong.

I rarely came across normal romance novels. When I read this book at 16 it was like a breath of fresh air.
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In a lot of black romance novels the drama is always sick and chaotic.The black man is a thug, pimp, street pharmacist, or engaged in some illegal activity. He may also be abusive. The woman is the bottom bytch, his side piece, his stripper girlfriend, and etc. The plots are never good and simple. Why can't it be a struggling long distance relationship? A romantic economic class novel? What about a religious struggle? How about a language barrier? Hell make a black vampire man and a human girl. I'm just tired of all this thug love mess. If you are a mainstream writer you write plots to attract your audience. The fact that those books sell and have a large fan base says a lot.
 

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Well they are a certain type of black men that these women choose.

Even worse when our own are even choosing these type of black men too and giving them value.
Perhaps if everyone keeps choosing them it means that most of the ones to choose from are like that. If I have a hundred apples to choose from, and 99 of them are rotten then I'm most likely going to end up with a rotten apple.
 

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Perhaps if everyone keeps choosing them it means that most of the ones to choose from are like that. If I have a hundred apples to choose from, and 99 of them are rotten then I'm most likely going to end up with a rotten apple.
That's a dangerous game your playing there.

Especially with that 99 of them comment which paints a false picture

You can play that game with people in our whole group like a white suoremacist does to us or you can focus on the good black people and support them and aim to make sure more good blacks people come to be.
 

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I see that you won't answer the question about fatherless biracial children with black fathers. :ohhh:

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Fatherless biracial children? Easy those women pick terrible men as fathers. There are a lot good black men who want to be husbands and father. They get passed over for shytty men. In my old neighborhood I had a White Puerto Rican neighbor. She had six kids out of wedlock all by black men. Her kids fathers were all complete bums. The shyt is disgusting, but it's the life she chose.

I know you want me to say, "The reason why black children are born out of wedlock and fatherless is because black men do not care about watching their kids and abandon them". Yes there are men that do abandon their family, but it's not the MAJOR reason why the out of wedlock and fatherless rate is high. Too many black women are having kids with worthless men. What kills me is when these same women go on to have more kids.
 
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