If a HUSBAND is not capable of having his WIFE quit her job or RETIRE ..he is an UNDERACHIVER to HER
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Field Marshall Bradley
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BGLR1212000
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In a sad way, she's right. You need to be making 70k bUT that's not so she can sit on her ass too.
Bugatti Biceps
Supreme Hacker
Because it's not 1950 anymore, would be the main reason. Women couldn't up and leave and leave you holding the bag financially after she destroys your income and retirement to go lay up with another nikka on your dime.
This is how equality works. You want to be my equal, take your equal ass to work.
Sounds like she doesn't want kids and wants to be aroundfolks all day.....
I actually do want children and a career. It's possible, because I've seen the women in my family have both, and both thrive. You must have not read all that I wrote that explains my reasoning for why I think the way that I do, but I'm secure in my reasoning. It's easy to speculate when you only have pieces of a story, but I'll let you tell it.
Field Marshall Bradley
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East Is In The House OMG
after an "intimate" conversation with somebody's Wife..I've come to the realization
if your unable to let them be a stay at home mom..or ETERNAL housewife who just shops and provides her husband company and "support" it's safe to say she see you as a FAILURE
And Mostly Explains why she is sooo MISERABLE in yall HAPPY MARRIAGE
#thesehoesdontwannawork
#theydontwannapartnership
#theywannasponsorship
#GMB
this ain't 1952 
the only women who believe they shouldn't work are bum bytches
trust me...when a woman say she wants a real man to take care of her that is a code word for sucker
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Bugatti Biceps
Supreme Hacker
You'll more than likely be out of childbearing years by the time that happens, fyi.
sayyestothis
Free the guys
ugh...I'm talking about for a FAMILY. You're telling me that you can pay a mortgage, car note and car repairs for TWO cars , student loans, the high cost of food, house repairs, appliance and house general upkeep and maintenance ( like gutters, roofing, lawncare, painting, remodeling etc) saving for you AND your wife's retirement ( if you insist that she has no job remember YOU are agreeing to provide a safe financial future for her into old age, and getting old is EXPENSIVE), healthcare and dental care, a child and 25-40k college tuition for just an undergrad, not discount illnesses, vacations, childcare, clothing, makeup, hair cuts, braces, Internet, cell phone etc on 40k a year???? This has nothing to do with anything other than the cost of living that continues to increase and the cost of college/retirement that increases as well(and impending healthcare needs in old age for not just YOU but your WIFE- so maybe 1-2 mill if you both plan on living to 85...this isn't 1955. Have you done the actual math?
You don't get it if you can't EARN 100k or whatever a year then u DON'T have those things.
U talk like having student loans, two cars, mortgages, etc a RIGHT or something.
You get ALOT of people THEN in the "50s" and now don't NEED or have all of that.
If you can't afford it you live within ur means.
Smh the entitlement nowadays man!!! $
sayyestothis
Free the guys
It's marriage I'm referring to and if you want to live ur life ASSUMING ur wife is going to up and cheat have fun. I don't have time to stress over things out of my control anyway.
Nah I started school early and got good connections. PhD work is 80% making connections and getting ur name out there. I literally went through a program in undergrad the kinda molded us for tenure. There is a database of participating professors that help other graduates get tenured positions at universities. Besides which even associate professor make great money and the research grants out there along with other professional opportunities is a huge win. Most of my female professors live the good life. Literally holding seminars at professor's homes so they have the luxury of being with their children. Sabbaticals, honorariums, getting flown out and paid thousands just to speak at a conference.
I know because I was the event planner for a program at a university. Just to hire graduates to speak to our students for a weekend was a $5,000 honorarium.
It's an entire world out there. That's why people wanna work at the university. And did I mention the flexibility of the schedule?! University schedule? Fall break, winter break, spring break, teach Monday, Wednesday, Friday and have office hours after class and I'm off for the rest of the day?!
If you like research and writing, I can't think of a better job.
The university is very accommodating to working families.
I know because I was the event planner for a program at a university. Just to hire graduates to speak to our students for a weekend was a $5,000 honorarium.
It's an entire world out there. That's why people wanna work at the university. And did I mention the flexibility of the schedule?! University schedule? Fall break, winter break, spring break, teach Monday, Wednesday, Friday and have office hours after class and I'm off for the rest of the day?!
If you like research and writing, I can't think of a better job.
The university is very accommodating to working families.
Elle Driver
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Elle Driver
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Well said. This about sums it up greatly.
Bugatti Biceps
Supreme Hacker
Being a hacker for hire is similar to this sort of schedule, except way more self-directed and you can work whenever the mood strikes you once your name is sufficiently known as the dude to call when shyt hits the fan to enough people who write checks.
Dominicansbelit
All Star
This is why I'm glad to be a man.. Women need us 