I hate having sex with my fiance. But it’s too late to call off the wedding

[Chrishaune]

there are a lot of old gay couples - what does this have to do with her fukking with the wrong guys

They are one and the same...

 

[International Playa]

She's wasted her prime years of her life, she needs to lower her standards & settle.

Sounds like throughout her prime years she was smutted out by white boys who had a fetish for Indian chicks. None of them upgraded to a real relationship.

Now she is 35, she is faced with either settling or risk it all to find the man she desires

 

[Guvnor]

Can't front this woman here is full of shyt and there are plenty out here like her too. If the sex was bad why not just break up with dude? Why waste your and his time when you probably gonna cheat cause you unsatisfied. It's best she left dude alone so he could find a good woman who actually doesn't mind touching him since you don't want to even touch him and you can waste someone else's time.

What the fukk is the point of writing an article on this? If she really cared about the relationship she would be talking to him about the issues or solving the problem by calling it off and breaking up with him to find someone you are more attracted to.

This is where he fukked up.

The other men saw what he didn't which is why they bailed.

You think they saw she was trife and a headache so they got rid of her?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

DPD delivery driver = Breh!

Not even UPS.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Men are trash

And yet you’re on a board full of them.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I’ve said it before. I smashed a lot of these Indian women back in college. Over a decade later, I see most of them married to/dating fat balding CACs.

shyt is hilarious. A lot of them try and holler at me now saying how unsatisfied they are. The game is cold.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

This is why I smh at dudes who complain about girls chasing the men that they WANT. If you rather a chick "settle" for the 'nice guy' that you claim to be, this is what you get.

At the end of the day, you win some you lose some.

If you want a super attractive 'dime' then he/she will have their money flaws and personality flaws.
If you want a super stable 'good' spouse then he/she will have their 'fun' flaws and sexy flaws.

pick your poison.

You spoke nothing but the truth. Smart men will wife a woman who’s a strong 6/6.5 who’s loyal with little to no baggage. Only keep dimes as jump offs. I’ve yet to mess with a dime who wasn’t a headache or an entitled c*nt.

Now that I look at it, all my serious relationships have been with women who are above average in looks. Low maintenance is the way to go. They tend to be a lot more grateful and humble.

Every dime I’ve dated has been a headache. I’m not saying dimes who aren’t problematic don’t exist, but even those ones attract negative attention.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

She’s Mexican

What part of South Asia is Mexico in?

 

[threattonature]

Nope. It's the other way around. The chemistry was there. That's why she got with him in the first place despite not being attracted to him.

Don't forget that chemistry exists between non-romantic partners as well.

She would've never gotten this far with a guy she wasn't attracted to if there wasn't at least some chemistry.

Nah that was woman talk for "on paper he's a good partner". Women get that far all the time with guys they don't have chemistry with. One of my best friends is in a situation like in the OP. She says she dated a bunch of a$$holes. Then she met a guy that wasn't an a$$hole and on paper was a good catch. Decent job, nice guy, smart and willing to be a provider. Ended up marrying him in large part because she was tired of rejection from dating and getting her heartbroken. Thing is they have nothing really in common and barely talk to each other. She's always trying to find ways to get out of the house because when they're at home they just chill in different rooms and he spends all day writing or playing video games.

It is possible there is chemistry there but what she describes seems to me that their chemistry was her overreacting to the guys rejecting her and just happy to date someone somewhat normal.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Basically a simp caught a skeezer when she was at rock bottom. He put her on a pedestal and in turn she slowly built her self esteem back up. She got all the validation she needed (notice she makes it a point to mention he goes down on her). She got the engagement. She feels she is valuable again. But realizes he's a lame who worships her ass while she needs to be with a man who can do freaky/kinky shyt with her and to her. A man she can look up to rather than a man who looks up to her. GMB flawless victory...

Brehs think I’m joking when I say you have to break these hos down and never build them up. The moment he called her a “goddess”, he put her above himself and now look.

You could be the ugliest Breh but as long as you are the shyt to your woman, it’s all cosmetic. Brehs need to learn to not put women on a pedestal. p*ssy is cheap but you’ve got simps inflating the market.

 

[Deafheaven]

You spoke nothing but the truth. Smart men will wife a woman who’s a strong 6/6.5 who’s loyal with little to no baggage. Only keep dimes as jump offs. I’ve yet to mess with a dime who wasn’t a headache or an entitled c*nt.

Now that I look at it, all my serious relationships have been with women who are above average in looks. Low maintenance is the way to go. They tend to be a lot more grateful and humble.

Every dime I’ve dated has been a headache. I’m not saying dimes who aren’t problematic don’t exist, but even those ones attract negative attention.

A cute chick who is agreeable and willing to stay in shape is 8 million times better than a "bad bytch" who acts like shes a blessing unto the earth. You're right about them. Impossible to satisfy even moreso than the average girl.


Hell, I expect every relationship to fail anyway because humans inherently are fickle creatures, but can you at fukking least make the time we are a thing amicable

 

[threattonature]

Basically a simp caught a skeezer when she was at rock bottom. He put her on a pedestal and in turn she slowly built her self esteem back up. She got all the validation she needed (notice she makes it a point to mention he goes down on her). She got the engagement. She feels she is valuable again. But realizes he's a lame who worships her ass while she needs to be with a man who can do freaky/kinky shyt with her and to her. A man she can look up to rather than a man who looks up to her. GMB flawless victory...

Oh shyt this hits the nail all the way on the head especially the bolded.

 

[Deafheaven]

Brehs think I’m joking when I say you have to break these hos down and never build them up. The moment he called her a “goddess”, he put her above himself and now look.

You could be the ugliest Breh but as long as you are the shyt to your woman, it’s all cosmetic. Brehs need to learn not put women on a pedestal. p*ssy is cheap but you’ve got simps inflating the market.

First girl I was in love with I built her up from aight to a legit 8 through putting her on game about skincare, fitness, mental health etc...told her she the shyt etc etc. Once she leveled up and realized i adored her even more she slowly but surely started to get distant. Me being green played into and the rest is history. We still fukk every once in a while cuz old lovers fall into each others bed often but that feeling of being superman to your bytch vanished years ago and you can never get that shyt back and you feel. When you got that god aura you can legit tell a girl to do absurdly dumb shyt and she'll be doed eyed and do it. If your chick don't have that for you, you playing yourself wifing period.

I'm still a chill helpful dude and its naturally my nature to try to upgrade any chick I'm with. But I def keep them on a leash as far as how much I actually care. Women most attracted to men whose intentions are unclear. Goofy ass cac in the OP spilled his as soon as he hit Don't be him.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

A cute chick who is agreeable and willing to stay in shape is 8 million times better than a "bad bytch" who acts like shes a blessing unto the earth. You're right about them. Impossible to satisfy even moreso than the average girl.


Hell, I expect every relationship to fail anyway because humans inherently are fickle creatures, but can you at fukking least make the time we are a thing amicable

This will sound fukked up but it has never failed. All my serious girlfriends have seen my jump offs (in someway) who are at least 8/10s. Why? Because they know physically I can do better than them so they never get out of line.

When they know you can pull a bad bytch, they’ll get in line and not get disrespectful.

Now my current girlfriend is not ugly. She’s a strong 6/7 in the face but she has a banging body (I’m an ass over face guy anyway) but if they’re not at least slightly insecure about losing you to a badder bytch, she’ll never make the effort to keep you satisfied.

That’s why the woman in the OP doesn’t respect her Man. Why would she? He’s not sexually desirable, just reliable.

Let me say that one more time: he’s not sexually desirable, just reliable.

Women marry for security, rarely for love. Love can be unstable, a rollercoaster and tumultuous. Everyone’s best sexual relationship has been with someone they couldn’t settle down with long term.

She comes from a patriarchal culture where a woman’s academic achievement means nothing without having a marriage and children. That’s why she’s pressured herself in getting married. I see it all the time.

GMB.

 

[Mr swag]

she needs to back out. They are just putting off a divorce