If ur under 30...engaged or thinkin bout gettin married... DONT DO IT

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And this is part of the reason society is going to shyt. Niccaz want kids but don't want to be a full time in house parent. They want to plan the seed...let the chick go thru it alone and then be a weekend parent or an "as needed" one as they move on living it up...fukking other women and then knocking them up also. Now your time is spread thin between trying to be a father to multiple kids in multiple different homes. I'm not saying it can't work...but having sibling and both parents in one home makes for better values for that child to carry on. It's a reason why kids of abusive parental relationships grow to be in those same relationships. It's a reason why men who see their father mistreat their mom grow up not respecting women. It's easy to live free and sow oats...but i feel like heading a strong family is the best way a man could leave his mark on this world.
 

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@a murda you're always making these warnings but never give nikkas concrete reasons WHY we shouldn't get married

Can you give proper reasons ?:upsetfavre:
 

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Lotta undercover faggits in here...

The best way to ensure the future of your bloodline and to increase their potential for power is with family. No one moves through this world by themselves. Its one thing to just say that you yourself cant do it and you will rely on your brothers/sisters to do this but to promote not creating families, not promoting a union with a woman is ridiculous. Its 2013 and costs are going up, why would you not have a woman in your life to help you? Dual income is the future. Power couples are the future. Family, for those that lack it now, is the future. This provides the cushion we need to survive and the method we have to use to ensure the survival of our people. The most powerful people and rich people in the nation are part of families. To say fukk women, get money and all of this gay rhetoric shows you really dont have an understanding of how wealth is built and maintained. Again, you cant do it alone. Get a woman, start a family. Sooner the better. If you feel having a child and a wife is going to cripple your ability to make money, then you really have every intention of wallowing in mediocrity and probably dont want family so you dont have to have a reason to step your shyt up.

I only agree with this if you're marrying Michelle Obama/Beyonce/Sanaa Lathan types. The average chick is going to drag you into the gutter of misery with her when she turns 40 and her body starts to sag while you are still a virile male.
 

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Yeah, the last thing you want is your wife to divorce you and take your imaginary billions.

Lots of dudes out there makin' less than 50k still givin' up half breh. At least the millionaire still has millions left over. The guy makin' 35k is now living in a shared studio or a homeless shelter. :wow:

Depends on who you are

For alot of men their value wont peak til mid 30s

For some (hs qb types) , they may be washed up by 30 and should lock down what they can while they still have value

For women... they should cash in their chips by 28 at the latest, after that its downhill fast


All about recognizing when you are at your peak and cashing in accordingly

/thread. In fact, a lot of dudes in general get way more p*ssy in their 30s because of the experience. Getting married before 30 is the equivalent of a pro athlete retiring after college. :damn: You still have so much more to live for, why throw it all away over a chick. There should a minimum requirement list of activities for males imho, like 50 in the bank, having visited at least 3 other countries, and having f*cked a chick who didnt speak the same native language. If you've done all this and STILL want to get married, then by all means do it. What kills me is seeing dudes with basic life experiences brag about marriage, only to hear the :to: in their voice as I tell them about last weekend. :win:
 

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I only agree with this if you're marrying Michelle Obama/Beyonce/Sanaa Lathan types. The average chick is going to drag you into the gutter of misery with her when she turns 40 and her body starts to sag while you are still a virile male.
That only happens to the average man. Perhaps alot of you guys shouldnt be apart of the future and in that case you should continue your selfish lives and never add anything to the gene pool. I dont have a problem with that because alot of you all shouldnt have children. It would only compound our problems.

Still, outside of that it just seems like you're afraid of having to mature because as a 40 year old man you're worried about how saggy your wifes t*ts are going to be. After helping you create a family, her titties will fall and you will begin your journey into :flabbynsick: Its ineveitable. To deny it shows a lack of maturity to some degree and that brings me back to reiterating my point that yes, these types of people shouldnt procreate but you also shouldnt be turning women into the problem for men who do want to have families.
 

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:rudy: @ me waiting for you to grow up while my eggs go rotten :scusthov:
More than anything its a significant indicator to the type man that he is. There's nothing that is going to magically change when you hit 30 years old in terms of a dude's mentality. Don't fukk with any man that isn't willing to commit to you while you're both still young.
 
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