"i only friend zoned you because you're too perfect"

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Send this nikka to the D-League

 

[Remote]

a woman has to worry about a man getting physically violent with her if she is brutally honest about his shortcomings. women are acutely aware of how fragile some men's egos are. they tiptoe around us all the time and yet men are sometimes completely oblivious to it.

a man who takes words literally instead of taking into account the social context or situation is not someone who "gets it". women want a man who "gets it" without having every little thing explained to him. not being able to read between the lines of what she is saying here shows a lack of social intelligence and understanding, which is probably why she's not feeling him in the first place.

also, some women, especially young women, can't articulate it or don't really know exactly why they aren't feeling a guy, they'll just know there is no chemistry and they are not feeling "it". i could break it down to her and explain exactly why she isn't feeling "it", but it doesn't really matter why because she's already decided she's not attracted.

she needs to find a way to let him down without threatening his ego, hence her calling him "too perfect". make more sense now?

only a woman could think it's her duty to soothe egos rather than be truthful.

Fear of violence is such a bullshyt excuse. Is that how you and others view men? As walking vessels of pending violence?

 

[D-NICE]

At least she was honest and breh can move on.



But when she is ready to settle down....

 

[Neil Tyson]

only a woman could think it's her duty to soothe egos rather than be truthful.

Fear of violence is such a bullshyt excuse. Is that how you and others view men? As walking vessels of pending violence?

I don't think it's fear of violence, more like coming as a shallow ho. Guilt and face saving is how these bytches roll.

 

[The Oracle]

only a woman could think it's her duty to soothe egos rather than be truthful.

Fear of violence is such a bullshyt excuse. Is that how you and others view men? As walking vessels of pending violence?

it's not bullshyt. it's a very real consideration. we can kill them with our bare hands. and there are plenty of stories of women rejecting men and being assaulted afterwards.

you can dismiss it all you like but it doesn't make any less true for them. even the women who aren't afraid may not be able to articulate it in a way that the man would understand.

normally when you try to tell the truth to people about themselves they get defensive and angry. so they find a nice way of saying it to keep the peace. both men and women are guilty of this right?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Very true


Thats why i let bytches know when I first meet em I dont judge em (sexual partners, abusive past, etc etc). I make em feel comfortable, and relate to em so they open and show em we both aint shyt.


Even tho when it comes to serious dating im very judgmental


Its the perfect reverse pscyhology cuz peeps be on some "she'll never tell u her true body count/her past" but if u establish that u dont care and ur just as flawed then they open up.

Thats when u use em up then toss them into the and let some simp deal with her baggage

Let me try this

 

[Neil Tyson]

Very true


Thats why i let bytches know when I first meet em I dont judge em (sexual partners, abusive past, etc etc). I make em feel comfortable, and relate to em so they open and show em we both aint shyt.


Even tho when it comes to serious dating im very judgmental


Its the perfect reverse pscyhology cuz peeps be on some "she'll never tell u her true body count/her past" but if u establish that u dont care and ur just as flawed then they open up.

Thats when u use em up then toss them into the and let some simp deal with her baggage

They should be comfortable with opening up to you sexually. That's what makes a difference between a lover and provider.

 

[Doobie Doo]

a woman has to worry about a man getting physically violent with her if she is brutally honest about his shortcomings. women are acutely aware of how fragile some men's egos are. they tiptoe around us all the time and yet men are sometimes completely oblivious to it.

a man who takes words literally instead of taking into account the social context or situation is not someone who "gets it". women want a man who "gets it" without having every little thing explained to him. not being able to read between the lines of what she is saying here shows a lack of social intelligence and understanding, which is probably why she's not feeling him in the first place.

also, some women, especially young women, can't articulate it or don't really know exactly why they aren't feeling a guy, they'll just know there is no chemistry and they are not feeling "it". i could break it down to her and explain exactly why she isn't feeling "it", but it doesn't really matter why because she's already decided she's not attracted.

she needs to find a way to let him down without threatening his ego, hence her calling him "too perfect". make more sense now?

None of that applies here. The woman in the meme is a piece of shyt.

 

[DaPresident]

for the TL:DR crowd...


Chick is telling the texter (in the nicest way she knows how) that she needs to go out and have her "hoe years" maybe even a few kids, then she'll be all his...She'll be back to him for love and support at that point and time

 

[Crayola Coyote]

a woman has to worry about a man getting physically violent with her if she is brutally honest about his shortcomings. women are acutely aware of how fragile some men's egos are. they tiptoe around us all the time and yet men are sometimes completely oblivious to it.

a man who takes words literally instead of taking into account the social context or situation is not someone who "gets it". women want a man who "gets it" without having every little thing explained to him. not being able to read between the lines of what she is saying here shows a lack of social intelligence and understanding, which is probably why she's not feeling him in the first place.

also, some women, especially young women, can't articulate it or don't really know exactly why they aren't feeling a guy, they'll just know there is no chemistry and they are not feeling "it". i could break it down to her and explain exactly why she isn't feeling "it", but it doesn't really matter why because she's already decided she's not attracted.

she needs to find a way to let him down without threatening his ego, hence her calling him "too perfect". make more sense now?

Get this simp nonsene the fukk outta here.

 

[Malik1time]

what type of fukk up shyt is this

 

[FTBS]

a woman has to worry about a man getting physically violent with her if she is brutally honest about his shortcomings. women are acutely aware of how fragile some men's egos are. they tiptoe around us all the time and yet men are sometimes completely oblivious to it.

a man who takes words literally instead of taking into account the social context or situation is not someone who "gets it". women want a man who "gets it" without having every little thing explained to him. not being able to read between the lines of what she is saying here shows a lack of social intelligence and understanding, which is probably why she's not feeling him in the first place.

also, some women, especially young women, can't articulate it or don't really know exactly why they aren't feeling a guy, they'll just know there is no chemistry and they are not feeling "it". i could break it down to her and explain exactly why she isn't feeling "it", but it doesn't really matter why because she's already decided she's not attracted.

she needs to find a way to let him down without threatening his ego, hence her calling him "too perfect". make more sense now?

We gotta stop with bullshyt like this. Women, in this day and age, get fly at the mouth all the time with dudes...especially dudes they know will take that shyt. What guys are most likely to take that shyt? Guys that are "too perfect". Some women are just dumb and/or weak and/or horrible judges of character and/or poor decision makers. There is no need to make the "nice guy" into the boogeyman in order to cover for this.

 

[The Oracle]

Get this simp nonsene the fukk outta here.

im glad you think its simp nonsense. makes taking your girl way easier.

 

[Weaver31]

That "perfect" dude is either not exciting enough for her or maybe he is perfect but she knows she not good enough for him or she not ready for him yet. Its hard to put blame on the dude right now when I know neither parties. Women are funny when it comes to attraction. Some women don't want to be tied down so soon. Some women (and men as well) have to go thru a THOT phase and sow their wild oaks. They need excitement...especially if they were raised in a sheltered environment. Its hard wired in women (well people in general) to want to get swept by the feet. Those more exciting dudes (thugs, d boys, athletes, ballers, strong mouthpiece having, pretty boys, etc.) give the women a rise and she has to go thru a phase before she appreciate the well off men, the boring but stable men, and the straight laced (don't drink, don't smoke, don't let loose, don't do anything wrong) type men.

What dude should do is move on and find a woman who is ready for him and who would appreciate him NOW instead of using him as a back up plan. Don't know if he is actually boring or not but maybe he is too good and perfect for her and she just needs the drama, excitement and fukery right now to feel young and free. Its sad because dudes like him be thinking something wrong with him but the issues may be more of hers.

 

[Youseenmywork]

No wonder we got a single mother epidemic. Women have kids with deadbeats & badboys instead of potential good fathers.


This topic has been discussed to death anyways

@Playa you know I can go in on this but I'm chill