I need my chick to have good hair not a weave

[MurderSheWrote]

Nah I think a lot of black women subconsciously don't like their natural kinky hair texture and it shows because why would they alter they're hair in such a way that is deleterious for purposes of staying trendy?? I'm not saying other women don't do things to themselves that are unsafe but people usually alter themselves in such a way because of low self esteem.

When black men were plastering their hair down with grease and wearing stocking caps in the 1920-1940s was it because they hated their hair or was it because it was the trend at the moment?

When black men were conking their hair in the 1950s-1960s was it because they hated themselves or was it because it was the trend at that moment?

When black men were rocking jheri curls in the 1980s and S curls in the 1990s was it because they hated themselves or was it because it was the trend at that moment?

When black men cut their hair into low cut ceasars (which prevent any "nap" or "curl" from growing) are they doing it because they hate themselves or is it the common trend for the moment?

When black intentionally manipulate their hair (i.e., brush, grease and wave caps) is it because they hate themselves or is it the common trend of the time????

You seem to have a very selective memory. People alter their physical appearance all the time due to trends. Black women (AND black men) are no different in that regard. The only difference is WE (black women) get criticized more often for doing it by men who don't know their own damn history.

You don't see White women collectively as a whole trying to lock their hair or darkening their skin but yet you see everyday, black women rocking platinum blonde hair, damaging their hair with caustic chemicals not fit for use on hair just to straighten it out and bleaching their skin. Someone who loves themselves wouldn't go through all of that trouble. I don't equate chemically damaging hair with chemicals and scorching hot irons a simple "style". It's not like afro's and dreadlocs(should be caled locs by itself imo as white people "dreaded" rebellious hairstyles back then) comprises ALL natural hair styles.

Let me get this straight. YOU (I'm speaking specifically to you and ALL the hypocritical black men on this site) don't see white women dying their hair???

You didn't see white women running out to get their hair just like Jennifer Aniston when she was on Friends? You didn't see them rocking the same hair cut and highlights as her?

You didn't see white women rocking cornrows when Bo Derek started doing it?

You didn't see white women trying to "Fro" their hair in the 1970s?

You didn't see white women starching the hell out of their hair in the 1980s to get it to look BIG, CURLY and PUFFY???

You didn't see white women going blond platinum blond when Marilyn Monroe did it?

You didn't see white women rocking the Jackie Kennedy cut when JFK was in office?

Please come again!

 

[MurderSheWrote]

^^ So its safe to say she's on that policy

No I think it's safe to say I'm on the "No kneegrow is going to interfere with my money" policy.

Again, when you black men start EMPLOYING black women then we can talk about my hair.

 

[DemureNatural]

This is properly going to be the first and last time I ever post on this site.

I've been lurking on this site for a while but this bullshyt is just too damn much. There is a reason why black women don't visit black men's forum. Generally speaking there is an educational gap that cannot be ignored. Most of the time when I'm lurking I feel like I've stepped into a classroom full of grown retards.

Most of you nikkas on this site are dumb as hell! You fools have the nerve to wonder why so many black women walk around thinking/saying "nikkas ain't shyt." Well, take a good look at this thread. Generally speaking, the nikkas that visit this site really ain't shyt.

I'm going to address some of your points one by one...

1). "Black men never see black women hair."

Bullshyt! The same thing that grows out of black women's scalp grows out of your scalps dumbasses.

Even if you don't see too many natural black women walking around the texture of hair that grows from our scalp also grows from YOURS!

So for any of you simple-minded G.E.D. recipients to put down black women's hair (whether weaved, relaxed, or natural) is to put down your own damn hair!

That is called SELF-HATE.

2). "Black women don't like their hair."

Wrong! Black women don't perm, weave and relax our hair because we hate our hair. Instead we do it for the following reasons...

• It's the style or the trend at the moment.
• Our natural hair isn't accepted in mainstream society (I will come back to this point)
• We like it that way...which we have EVERY right to like.
• Last but not least...because you worthless nikkas are constantly telling us our hair is ugly, nappy, and unlike other races of women.

The reality is black men haven't done shyt to improve the condition of black women in this country. You don't provide. You don't build. You don't create jobs. You haven't built a foundation for your community. You contribute NOTHING to the lives of black women and children that can improve the condition of the community.

So, why you feel we (black women) should listen to you concerning our HAIR is beyond me!

The person black women should and often DO listen to is the white man who employs our asses! He signs our paychecks! His dress code in the work environment is FAR more crucial and important than the opinion of the world's most POWERLESS men. Because we don't have a foundation in our community and because we are FORCED to rely on him for JOBS we are also FORCED to get with his standards! Do you clueless sons of Pookie and Ray Ray understand cause and effect????

I crack up every time I read a comment on here in which one of you refers to yourself as an "Alpha men."

Sweeties "Alpha men" cannot be conquered.

They cannot be enslaved mentally or physically.

Their women don't look at them and think, "Damn...we got screwed!"

And when we look around black men HAVE been conquered.

You nikkas are so mentally ill and sick that you don't even realize that your penis and its size is WORTHLESS in the greater scheme of things when men are measured by the the functionality of their communities, businesses and their healthy/wellness of their families.

Then you have the nerve to wonder why more and more black women are "thirsty" or "lusting" after white men. Between the two of you THEY COME ACROSS AND MORE APPEALING AND LEVELHEADED.

Wake the hell up and look around. Black men today don't have any honor or pride or SUBSTANCE.

Rant over.

That was an awesome response to a stupid ass question
Most of these men on this site are so very daft (and immature), honey! I rarely visit anymore because I can't take this board seriously unless it's in the Higher Learning section. I've never met real, live men (especially) black men, who think the way these boys (I said it, BOYS) on this site do. These men don't deserve any woman.

 

[Darts]

No I think it's safe to say I'm on the "No kneegrow is going to interfere with my money" policy.

Again, when you black men start EMPLOYING black women then we can talk about my hair.

I only highlighted those because they stood out.


Ur entire post reeks of "I don't fukk with black men "

 

[MurderSheWrote]

That was an awesome response to a stupid ass question
Most of these men on this site are so very daft (and immature), honey! I rarely visit anymore because I can't take this board seriously unless it's in the Higher Learning section. I've never met real, live men (especially) black men, who think the way these boys (I said it, BOYS) on this site do. These men don't deserve any woman.

I hear you. I was reading some of this dumb shyt and SMH. If these individuals are truly black they need to seek professional help.

 

[DemureNatural]

When black men were plastering their hair down with grease and wearing stocking caps in the 1920-1940s was it because they hated their hair or was it because it was the trend at the moment?

When black men were conking their hair in the 1950s-1960s was it because they hated themselves or was it because it was the trend at that moment?

When black men were rocking jheri curls in the 1980s and S curls in the 1990s was it because they hated themselves or was it because it was the trend at that moment?

When black men cut their hair into low cut ceasars (which prevent any "nap" or "curl" from growing) are they doing it because they hate themselves or is it the common trend for the moment?

When black intentionally manipulate their hair (i.e., brush, grease and wave caps) is it because they hate themselves or is it the common trend of the time????

You seem to have a very selective memory. People alter their physical appearance all the time due to trends. Black women (AND black men) are no different in that regard. The only difference is WE (black women) get criticized more often for doing it by men who don't know their own damn history.



Let me get this straight. YOU (I'm speaking specifically to you and ALL the hypocritical black men on this site) don't see white women dying their hair???

You didn't see white women running out to get their hair just like Jennifer Aniston when she was on Friends? You didn't see them rocking the same hair cut and highlights as her?

You didn't see white women rocking cornrows when Bo Derek started doing it?

You didn't see white women trying to "Fro" their hair in the 1970s?

You didn't see white women starching the hell out of their hair in the 1980s to get it to look BIG, CURLY and PUFFY???

You didn't see white women going blond platinum blond when Marilyn Monroe did it?

You didn't see white women rocking the Jackie Kennedy cut when JFK was in office?

Please come again!

You are expecting too much from the fools on this site... Try as you might, a lot of folks on this site are as you said in another post,

dumbasses

 

[MurderSheWrote]

I only highlighted those because they stood out.


Ur entire post reeks of "I don't fukk with black men "

No, that's the way YOU read it. I don't fukk with dumb nikkas and apparently this site is full of them.

 

[Just like bruddas]

This is properly going to be the first and last time I ever post on this site.

I've been lurking on this site for a while but this bullshyt is just too damn much. There is a reason why black women don't visit black men's forum. Generally speaking there is an educational gap that cannot be ignored. Most of the time when I'm lurking I feel like I've stepped into a classroom full of grown retards.

Most of you nikkas on this site are dumb as hell! You fools have the nerve to wonder why so many black women walk around thinking/saying "nikkas ain't shyt." Well, take a good look at this thread. Generally speaking, the nikkas that visit this site really ain't shyt.

I'm going to address some of your points one by one...

1). "Black men never see black women hair."

Bullshyt! The same thing that grows out of black women's scalp grows out of your scalps dumbasses.

Even if you don't see too many natural black women walking around the texture of hair that grows from our scalp also grows from YOURS!

So for any of you simple-minded G.E.D. recipients to put down black women's hair (whether weaved, relaxed, or natural) is to put down your own damn hair!

That is called SELF-HATE.

2). "Black women don't like their hair."

Wrong! Black women don't perm, weave and relax our hair because we hate our hair. Instead we do it for the following reasons...

• It's the style or the trend at the moment.
• Our natural hair isn't accepted in mainstream society (I will come back to this point)
• We like it that way...which we have EVERY right to like.
• Last but not least...because you worthless nikkas are constantly telling us our hair is ugly, nappy, and unlike other races of women.

The reality is black men haven't done shyt to improve the condition of black women in this country. You don't provide. You don't build. You don't create jobs. You haven't built a foundation for your community. You contribute NOTHING to the lives of black women and children that can improve the condition of the community.

So, why you feel we (black women) should listen to you concerning our HAIR is beyond me!

The person black women should and often DO listen to is the white man who employs our asses! He signs our paychecks! His dress code in the work environment is FAR more crucial and important than the opinion of the world's most POWERLESS men. Because we don't have a foundation in our community and because we are FORCED to rely on him for JOBS we are also FORCED to get with his standards! Do you clueless sons of Pookie and Ray Ray understand cause and effect????

I crack up every time I read a comment on here in which one of you refers to yourself as an "Alpha men."

Sweeties "Alpha men" cannot be conquered.

They cannot be enslaved mentally or physically.

Their women don't look at them and think, "Damn...we got screwed!"

And when we look around black men HAVE been conquered.

You nikkas are so mentally ill and sick that you don't even realize that your penis and its size is WORTHLESS in the greater scheme of things when men are measured by the the functionality of their communities, businesses and their healthy/wellness of their families.

Then you have the nerve to wonder why more and more black women are "thirsty" or "lusting" after white men. Between the two of you THEY COME ACROSS AND MORE APPEALING AND LEVELHEADED.

Wake the hell up and look around. Black men today don't have any honor or pride or SUBSTANCE.

Rant over.

I dont know if youre coming back or not but your mind set of fighting hate with hate is the mean reason why we are in this predicament. We all "men and women" to come together and build. Yes I know it hurts reading and hearing what is said about yall, especially when it comes from us. But can you blame us for feeling this way? We can't blame yall cause at the end of the day its not really our fault as a people. 100s of years of being abused, killed, chased, sold, raped etc. Lets not forget about the conditioning that they put us through even after slavery was done. All of us both men and women are angry.


Till this day the effects slavery still show, we are a lost people. Only way for us to find ourselves, our culture is to find each other. Break these chains that have been placed on our minds. Theyre there for a reason and by us yelling and fighting each other they will cont to be there.

I dont know you and Im sorry that your first post had to be like that, I could only imagine the pain you went from reading all of this misguided anger and hate and I apologize for it. It really shouldnt be this way...especially between king and queens.

I can only hope we all can put this behind us and start over and really build.

 

[Sierra Mist]

christ have mercy, shut up.

No. fakkit.

 

[DemureNatural]

Any black woman with good hair has some white mixing in her line. Any 100% black woman will have the Brillo pad hair.

Oh I get it! The only time a black woman is acceptable to you (and apparrently the dumbass who posed the question) is if she's mixed with white? Are you a black man? If so, as MurderSheWrote so eloquently stated,

the same thing that grows out of black women's scalp grows out of your scalps dumbasses.

And if you aren't black, who cares what you think.

See MurderSheWrote, another dumbass...

 

[Green negs and spam]

christ have mercy, shut up.

Dude comes into damn near every thread claiming a that pertains to the subject matter.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Dude comes into damn near every thread claiming a that pertains to the subject matter.

I thought you were cool. be nice.

 

[MurderSheWrote]

I dont know if youre coming back or not but your mind set of fighting hate with hate is the mean reason why we are in this predicament. We all "men and women" to come together and build. Yes I know it hurts reading and hearing what is said about yall, especially when it comes from us. But can you blame us for feeling this way? We can't blame yall cause at the end of the day its not really our fault as a people. 100s of years of being abused, killed, chased, sold, raped etc. Lets not forget about the conditioning that they put us through even after slavery was done. All of us both men and women are angry.


Till this day the effects slavery still show, we are a lost people. Only way for us to find ourselves, our culture is to find each other. Break these chains that have been placed on our minds. Theyre there for a reason and by us yelling and fighting each other they will cont to be there.

I dont know you and Im sorry that your first post had to be like that, I could only imagine the pain you went from reading all of this misguided anger and hate and I apologize for it. It really shouldnt be this way...especially between king and queens.

I can only hope we all can put this behind us and start over and really build.

I hear you, but that million march march/kumbaya stuff does not work.

When you have FULL grown men criticizing the very hair that grows from their own damn head while big upping the hair that grows from their so-called "oppressor's" head you've already LOST.

I wasn't hurt by the posts these idiots were making. I was SHOCKED. There is a difference.

Black women would be fools to trust these "men" and join hands with them. Hell NO! That would be like joining hands with the devil himself!

 

[Just like bruddas]

Any black woman with good hair has some white mixing in her line. Any 100% black woman will have the Brillo pad hair.

Wrong mindset breh...

Going by European standards isnt a good look. I just you take a step back, slow down and think for a sec. What's a good hair and who told how good hair should look and feel like?

 

[Green negs and spam]

I thought you were cool. be nice.

Just saying breh. I don't know you so maybe you are winning like that but a non winning dude like myself can't help but hate a little .