In case ya'll wondering....
I went with the Blackberry Z10!
after looking at all them shyts in store, THEY ALL LOOK THE SAME. just a screen. . but that z10 just looked so sharp. not too big like the note 2 and not too small like the iphone 5 (they changed the cord. smh). been playing round with it for an hr and i'm loving it so far. got 15 days to decide if i wanna return it too so im good.
thanks ya'll for the info and posts, good or bad!