How much money did you spend?
Couldn’t put a figure on it but most times, if I have/had to spend money, it would be/would’ve been on stuff like a date night, weed, or a motel room when it’s a just a thot, gas in the whip, that’s about it really. And that’s not/wasn’t each and every time. It differed. In college I practically spent ZERO dollars because there it’s just a matter of ‘come to my dorm’. I was selling weed at one point in college as well so that part was already on deck. Post college it depends/depended on the type of chick. Hood chicks generally don’t care about going out on official “dates”, from my experiences. They’re usually down for just a nice night out of the hood tucked away in some cheap hotel on some other side of the city drinking smoking and sexing all night. If she’s not a hood chick then i find/have found myself having to go out on a date or two, sometimes smashing after the first date, sometimes after the second, it just varies. But rarely more than two dates.
How jaded has this made you?
I don’t know man. I really don’t. I’m seeing that word jaded a lot in this thread and I guess maybe I am. It’s not boring to me, the game. My only concern is that I bore of the individual woman herself, easily, and if I continue down that path I’m going to end up old and alone like my father.
But I just can’t stop. Even now, at my age, I still get my thrill out of it.
Does your wife know?
I’ve never actually been married, only engaged. Been single for a few years now.
Would you be cool with her having the same amount of partners as you?
Not at all and as double standard as that may be, I’m just being honest.
Tips for nikkas just tryna get sumn? I'm not try go crazy I just want a solid roster of 2-3 girls
Find an image and master it. There’s always an “image” that women are into, a type of man. There’s a wide range of them, actually. Just find one and kill it every time you step out. I, naturally, look mean. I also have a deep voice. So I played on those things. I gave myself muscles, a six pack, and grew my beard out. I now fit that “zaddy”(daddy) image and women love it. I get a lot of “you’re so mannish <3” and “you lookin all daddyish <3” type of comments from women. From the women who are attracted to that “manly” look/image that’s popular right now. It’s hard to explain. There’s a lot of women out here into bearded muscular men these days. Especially because of television and entertainment industry. Tattoos as well. So, since I kinda already had some of those qualities I picked that image and ran with it. There are millions of women out there who are into the cleaner look; little to no beard, earring in an ear or both ears, short crisp haircuts or those mohawk fade things the younger brothas get these days, skinny with the squared shoulders..it’s a look, an image, and if you already have some of those qualities then grab that image and perfect it. Even WizKhali..he is an image. If you’re skinny, go for it. You’ll attract the chicks who like him. There are tons of women I’ll never reach because I don’t fit the image they’re into. But luckily, there are so many women in the universe that all you have to do is find the image closest to you that’s hot right now and kill it. If you’re a short dude, pull the kevin hart looks off(workout, stay fresh, be funny/carefree/selfless), and you’ll attract the sect of women that are attracted to that image.
Secondly but not second to, image, is CONFIDENCE. It’s the number one weapon. Well, technically MONEY is the number one weapon but that’s irrelevant considering the majority of us aren’t rich. For us average citizens, your confidence is your MOAB. Your nuke. Then focus on fitting an image.
The image stuff, yeah it’s shallow it’s a bit corny it’s fake, but that’s the way you have to play the game. Women are shallow. Stoop down to that level by doing shallow things like not dressing how you’d REALLY like to dress but, instead, perfecting that inage you can perfect and dressing to fit that, and you’ll win most of the time.(when combined with confidence)
” type questions, but even that can be asked in a variety of ways. Once, I remember telling the chick “you fkn wit me tonight” and she literally almost spit her drink out and was like “of course nikka!
“. All the memories are flooding back and I remember two chicks who initiated it themselves with one saying things like “you my nikka tonite” or something like that, the other was more just on some “can you follow us(her n her cuz) when we leave?” and of course I was like cool but where to and why? She said she just had to drop her ppls off and wanted to “chill” after that. I knew automatically what that meant.
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