"i only friend zoned you because you're too perfect"

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"I wanted to keep you around until the time was right."

Like this dude doesn't have other women he could be talking to instead.

She's treating him like he's that one item you get in an RPG that's super rare. You don't want to use it in battle to revive your party because you might not be able to find the item again and you already saved the game. So when you encounter a really tough boss at least you still have the item in your supply.

However she needs to learn that people don't work that way.
She has the impression that there's no Yuffies in that world that would snatch her shyt with the quickness.
 

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"I wanted to keep you around until the time was right."

Like this dude doesn't have other women he could be talking to instead.

She's treating him like he's that one item you get in an RPG that's super rare. You don't want to use it in battle to revive your party because you might not be able to find the item again and you already saved the game. So when you encounter a really tough boss at least you still have the item in your supply.

However she needs to learn that people don't work that way.
The elixir:mjgrin:
 
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JUST WAIT IT OUT. WHEN SHE CALL YOU UP TO MAJORS KNOCK THAT p*ssy OUT THE PARK. THEN RETIRE. LOSE HER NUMBER AND ACT LIKE YOU NEVER MET.

well, she's not likely going to ever come around anyway.

But you're right though.Sometimes they do.

I had one chick pop up again two years later after she curved me. Acting like everything is all good. Complimenting me, saying we should hang out, etc. :mjlol:

I literally had no interest in her at point.
 

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You may very well be right.

But the female habit lying and misleading people in the name of "protecting feelings" or "letting him down gently" as you put it, cripples men (and children).

It does far more harm than good.
Good intentions lead to horrible results more than people think.

a woman has to worry about a man getting physically violent with her if she is brutally honest about his shortcomings. women are acutely aware of how fragile some men's egos are. they tiptoe around us all the time and yet men are sometimes completely oblivious to it.

a man who takes words literally instead of taking into account the social context or situation is not someone who "gets it". women want a man who "gets it" without having every little thing explained to him. not being able to read between the lines of what she is saying here shows a lack of social intelligence and understanding, which is probably why she's not feeling him in the first place.

also, some women, especially young women, can't articulate it or don't really know exactly why they aren't feeling a guy, they'll just know there is no chemistry and they are not feeling "it". i could break it down to her and explain exactly why she isn't feeling "it", but it doesn't really matter why because she's already decided she's not attracted.

she needs to find a way to let him down without threatening his ego, hence her calling him "too perfect". make more sense now?
 

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I try to tell all these decent brehs that you are nothing but

FIRE EXTINGUISHERS ( in case of emergency)

The bad boys- thugs - ballers are the fire in her eyes that she can tolerate and deal with till the fire get way out of control and then she hope that fire extinguisher that's been hanging up is still working
:mjcry:JACKED THAT'S THE MOST BRILLIANT AND ELOQUENT WAY I'VE EVER SEEN SOMEBODY ARTICULATE THIS SITUATION.:to:
 

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a man who takes words literally instead of taking into account the social context or situation is not someone who "gets it". women want a man who "gets it" without having every little thing explained to him. not being able to read between the lines of what she is saying here shows a lack of social intelligence and understanding, which is probably why she's not feeling him in the first place.
A woman who can't simply express her feelings and emotions probably don't got no business in a relationship anyhow, and most of em ain't.
 
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