mcdivit85
Superstar
My plan, if and when I get married, is to have my wife stay at home during the first few years of the childrens' life. I would just feel weak as a man if I had to see my wife go back to work a few weeks after having a child. I think she needs time to let her body recover as well as her hormones. Plus, I would not feel good having my newly born child in a new born daycare, so quickly after being born.
So, ideally, my wife would stay home the first 3-4 years for each child until they are ready for some type of pre-k program. At the minimum, I believe a man should be able to have his wife stay home for at least the first year after giving birth. After this, she can restart her career.
On another note, some of you dudes are truly funny style. You don't want career focused chicks who put their career at priority. You don't want chicks who are too busy. Yet you want chicks who bring in close to or just as much money as you. You want chicks who will have the time and desire to cook, clean and cater to you like they have nothing else to do. You want chicks who are focused solely on you and the kids all the while maintaining a 40 hour minimum job with deadlines, meetings and business travel.
If you want a woman to be able to cater to you all the time, you have to give her the time and energy to do that. How do you do that? Remove her from the workforce, so she's not spending the majority of her week focused on what's going on inside of a cubicle.
Otherwise, you really do share that girl....with her emails, with her colleagues and damn sure with her boss.
Peace
So, ideally, my wife would stay home the first 3-4 years for each child until they are ready for some type of pre-k program. At the minimum, I believe a man should be able to have his wife stay home for at least the first year after giving birth. After this, she can restart her career.
On another note, some of you dudes are truly funny style. You don't want career focused chicks who put their career at priority. You don't want chicks who are too busy. Yet you want chicks who bring in close to or just as much money as you. You want chicks who will have the time and desire to cook, clean and cater to you like they have nothing else to do. You want chicks who are focused solely on you and the kids all the while maintaining a 40 hour minimum job with deadlines, meetings and business travel.
If you want a woman to be able to cater to you all the time, you have to give her the time and energy to do that. How do you do that? Remove her from the workforce, so she's not spending the majority of her week focused on what's going on inside of a cubicle.
Otherwise, you really do share that girl....with her emails, with her colleagues and damn sure with her boss.
Peace