Of course someone would bring that argument/tactic, honestly I don't go out with enough, or the the same women to qualify for that guy at all, and whether some women once or twice has got me for a meal or a $100 is whatever to me...I'll accept the bad judgement call.
But, personally, I think the real loser is someone who willingly exploits their sexuality and intimacy for money, food (LOL), and material things, like we are in the stone age and shyt.
I look at them like the addict who burns the connect for a few dollars, and think's he's getting away with someone, or the dude who scams his friends for a dollar or two, just the petty bullshyt hustle of a real low life. The truly embarrassing part of that is they revel in their petiteness and dishonesty....Preying on insecure, naive people and idiots, not much above county jail scams or stolen gift card hustles.