"i only friend zoned you because you're too perfect"

[Mike Nasty]

im glad you think its simp nonsense. makes taking your girl way easier.

Taking her out to dinner maybe.

 

[Youseenmywork]

That "perfect" dude is either not exciting enough for her or maybe he is perfect but she knows she not good enough for him or she not ready for him yet. Its hard to put blame on the dude right now when I know neither parties. Women are funny when it comes to attraction. Some women don't want to be tied down so soon. Some women (and men as well) have to go thru a THOT phase and sow their wild oaks. They need excitement...especially if they were raised in a sheltered environment. Its hard wired in women (well people in general) to want to get swept by the feet. Those more exciting dudes (thugs, d boys, athletes, ballers, strong mouthpiece having, pretty boys, etc.) give the women a rise and she has to go thru a phase before she appreciate the well off men, the boring but stable men, and the straight laced (don't drink, don't smoke, don't let loose, don't do anything wrong) type men.

What dude should do is move on and find a woman who is ready for him and who would appreciate him NOW instead of using him as a back up plan. Don't know if he is actually boring or not but maybe he is too good and perfect for her and she just needs the drama, excitement and fukery right now to feel young and free. Its sad because dudes like him be thinking something wrong with him but the issues may be more of hers.

Let's not act like she anit going to get smutted out in her 20s and then look for that perfect "God fearing man comes 29/30" . I say DOG her out but that's just me

 

[Weaver31]

Let's not act like she anit going to get smutted out in her 20s and then look for that perfect "God fearing man comes 29/30" . I say DOG her out but that's just me

Probably so....like I said...she may not be ready to be tied down and knows the guy is ready to be faithful to her. Some on here blaming the guy for either being too boring, lame, straight laced, etc. but of course society doesn't hold women accountable. Its hard to place blame because we don't personally know either party but its sad that the dude's ego will be affected and he gonna contemplate whats wrong with him when it may be her and maybe the time isn't right.

 

[FTBS]

You don't think nikkas do what she was talking about tho?

Women can't do everything that men do and vice versa. How dumb would a man sound talking bout "Women be sitting back waiting on the dude to make the first move. Women be indirect because they are afraid to put themselves out there. Why can't I?"? A man can afford to put a good catch on hold because if you are a man of worth your value will on rise as you get older and more established and more experienced. As females your value is only gonna drop as you age. That's why you see so many women in their 30s and 40s sounding just like the "nice guys" that they most likely rejected or tried to put on hold when they were younger. The dynamic flips around that time. So it's really stupid for a woman to adopt such a mindset.

 

[Weaver31]

for the TL:DR crowd...


Chick is telling the texter (in the nicest way she knows how) that she needs to go out and have her "hoe years" maybe even a few kids, then she'll be all his...She'll be back to him for love and support at that point and time

Its hard to say because I don't know them personally but I think ur right. People blaming him but maybe she not ready to be tied down. A lot of folks need to sow their wild oaks before getting into a serious, monogamous relationship. Some have to go thru the THOT phase and baby daddy drama phase before appreciating a straight laced, nice or more stable and predictable guy.

 

[Entropy Fan]

Women can't do everything that men do and vice versa. How dumb would a man sound talking bout "Women be sitting back waiting on the dude to make the first move. Women be indirect because they are afraid to put themselves out there. Why can't I?"? A man can afford to put a good catch on hold because if you are a man of worth your value will on rise as you get older and more established and more experienced. As females your value is only gonna drop as you age. That's why you see so many women in their 30s and 40s sounding just like the "nice guys" that they most likely rejected or tried to put on hold when they were younger. The dynamic flips around that time. So it's really stupid for a woman to adopt such a mindset.

35 year old woman: *ignores entire statement as it doesn't fit into her agenda*

.......bu bu but men get to ....Double standards.... Misogyny....I've grown and matured....I just wanted to live a little first and enjoy life

 

[Youseenmywork]

that's when you respond like FOH, biiihhhhhhhhhhh and go off on her.

What you got to lose at that point? Your dignity? Like she gives a damn about you anyway.

Naw breh . You have to finesse this situation. When your enemy is calm as the sea be the mountain. When your enemy is the mountain be as calm as the sea. You have to think of a way to make comfortable and dog her out and then ghost. Women HAVE TO start suffering for their stupidity.

 

[Youseenmywork]

So of you dudes just need to learn to dog chics out or at least hang around some nikka that do...that nice guy shyt will go eventually.

 

[Weaver31]

Very true


Thats why i let bytches know when I first meet em I dont judge em (sexual partners, abusive past, etc etc). I make em feel comfortable, and relate to em so they open and show em we both aint shyt.


Even tho when it comes to serious dating im very judgmental


Its the perfect reverse pscyhology cuz peeps be on some "she'll never tell u her true body count/her past" but if u establish that u dont care and ur just as flawed then they open up.

Thats when u use em up then toss them into the and let some simp deal with her baggage

You aint shyt for that.....perfect way to observe and analyze these h0es...perfect method to get them to be comfortable and open up...but u still aint shyt for that LOL

 

[Youseenmywork]

This also why marriage and relationships today just anit shyt. Women don't even understand if they were MORE accountable with there power a lot of things would change. They create the things in men that they don't want.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Very true


Thats why i let bytches know when I first meet em I dont judge em (sexual partners, abusive past, etc etc). I make em feel comfortable, and relate to em so they open and show em we both aint shyt.


Even tho when it comes to serious dating im very judgmental


Its the perfect reverse pscyhology cuz peeps be on some "she'll never tell u her true body count/her past" but if u establish that u dont care and ur just as flawed then they open up.

Thats when u use em up then toss them into the and let some simp deal with her baggage

nikkas better listen

 

[Breh13]

That is a sick logic to have.

 

[Taadow]

that's when you respond like "you didn't friend zone me...I just let you not fucc wit' me like that"

fixed

 

[The Oracle]

Taking her out to dinner maybe.

nah she's only hungry for dikk around me.

We gotta stop with bullshyt like this. Women, in this day and age, get fly at the mouth all the time with dudes...especially dudes they know will take that shyt. What guys are most likely to take that shyt? Guys that are "too perfect

thought we already determined that "nice guys" are not actually nice at all. They pretend to be nice to try to get some p*ssy, and then when that doesn't work, they turn into the huge a$$holes they really are.

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

treating nikkas like stocks & bonds out here

If he smashing...Not a simp...


If he NOT smashing....simp