feelosofer
#ninergang
There's definitely a level of social conditioning going on, but it still won't catch up to the amount of Black men dating and marrying out so it's whatever.
I'm calling it now.. 2017 will be the year of the Bedwench.
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mcdivit85
Superstar
I have to agree with those who are pointing out the hypocrisy displayed by some black women when it comes to interracial dating 
When notable black men date out, there are scores of black women who will decry said men for "getting" someone other than black. Especially in case of the woman being white. There will be black men who clown said black men for dating out. One will hear tomes of how precious black love is. And how "no one can understand a black man like a black woman." And questions on why the larger pool of black men do not value black women. So on and so forth.
Of course, there are both black men and women who will defend said men for their choices. But the point is, there is a sizeable push back from BOTH black men AND black women.
The point is, the scorn is a lot louder than the praise. And there is a level of accountability assigned to black men by other black men for dating out. Especially when dating out seems to be done on a c00n level.
When notable black women date out, there are scores of black women applauding said woman. Almost no black women will question said black women and their motives for dating/marrying non-black men. Almost no black women will decry the decision to overlook potential black men as mates as opposed to non-black men. Almost no black women will question her loyalty to black people or how much she has been affected by the "European standard of beauty."
And here's the thing, most black men are the same. Most do not question her motives. Most do not threaten to "never support" said women again.
So, if interracial dating is wrong, shallow and self-hating for black, then how can it be anything else for black women?
How can black men and women, growing up in the same environs, date out for two different reasons and under two different auspices?
Peace
When notable black men date out, there are scores of black women who will decry said men for "getting" someone other than black. Especially in case of the woman being white. There will be black men who clown said black men for dating out. One will hear tomes of how precious black love is. And how "no one can understand a black man like a black woman." And questions on why the larger pool of black men do not value black women. So on and so forth.
Of course, there are both black men and women who will defend said men for their choices. But the point is, there is a sizeable push back from BOTH black men AND black women.
The point is, the scorn is a lot louder than the praise. And there is a level of accountability assigned to black men by other black men for dating out. Especially when dating out seems to be done on a c00n level.
When notable black women date out, there are scores of black women applauding said woman. Almost no black women will question said black women and their motives for dating/marrying non-black men. Almost no black women will decry the decision to overlook potential black men as mates as opposed to non-black men. Almost no black women will question her loyalty to black people or how much she has been affected by the "European standard of beauty."
And here's the thing, most black men are the same. Most do not question her motives. Most do not threaten to "never support" said women again.
So, if interracial dating is wrong, shallow and self-hating for black, then how can it be anything else for black women?
How can black men and women, growing up in the same environs, date out for two different reasons and under two different auspices?
Peace
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why do yall care¿*
All i gotta say is, if you Black, and you date a white man/woman, because you think they are better than Blacks, if i see a white person about to hang you from a tree and i got a gun on me with a full clip, I'll continue to my destination and save my bullets and wait for the news report of your "suicide"
mcdivit85
Superstar
I would assert that black men are less bothered by their women dating out than other races of men
For various reasons, some possibly social and some definitely historical, black men do not contend to hold undisputed title over black women
Peace
Ya'll nikkas is real insecure about this....seriously...
I though ya'll were Black Excellence, 6 Certs Gang, GMB, HOH movement?
These Coli nikka claims looking funny in the light
In what world would a cac have a chance with a sista against a black excellence lord?
Shows alot about the type of cat we dealing with here when it comes to who's upset about this....
I though ya'll were Black Excellence, 6 Certs Gang, GMB, HOH movement?
These Coli nikka claims looking funny in the light
In what world would a cac have a chance with a sista against a black excellence lord?
Shows alot about the type of cat we dealing with here when it comes to who's upset about this....
Ghetto Gaggers is becoming par for the course in WM/BW relationships much more than people care to admit.
I like you but WHY DO YOU KEEP COMMENTING ON THESE TYPE OF THREADS?!?!?!?!
You're married. To a sandcac.
GreenGhxst
Veteran
Serena marrying the owner of one of the most racist website(Reddit)
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Venus swirling too
I don't have a problem with it but queens be outchea settling for less sometimes, if you get you a white boy at least get one that has a respectable job and takes baths/showers daily..and isn't out here working at dollar general and coming home smelling like cheese puffs because you know damn well if marcell was outchea working like that and he tried to holla, you wouldn't give my nikka the time of day
And we pretend this board isn't virulently anti-marriage.Is this another thread where we pretend black men don't marry out twice the rate of black women. It is? OK, cool.
#GMB #HOH
...stupid bedwenches with their relationships and marriages to Cacs
BruhManFromTheFifthFlo
Veteran
Why y'all nikkas care so much who random thotties fukkin 
Only thing I wonder is when they on This pro black shyt, talking about white men are oppressive and then go home to they white bf
Only thing I wonder is when they on This pro black shyt, talking about white men are oppressive and then go home to they white bf
Y'all still at it
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I like you but WHY DO YOU KEEP COMMENTING ON THESE TYPE OF THREADS?!?!?!?!
You're married. To a sandcac.
I can't help it
GreenGhxst
Veteran
Why y'all nikkas care so much who random thotties fukkin
Only thing I wonder is when they on This pro black shyt, talking about white men are oppressive and then go home to they white bf
They get hype and feel empowered just to go home and look at their man like this when he says "babe those black lives matter guys are back to their old antics again..makes zero sense babe"
More power to them.. I cant talk pro black shyt and come home to a cac, cant do it breh
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UpAndComing
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pizzagirl864 Food, traveling, living life
pizzagirl864: Not into black guys
Op with the prophetic statement
pizzagirl864: Not into black guys
Op with the prophetic statement