No I think what he is saying is that as black man, black women should be a first choice not an option among many. Living in the UK, the Asian women (Indian, Pakistani, Bengali) NEVER for a second have to compete with any woman for an Asian man. They all know there will be Asian men to marry, they all know they will have an Asian husband. It isn't even a thought. THeir only concern is having a bigger wedding than their cousin.
Its why black men tell black women that "they will never marry you" because black men know that those men will not allow black women to have first dibs on them over their own woman.
This competition is a fair one to me. As long as black men aren't encouraging others to date white chicks....
A fair competition is this , RIGHT?