“If you make 60k & your wife makes 40k, your household income is 60k”

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

u fukking with some bogus hoes. but then again, I've only lived with one woman ever in life and that was my ex-wife.

*looks at username*

A lot of women selling puzzy out here whether it’s to a co worker or a nikka she meet in the street. Don’t matter she in a relationship or not.

 

[Rekkapryde]

A lot of women selling puzzy out here whether it’s to a co worker or a nikka she meet in the street. Don’t matter she in a relationship or not.

Nowadays, these young hoes don't care. But I always say the red flags show way before when you dealing with skallywag hoes.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I’d like to know who was raised with a single mom doing everything on her own vs a married two parent household.

If you saw your mother doing everything on her own, you are less likely to want to be a provider for your wife, or get married at all.

Most of y’all don’t want to pay for a woman’s meal on the first date. It’s a meal. It’s not a house, car, plane, etc. If you can’t buy a MEAL for a woman on a first date, I doubt you’re marriage material. Men have been the providers for centuries.

 

[Weaver31]

Remember to date and marry a woman who actually likes you, brehs. You won’t have to be dealing with this

This is real shyt. Some men and women outchea are game goofy asf. I do believe the man should be a major contributor but dating a woman who actually likes u would solve a lot of problems.

 

[Amo Husserl]

Tell that shyt to your Internal Revenue Service auditor.

 

[Space Cowboy]

Remember to date and marry a woman who actually likes you, brehs. You won’t have to be dealing with this

Facts. My girl offers to pay for things without asking. She doesn’t want the full burden on me because she loves me and sees how hard I work for her.

 

[Weaver31]

Every white coworker I know got a spouse chipping in on the bills

A lot of black women actually believe that most non black women are stay at home wives/moms and don't have to worry about bills.

 

[Rekkapryde]

I’d like to know who was raised with a single mom doing everything on her own vs a married two parent household.

If you saw your mother doing everything on her own, you are less likely to want to be a provider for your wife, or get married at all.

Most of y’all don’t want to pay for a woman’s meal on the first date. It’s a meal. It’s not a house, car, plane, etc. If you can’t buy a MEAL for a woman on a first date, I doubt you’re marriage material. Men have been the providers for centuries.

It's not 1924 no more b.

 

[Space Cowboy]

A lot of black women actually believe that most non black women are stay at home wives/moms and don't have to worry about bills.

For a group of people that claim to be experts on white people most black women clearly don’t know anything about white people.

White women being stay at home moms is made for tv. Just like @Piff Perkins said the other day about coffee dates. White people love coffee and do coffee dates on the daily but these social media black women are offended at the mere idea while demanding they be treated like white women without understanding how white people do their relationships.

I’d like to know who was raised with a single mom doing everything on her own vs a married two parent household.

If you saw your mother doing everything on her own, you are less likely to want to be a provider for your wife, or get married at all.

Most of y’all don’t want to pay for a woman’s meal on the first date. It’s a meal. It’s not a house, car, plane, etc. If you can’t buy a MEAL for a woman on a first date, I doubt you’re marriage material. Men have been the providers for centuries.

Many women take advantage of this. You have build up to the meal rather than invest early. Take her to get coffee. I offer to pay for everything by the way but I’m also not in the business of men getting taken advantage of.

 

[Booker Carver]

It's 2024 a two household income is a must. Cant do this separation of money in a marriage. The wife and I have 1 checking account and 1 savings account. She has access to my retirement and all my investments. I have the same access to her stuff also. Hell I manage her portfolio .

Same. She got way more in retirement than me, but I’m telling her how much to put in, I decide what we invest in. She got a big bonus, I decided where to invest it and buying real estate with it. It’s all going to the same pot. I never understand when people talk about their partner paying certain bills. It’s all coming from the same place.

 

[Piff Perkins]

For a group of people that claim to be experts on white people most black women clearly don’t know anything about white people.

White women being stay at home moms is made for tv. Just like @Piff Perkins said the other day about coffee dates. White people love coffee and do coffee dates on the daily but these social media black women are offended at the mere idea while demanding they be treated like white women without understanding how white people do their relationships.


Many women take advantage of this. You have build up to the meal rather than invest early. Take her to get coffee. I offer to pay for everything by the way but I’m also not in the business of men getting taken advantage of.

I realized that a lot of people have no real concept of anything beyond social media, and you HAVE to judge people based on this. So when I hear a woman say she doesn't want a 9-5 working man for instance I just think oh, so you don't have any professional men (or women) in your family. You don't know that a doctor/lawyer/accountant/IT security specialist/engineer/etc making 200k works a 9-5. And if you don't know that, and if you don't have financially successful family members...why would I want anything to do with you? It doesn't have to be 200k btw...these chicks don't even know that a UPS driver can make 50k+ and live comfortably. Because their only concepts of success are drug dealers, athletes, rappers, and (fake) business owners who are vacationing multiple times a year while the business magically runs itself back at home.

I've said before I'm not a coffee date guy, I'd rather go to a nice restaurant. But I've been around enough white people to understand that the women going on coffee dates are probably closer to finding a husband than the women stacking restaurant dates. The problem with a lot of modern black culture (social media, music, style, etc) is the assumption that everything you consume or do is a representation of your worth, what you can afford, and your value. Your shoes have to be the most expensive, your belt has to be the most expensive, your favorite restaurant has to be the one other people can't afford, etc etc. So going to a coffee shop for a date means you can't afford a nice restaurant. Going on a picnic date means you're broke. Traveling inside the country means you can't afford to travel outside the country. I notice a lot less of that from white people. If anything they're just nosy and will try to figure out what you can/can't afford in casual conversation. At a coffee shop lol.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

Y'all need to understand something, when it comes to taking women out and "paying for meals" it's not about the money, you have to move on from that.

If you take the average 28 year old male that's been dating since he left high school and has a good 8-10 years worth of experience dating, by the time he hits his late 20s he's tired of the same nonsense in the dating field. Take a woman out, pay for everything, get ghosted days later...repeat this process over and over and these cats ain't falling for it anymore.

I'm not trying to sound like a red piller, but these women simply are not worth the squeeze, not worth the chase. The average 28 year old male, assistant manager at Verizon/Apple, who has the money to take a woman out, but he's not about to fall for the okie doke anymore.

"Y'all dont wanna pay for first dates" thats because cats have been doing that sh*t and it's gotten them nowhere, it aint about the money

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

For a group of people that claim to be experts on white people most black women clearly don’t know anything about white people.

White women being stay at home moms is made for tv. Just like @Piff Perkins said the other day about coffee dates. White people love coffee and do coffee dates on the daily but these social media black women are offended at the mere idea while demanding they be treated like white women without understanding how white people do their relationships.


Many women take advantage of this. You have build up to the meal rather than invest early. Take her to get coffee. I offer to pay for everything by the way but I’m also not in the business of men getting taken advantage of.

I took my girl on a nice restaurant date 2.5 years into being with her , most women online would holler if they heard this

And it was the best date she's ever been on, we both knew each other, we was cracking jokes at the table, no expectations, no stress, no anxiety, I knew the food she liked, I knew when she likes to be back home and in bed, I knew the wine she liked, everything was covered. She ain't even have to stress about her dress that night.

Had I done this on day #4 of meeting her it would have gone down different.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

What the tax man say?

 

[Buckeye Fever]

To the dudes who are with women who demand that you pay for everything, how would you feel if she left you because you "fell off"?


What a goofy ass way to live

Not only do you have to worry about keeping your head above water, but you also gotta worry about the woman you invested so much time and money in, and should be a support system, leaving you and her finding the next dude that is thriving