Ahh, you're one of those dudes. One of those "I have to show everyone how much money I make at all times." type of dudes.
Lemme ask you, when the party happens (because it will) and people bring gifts anyway (because they will) are you going to throw a temper tantrum because you feel like someone out there doesn't realize that you're rich and you don't need "welfare"? Will you feel like less of a man? I bet you will.