I’m In My Late 30s And Have Had Sex With At Least 350+ Women AMA

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Op,

I'm tryna get my numbers up.

Could you give me advice on hollern at mad bytches and not letting ego get in the way?

I hate going out my way and possibly getting rejected always hated it. It's hard for me to holla at multiple chicks if I don't hit a stride.

And I wanted to know cold approach tips too. I can't seem to do it if it isn't in a club.

Thanks bruh


How about you ask, instead.
 

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Op,

I'm tryna get my numbers up.

Could you give me advice on hollern at mad bytches and not letting ego get in the way?

I hate going out my way and possibly getting rejected always hated it. It's hard for me to holla at multiple chicks if I don't hit a stride.

And I wanted to know cold approach tips too. I can't seem to do it if it isn't in a club.

Thanks bruh

I got u peep my thread it works

iam gonna save you incels, go to the club and do this 100 guaranted p*ssy at the end of the night
 

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Imagine if you'd spent that whole time doing something productive, like learning a new language or becoming rich.

If you attacked business conquests instead of fleeting orgasms....

How wealthy do you think you would be ?

Good questions fellas. I’ve asked myself this many times over the past ten years or so. It’s still a fleeting thought every now and then. But I’ve always concluded the same thing each time: my behavior has little to no impact on my level of financial success. I always think about it like this: if I wasn’t laid up between some thighs, what else what I be doing? The answer is usually always ‘laid up in my bed, sleep’. It’s easy to shoot of texts and dms while working all day, working out after work or after training, etc. And my link ups 90% of the time happen at night, when I wouldnt have been doing anything else anyway. If there’s ever a daytime rendezvous it’s generally a weekend thing when, again, I wouldn’t be doing anything financially related anyway.

I guess we can assume yall don’t chase women as much as I do, which begs the question what business conquests and wealth building are yall attacking/engaged instead?
 

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Any person sleeping with that much people man or woman is overcompensating for something and probably has issues:hubie: Sorry not sorry
 

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FYI your number is extreme lee low compared to other late 30s hunters

Are you Jehova Witness?
Word I remember like 5 years ago, some woman fukked like 400 dudes in 3 years.....


I'd expect a man to take 2-3 times as long, so at least 9 years not 20.
 

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Good questions fellas. I’ve asked myself this many times over the past ten years or so. It’s still a fleeting thought every now and then. But I’ve always concluded the same thing each time: my behavior has little to no impact on my level of financial success. I always think about it like this: if I wasn’t laid up between some thighs, what else what I be doing? The answer is usually always ‘laid up in my bed, sleep’. It’s easy to shoot of texts and dms while working all day, working out after work or after training, etc. And my link ups 90% of the time happen at night, when I wouldnt have been doing anything else anyway. If there’s ever a daytime rendezvous it’s generally a weekend thing when, again, I wouldn’t be doing anything financially related anyway.

I guess we can assume yall don’t chase women as much as I do, which begs the question what business conquests and wealth building are yall attacking/engaged instead?

damn slow down man u killin them

i hope for the sake of ur own safety u not publicly tellin to ur friends how much u get it that hate will kill u baaaaaaad

just reading the replies on this thread is pretty clear the whos hatin just because u get so much and they dont
 

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Good questions fellas. I’ve asked myself this many times over the past ten years or so. It’s still a fleeting thought every now and then. But I’ve always concluded the same thing each time: my behavior has little to no impact on my level of financial success. I always think about it like this: if I wasn’t laid up between some thighs, what else what I be doing? The answer is usually always ‘laid up in my bed, sleep’. It’s easy to shoot of texts and dms while working all day, working out after work or after training, etc. And my link ups 90% of the time happen at night, when I wouldnt have been doing anything else anyway. If there’s ever a daytime rendezvous it’s generally a weekend thing when, again, I wouldn’t be doing anything financially related anyway.

I guess we can assume yall don’t chase women as much as I do, which begs the question what business conquests and wealth building are yall attacking/engaged instead?
That's what I was thinking, aside from college, most of my hooks up happen around 11pm -3am.....

On the other hand, I've totally sabotaged sleep to to get laid, then paid the price for it later after a long day or not waking up on time.
 

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If you could divide all the women you've smashed in percentages based on race, what would it look like? (e.g. 40% black, 20% white, etc.)
99% Black without a doubt lol. I don’t even try to holla at women of other races. They’re attractive, yes, I’m just out of my element with them. Not above smashing them if the opportunity presented itself, but it’s not something i necessarily think about or desire per se.

How did you deal with all the rejections from playing the numbers game?
If she’s just a random chick I’m just seeing for the first time and I get rejected when I try to holla, I just thank her for her time and move on. It doesn’t bother me or anything, because of my confidence. I even often joke with them about the rejection if the vibe allows an opening for it. Women really appreciate it, too.(that type of response to being curved)

The average man will have down time ie nights when all his plans fall through so he’s forced to stay home...

Given your high success rate would you say that you simply didn’t have much night’s where you were flaked on and forced to stay home?

Heck no I wouldn’t say that. I HAVE had many nights where I’ve been stood up and it seems like none of the backups are answering the phone either. It just comes with the territory.

Have you been with all races of women? Also do you get many rejections? If so why?

Nope, mostly Black women. Almost every last woman I’ve been with, was Black. The only ones who were non Black was a puerto rican and Black chick mixed chick and a thiiiick mixed Korean girl back at NCCU who used to wear her hair wild like Troy Polomalu. Yes, I get many rejections. Some of the reasons I am given by the female or that I detect myself, are coming off too arrogantly, or she is already involved(#1 reason/excuse), or they genuinely just don’t seem attracted to me.
 

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Good questions fellas. I’ve asked myself this many times over the past ten years or so. It’s still a fleeting thought every now and then. But I’ve always concluded the same thing each time: my behavior has little to no impact on my level of financial success. I always think about it like this: if I wasn’t laid up between some thighs, what else what I be doing? The answer is usually always ‘laid up in my bed, sleep’. It’s easy to shoot of texts and dms while working all day, working out after work or after training, etc. And my link ups 90% of the time happen at night, when I wouldnt have been doing anything else anyway. If there’s ever a daytime rendezvous it’s generally a weekend thing when, again, I wouldn’t be doing anything financially related anyway.

I guess we can assume yall don’t chase women as much as I do, which begs the question what business conquests and wealth building are yall attacking/engaged instead?

There is nothing wrong with that. If you had nothing else to do then by all means

This will be my second time coming out of mini-retirement after selling off businesses
I've started and i'm in my late 20s. Within the last year I've learnt Portuguese and made
a solid chunk from crypto along with dropping citizenship for tax purposes.

My next steps will be learning Mandarin and improving some biz-related skills and
looking at opportunities in East/Southern Africa and Asia perhaps picking up a martial
art too.

I used to chase when I was younger but now it's just not worth it. Travelling
opened up better options and I'm not into drama
 
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How do you approach closing when it is a one night stand? Do you invite her back to your place and escalate it from there or are you more blunt about it?
 

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I'm starting to feel the same way OP. I'm in my late 20's and i've fukked over 50 women but i feel empty inside and to quote what you said

"But none of it is worth it when:
A. most of it has become a blur anyway, the actual intercourses.. I mean I recall bits of all of my encounters, the passion too- but I possess not a single whole memory of even ONE.
Which, in the end, leaves you with almost nothing but a bunch of experiences and stories to tell.. nothing concrete, nothing to show for it
."

Just last weekend i fukked 2 girls but it all feels like a distant memory like i can remember what happened visually but at the same time feels like i've forgotton the experience and im seeking for that new experience. :to:
 

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Let's say he lost his virginity at 14 and he is 38. That's around 15 women a year, or a new chick every 25 or so days between serious relationships :duck:

Even the most mentally unstable gets tired of chasing ass, especially when he starts stacking his paper.
 
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