same boat
I need to learn how to look friendly
Perhaps you do. But not to pick up women.
If women don't approach you. Does that mean you're ugly or just average?
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Perhaps you do. But not to pick up women.
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Nah not ugly. Women are very slick. I always have gotten approached by women (not often at all) more when I was having fun and with my people. Women love good energy. Especially in an environment that won't get you judged.
Agreed. We all tend to live in our heads a lot more than we used to. Risks are very calculated now. Why ask em out in person when you have their number to text? Why spend time with a person to find out who they are when you can hit their IG, Twitter and Facebook?
There's a reason why we are more narcissistic and anxious in this generation than the ones before. Not much real connecting or vulnerability out here. But this is one thing black people do grow a sense of when they come from hard circumstances, community.
Agreed. We all tend to live in our heads a lot more than we used to. Risks are very calculated now. Why ask em out in person when you have their number to text? Why spend time with a person to find out who they are when you can hit their IG, Twitter and Facebook?
There's a reason why we are more narcissistic and anxious in this generation than the ones before. Not much real connecting or vulnerability out here. But this is one thing black people do grow a sense of when they come from hard circumstances, community.
damn so i really did deserve being called a creep for doing that ish
you're right. I talk to a lot of women but rarely approached. I look friendly enough to start small talk with. permanent mean mug (blame the hood)
Jack Trippa 3z company ho
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Yeah I've been approached a decent amount of times both IRL and through social media...
I've also been told on many occasions that I can be unapproachable because I look mean or angry which 99% of the time is not the case. I tend to furl my eyebrows as a habit so it looks like I'm mean muggin when I don't mean to. Had a chick tell me one time she used to want to talk to me but I had a "resting a$$hole face" so she never said anything. I've had many people tell me they think I'm an a$$hole when they first meet me, but then once they get to know me they see that I'm nothing like that. I guess I gotta get to known someone before I let the, see that side.
This world makes you be a hardass and sometimes we don't even realize it.
I've also been told on many occasions that I can be unapproachable because I look mean or angry which 99% of the time is not the case. I tend to furl my eyebrows as a habit so it looks like I'm mean muggin when I don't mean to. Had a chick tell me one time she used to want to talk to me but I had a "resting a$$hole face" so she never said anything. I've had many people tell me they think I'm an a$$hole when they first meet me, but then once they get to know me they see that I'm nothing like that. I guess I gotta get to known someone before I let the, see that side.
This world makes you be a hardass and sometimes we don't even realize it.
bro i can't even tell you the amount of times i've messed up my chances with that kind of face
Jack Trippa 3z company ho
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Years and years of pain from society and ptsd from trash and scum (women and racism played a big part) left my face default. When i do smile i notice the women i see regularly instantly smile back and start fiddling their hair and make comments like "you always look mad". So it's true, if you look mean but are attractive they won't approach but will register you with mystery guy points.
Also most women dont approach they just send signals, they send less signals if your face is
Yep been told I'm mysterious on many occasions. People can't figure me out, I roll solo as much as I roll with other people and that throws people off sometimes. They'll be like "why are you out by yourself, don't know anyone around here?" Little do they know I have plenty of options, I just sometimes prefer rolling alone and maybe chop it up with some strangers.
It trips me out that people are scared to go places by themselves. Like if you're not comfortable with yourself to be by yourself, what's that say about you? But I've always been real independent. Moving to cities across the US for biz opportunities where I knew no one, or a place that I've barely visited never scared me. I know about 6-7 major cities like the back of my hand, and I can go to all of them and free places to stay and even free restaurants to eat at. And once I feel like I "conquered" a city, I move on to the next one. It's usually about 3 years or so.
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Or it could be that you're too attractive
A lot of chicks will come across a handsome fella and prejudge him as "conceited" or think "Probably pulls a bunch of ho's, but I'm different.Not about to stroke this niccaz ego
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It happens
A lot of chicks will come across a handsome fella and prejudge him as "conceited" or think "Probably pulls a bunch of ho's, but I'm different.Not about to stroke this niccaz ego
"It happens
I got it too. Damn hood and its embedded defense mechanisms.
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Strawberry
Big Rufus is gonna give me a daughter named Apple
Gee, I dunno, stop being an a$$hole?
Take the first step breh
Gee, I dunno, stop being an a$$hole?
Take the first step breh
For what reason should I stop being an a$$hole
If you're respecting people who didnt earn your respect you lost Should I respect you?
keep blaming shyt you cant change and making up excuses as to why yu cant get women brehs, get some confidence, a little bit of arrogance, and style about yaself
Right...I'm 5'7" too, and that's never been a problem for me. Besides, if a chick is THAT much taller than 5'7", like 5'10 or some shyt, then honestly that's a little too tall for me anyway.
I've always said this...I don't think women really care THAT much if you're short...so long as you're not shorter than them. If you're on some midget shyt, like fukking 5'2", that might be a different story.
