"i only friend zoned you because you're too perfect"

[jadillac]

When your enemy is calm as the sea be the mountain. When your enemy is the mountain be as calm as the sea

please explain?

 

[International Playa]

Its hard to say because I don't know them personally but I think ur right. People blaming him but maybe she not ready to be tied down. A lot of folks need to sow their wild oaks before getting into a serious, monogamous relationship. Some have to go thru the THOT phase and baby daddy drama phase before appreciating a straight laced, nice or more stable and predictable guy.

Yeah but most men dont wanna raise a another mans kids, so after she goes through the baby daddy drama phase most dudes wont want here.

I have dated single mothers who admitted they would have never dated me before they had children. One even begged me to marry her. I just got my nut & kept it moving.

This past weekend, bumped in to this female at a party from back in the days, she is a new mother with no father of her kid in sight. She was extra nice to me coming to start convos but before when she was single whenever I tried talking to her, she used to blatently ignore me to my face.

Brehs dont date single mothers, you never know her true intentions & whether she woulda dated you before she had kids

 

[Youseenmywork]

Yeah but most men dont wanna raise a another mans kids, so after she goes through the baby daddy drama phase most dudes wont want here.

I have dated single mothers who admitted they would have never dated me before they had children. One even begged me to marry her. I just got my nut & kept it moving.

This past weekend, bumped in to this female at a party from back in the days, she is a new mother with no father of her kid in sight. She was extra nice to me coming to start convos but before when she was single whenever I tried talking to her, she used to blatently ignore me to my face.

Brehs dont date single mothers, you never know her true intentions & whether she woulda dated you before she had kids

It just goes back to women should have to suffer for stupidity. I know men do cause we top of the food chain I don't care if women like it or not. NO man should raise somebody else's kids. Yes there good women who have been divorced and there are good women that have a child or two but that job is not for every MAN thoe. It takes a ceartin type of guy for that job and I'm not it.

 

[CarltonJunior]

This shyt got me heated.

 

[FTBS]

thought we already determined that "nice guys" are not actually nice at all. They pretend to be nice to try to get some p*ssy, and then when that doesn't work, they turn into the huge a$$holes they really are.

Oh so you were joking? Okay gotcha.

 

[1thouwow]

Women can't do everything that men do and vice versa. How dumb would a man sound talking bout "Women be sitting back waiting on the dude to make the first move. Women be indirect because they are afraid to put themselves out there. Why can't I?"? A man can afford to put a good catch on hold because if you are a man of worth your value will on rise as you get older and more established and more experienced. As females your value is only gonna drop as you age. That's why you see so many women in their 30s and 40s sounding just like the "nice guys" that they most likely rejected or tried to put on hold when they were younger. The dynamic flips around that time. So it's really stupid for a woman to adopt such a mindset.

I agree that women can't and shouldn't do the same thing we do. But at the same time, I'm not in my feelings bc I know that's what we do sometimes and some shyt u gotta charge to the game. I'm just adding a different perspective to the conversation.
I'm not gonna sit here and be misogynistic bc some nikka got his feelings hurt

 

[jadillac]

These bytches aint shyt so they want an aint shyt nikka like I explained earlier

These bytches aint shyt so they want an aint shyt nikka like I explained earlier

She knows he too good for her herself

He better skeet off and erase

I feel like rappers tried to teach us this 20-25 years ago

But we were all so fresh out the 70s80s90s era of love songs and singers, that it came across as too harsh. And many of us didn't listen.

Now I see, a young Snoop Doggy Dogg was telling us truth about the world. Thank u Snoop

 

[FTBS]

I agree that women can't and shouldn't do the same thing we do. But at the same time, I'm not in my feelings bc I know that's what we do sometimes and some shyt u gotta charge to the game. I'm just adding a different perspective to the conversation.
I'm not gonna sit here and be misogynistic bc some nikka got his feelings hurt

I don't think it's misogynistic or emotional to call shyt what it is and reject specious logic. He most certainly has his role in this, and that was the first thing I addressed in this thread. But that doesn't let her off the hook or alter reality. Sure plenty of people will go off the deep end into woman hating mode. That's not what I am on though. I am all about keeping shyt a buck regardless.

 

[jwonder]

I see all this laughing and shyt, but these lames ass nikkas be doing dumb shyt like this. Hanging out with a bytch that wants to talk, go to movies, and everything like a date but she will just go fukk somebody else later that night. A lot of black men turned into cacs as far as putting p*ssy on the pedestal. It's an epidemic that needs to stop.

I wish a bytch would try some shyt like that with me. I'll hit her with the so quick.

 

[1thouwow]

I don't think it's misogynistic or emotional to call shyt what it is and reject specious logic. He most certainly has his role in this, and that was the first thing I addressed in this thread. But that doesn't let her off the hook or alter reality. Sure plenty of people will go off the deep end into woman hating mode. That's not what I am on though. I am all about keeping shyt a buck regardless.

And she kept it a buck and said she ain't want him now, she want him later.

U think only men can decide when we wanna commit?

 

[jwonder]

"until the time is right" = after she's done getting ran through by all kinds of thugs and lowlifes and is now finally ready to settle down with a "good man". :Drakensberg:

Happens all the time. After baby # 3 from a a different no good dude, they looking for that good man. I had several women over the years try that shyt with me. They were fine as hell too. Once I found out about the multiple kids, I was like naw I'm good.

 

[FTBS]

And she kept it a buck and said she ain't want him now, she want him later.

U think only men can decide when we wanna commit?

I was referencing the shyt about what men/women can/can't do. She gets points for being honest and not stringing him along (any further that is because we don't know what happened beforehand). However, it's a really stupid decision and it's gonna hurt her way more than it hurts him. Not sure what I said that suggested that the decision to commit was anything but mutual.

 

[freetroit]

nah she's only hungry for dikk around me.

thought we already determined that "nice guys" are not actually nice at all. They pretend to be nice to try to get some p*ssy, and then when that doesn't work, they turn into the huge a$$holes they really are.

That second statement makes it seem like its a bad thing to want p*ssy all men do

Obviously women know why a guy is being nice also

Its nothing wrong or bad to try to nice your way to the p*ssy

Its the logical move its just that guys find out that a$$holes are actually getting the p*ssy

He gets mad and then becomes an a$$hole too

 

[Diondon]

I can never hate on honesty
You want things to be on way but it's the other. Foolishness
Hopefully ole boy was smashing doe

 

[MalikX]

These chicks not even lying about it no more. Told him to his face he was a SIMP and his only use in life was to be there to save her after she got ran through by all the men she considered to be more attractive than him