I’m In My Late 30s And Have Had Sex With At Least 350+ Women AMA

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You're probably right. I just can't see it. My version of Loneliness, you're feeling the same way but getting even less satisfaction because there is not even any human intimacy to fall back on.

At least with being very sexually active you get to talk to new people, you get the satisfaction of knowing you're not invisible or undesirable. You get to experience more

Sure at the end of the day you're still not getting what you want. But which life would you rather have?

What the op fears, is what I feared as I reached my late 20s. The more woman u are with, and the more experience u have, the less satisfied u become with em cuz ur always comparing to past broads. It's a destructive habit, and esp as u get older, it's so much time energy and focus being spent on something that's really pointless.

Again, these are just my own experiences. I'm in my mid 30s now. There's alotta younger bruhs here in their teens and early 20s that prolly think getting alotta p*ssy is dope, but fr, it's not all it's chalked up to be. Original poster surmised as such in his original post as well...
 

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Damn there is a lot of hate in this thread, probably a lot of dudes who are not getting any tail.. listen.. learn from this man and take his advice. wether you think 350 is crazy or whatever it doesnt matter - what matters is his advice will scale if you want to get your count up to 10, 30, 75, 150, etc. some dudes it comes easy, but even then you still got to put the work in. this guy has probably been rejected thousands of times, you cant be afraid of rejection
 

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Women lust after those men because they have social status/value not because they are promiscuous.

Men who have high quality women chasing after them are considered high status, by women of any race. It's not all the sex they're having that's attracting these ladies.

Prime example is Tim Tebow who I'm pretty sure is still a virgin. Women aren't climbing over each other to marry/date male porn stars. I was watching a documentary where male actors complained about finding partners because of they're current or past job.

Men who go out of their way to signal their chasity like Tim Tebow are almost always lyin. And even regular nikkas with high partner counts hardly ever have problems eventually settling down. Most male pornstars like Lex Steele are married or been married once, It aint that hard for most of them. And there's plenty on high status/upper class males who get no love from women at all. In fact, it was mainly rich cacs who started these mgtow/incel movements in the first place.
 

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You're probably right. I just can't see it. My version of Loneliness, you're feeling the same way but getting even less satisfaction because there is not even any human intimacy to fall back on.

At least with being very sexually active you get to talk to new people, you get the satisfaction of knowing you're not invisible or undesirable. You get to experience more

Sure at the end of the day you're still not getting what you want. But which life would you rather have?
This exactly. I'm in that boat and when I hear nikkas talking about "I smash a new bytch every other week but I'm lonely" I'm like :rudy:
 

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What the op fears, is what I feared as I reached my late 20s. The more woman u are with, and the more experience u have, the less satisfied u become with em cuz ur always comparing to past broads. It's a destructive habit, and esp as u get older, it's so much time energy and focus being spent on something that's really pointless.

Again, these are just my own experiences. I'm in my mid 30s now. There's alotta younger bruhs here in their teens and early 20s that prolly think getting alotta p*ssy is dope, but fr, it's not all it's chalked up to be. Original poster surmised as such in his original post as well...
It might NOT be all that but if it was worse than the alternative he wouldn't be doing it. The way I read his post, is that he's not even lonely, he just fears ending up that way. But by his own volition that appears to be his preference, as he clearly has no problem finding sex OR women willing to be in a relationship, its just that he gets bored.

And if boredom is really your breaking point, then I got bad news for you if you think the opposite side is better, or remotely similar. Boredom is the like the default experience for someone who struggles with sex. If anything boredom is mercy compared to the pits of depression and suicide over feeling inadequate.

I do however understand how the overconsumption of it, can leave you feeling empty after a while, when you compare your lifes accomplishments to people who have been working and building lasting acheivements. Nothing is free and the opportunity cost of chasing p*ssy for so long comes with a lack of growth. I get that part. But loneliness, I don't think brehs really feeling that yet. Call me when you desperately try to build connections with New people, but can't, and can't figure out why.
 
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This exactly. I'm in that boat and when I hear nikkas talking about "I smash a new bytch every other week but I'm lonely" I'm like :rudy:
Exactly. How are you lonely when you are constantly with others? If you still feel lonely smashin a new bytch every week then basically nothing you do will ever ease your loneliness. Hell, I know folks that still feel empty and lonely even after finding religion. Its like an innate problem with these folks, rather than their lifestyles.
 

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It might NOT be all that but if it was worse than the alternative he wouldn't be doing it. The way I read his post, is that he's not even lonely, he just fears ending up that way. But by his own volition that appears to be his preference, as he clearly has no problem finding sex OR women willing to be in a relationship, its just that he gets bored.

And if boredom is really your breaking point, then I got bad news for you if you think the opposite side is better, or remotely similar. Boredom is the like the default experience for someone who struggles with sex. If anything boredom is mercy compared to the pits of depression and suicide over feeling inadequate.

I do however understand how the overconsumption of it, can leave you feeling empty after a while, when you compare your lifes accomplishments to people who have been working and building lasting acheivements. Nothing is free and the opportunity cost of chasing p*ssy for so long comes with a lack of growth. I get that part. But loneliness, I don't think brehs really feeling that yet.

That's what I'm sayin. Getting bored with something is not a serious problem, it just means you got to cut down on it and move on to something else. Boredom and being spoiled ain't shyt compared to the anxiety and depression over not having something. And it don't just apply to sex, it also applies to money and just about everything else. If OP and brehs like him thinks they got it bad, look at the other side of the coin, look at the Elliot Roger's of the world.
 

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Anyone can have sex with 350 women. Have you had sex with 350 dimes? :patrice:

Without hate this is true! All the guys I know with high body counts have fcuked some wildebeest-this I say without hate.

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I actually admire any dude who can look at this close up and even half chub,goddammit!! Wish I saw this earlier: "Not really big on facial features but, again, I tend to usually find myself with beautiful women."
Just like I thought!
 
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So I was actually thinking about this earlier today, one of the reasons why OP may have been so successful, is because he can tolerate going through the same motions over and over. For example, when I know I got a chick. I pretty much hit every chick with the same lines, the same tactics, and it works. Through the year's I systematically developed what to say, how to say it, what to do, and how I do it.

For example I always make sure to wear a shirt that shows off my muscles, then If she's comfortable with me touching / hugging her I find some way to show my dominance, like picking her up while hugging her, or pushing her firmly against my body, so that she feels how rock hard or in shape I'm in. Also I'm a fan of tickling, not because I care about tickling, but because it sign that I have permission to explore her body and her guard is down. This lead to more informal touching. My favorite thing to do wrestle. When you can start wrestling with a woman, it's over.

If OP isn't burnt by the repetition of nature of doing the same thing then there's a market for constantly running the same game on women over and over. It's no different then people who work the same repetitive job for like 20-30 years on end. Like at the post office. It's not for everyone but some people are cool with that lane. It's actually easier to pull them most people think when, you have system down pact.

For me I can't tolerate chicks any more who are airheads, or even reasonably educated, I feel like predator if a woman isn't an intellectual like @Booksnrain because I can easily manipulate the situation and present a facade. Far too many women are blinded by superficial things like looks, money, intelligence, etc and I totally use that to my advantage. Coming off like an intellectual is the real cash cow :ohlawd:


Problem most women can't even tell when I'm running game to manipulate their emotions or get them to do what I want. True intellectual chicks won't let me get away wit that shyt because they see and recognize what I'm doing from a mile away, so I have to act right. :yeshrug:

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Bro you could have just moved to Puerto Rico under act 22 and got out of paying taxes on capital gains without givjng up citizenship
U.S. citizens are taxed on worldwide income breh ... :francis:
 

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