exactly. the "black church" is BS imo....peaching Conservative views but not applying those views to daily life at all. look at people like Eddie Long...that's actually fairly normal to bishops to be either gay or womanizers...it's just that he got caught. real social conservatism is:
ostracizing unwed mothers...not throwing them baby showers
ostracizing men who go to prison... not throwing them release date parties
ostrasizing Baby Mamas and Baby daddies...not treating them like a regular part of the church\community.
mothers ostracizing drug dealing sons ...not turning a blind eye because he slides you money to pay the light bill etc.
the black church has zero credibility with me for the slackness the openly accept while calling down damnation of said things every sunday.
Don't blame the church... blame the people