I had an affair in 2015. My wife called my side chick this morning.

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The longer this continues, someone will get hurt or just as badly, one of the women will hurt themselves.
More than likely they're gonna end up hurting him. He's already used to being beat up and abused, which is what made him hit the streets so he can improve his self esteem by knocking down hood rats.

Once she has the baby, she'll be back to practicing her art on him (dragonfly jones style) :mjlol:, he'll find a new chick to heal his wounds, she'll find out and we'll be right back here
 

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Just leave the marriage, whether today or in five years the marriage most likely won't survive. Too much pain and deceit, not to mention a baby that's not yours.

Ten years is a long time, but so is fifteen and twenty years. If there's no trust then there's nothing.

I know that you've invested ten years, a marriage and brought a child into the world. But if you close your eyes and don't want to be with her for the rest of your life, then itMs beat to leave that situation.
 

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God damn you sound green as hell. All i can say is you sound real invested in this shyt to type out mad paragraphs at 11:30. You wanna be right so bad, but there is this little thing called reality that keeps you from accepting the fact that
1. At the end of the day I could give a shyt less about what you think, it's not going to affect my actions, so all of those paragraphs are useless.
2. If she leaves, the benefits are done. And if there is a divorce, it's not that simple. Custody would have to be split between two people two states, not to mention the toll it would take on everyone involved. And the boy would be a b*stard. But no, Giselle knows everything! She's a legal moral expert who has never done any wrong in life! Not to mention that you can read the future and determine for the rest of my life I will be a cheating scumbag! Because people don't change. At least in Gisselle's world.

I read through all of that trash you typed, and yeah, you just want to blame me. I been told you it took two to create this, but nah, you want to perpetuate that patriarchal myth that the man causes everything and that women can do no wrong. Even if they have been arrested for domestic violence shyt. IT TAKES TWO. YOU WANT TO BASH AND shyt AND WHEN A nikka TELLS YOU THAT SHE AINT PERFECT EITHER, ITS LIKE IM TALKING FRENCH OR SOMETHING AND YOUR DUMB ASS CANT COMPREHEND THAT shyt. You're a trash ass woman incapable of empathy for someone outside of your gender identity, fukk you, fukk the bullshyt logic you trying to put of there without looking at the whole situation.

At the end of the day, I'm good, my family is good, and I don't know why I'm sitting over here arguing with someone who probably has been through nothing in life. Maybe college. But still immature in their thought process. That's on me though.

You get half a bar, fukk you nikka. :pacspit::umad:
i used to date a girl with a father like you. she had severe daddy and self esteem issues and will never be able to have a trusting healthy relationship with a man, so you better pray your daughter won't turn out the same :ufdup: and no, your family isn't good just because you choose to close your eyes before the damage you have caused.:dame:
 

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Man you could have passed your wife an std. This sounds like an episode of Jerru Springer.

Meanwhile she passed him a baby
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A lot of you males on here are disgusting.

I don't understand how you all are trying to bash his wife and kiss his ass or comfort him when he is the one who messed up their relationship and is ruining his wife and daughter. But it should be expected for most of you to take the male's side even when he's wrong. :wrist:

stop being so goddamn critical as you don't know the whole story. Your birdbrain tendencies always seem to declare themselves
ya i noticed you ditched that gimmick pretty quick


edit: before u act new:
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/black-feminism-womanism-thread.316082/
:bryan:

That thread is a classic reason why i stopped posting in The Root.
 

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@freddykruegeronapill

Sounds like you admitted fault. That is a major first step.

Now it's important to replace bad habits with good ones. Read and listen to positive things. Speak positive things. Spend quality time with the fam.

Produce no new injuries.

You may need a spiritual life. Something more than the tangible, breh.

If you are already doing these things, you are a step ahead.

Be in control, from this point forward.

Not trying to be a psychiatrist. Learned from experience.

You'll be good.
 

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You're a trash ass woman incapable of empathy for someone outside of your gender identity, fukk you, fukk the bullshyt logic you trying to put of there without looking at the whole situation.

A wimpy little immature bytch, just like I thought. You want someone to coddle you. You don't deserve any sympathy. Cheaters don't deserve sympathy do matter what their gender is.

I looked at the whole situation and I have concluded that you are a trash husband and parent. Your ex wife and children would be better off if the relationship was over and they were in therapy bc they clearly need it. You should speak to someone as well bc you clearly have issues. It's clear you are selfish, immature and have no respect for your wife or children. Your actions and way or thinking prove that you are not fit to be a husband or parent. You will figure it out eventually when you begin cheating again, creating further damage to your family.
 

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hell JFK MLK were fukking MAAAAAAD outside/groupie ass - they arent disgusting or terrible men ? untrustworthy?

Yes they are both untrustworthy and disgusting. & cheating wasn't their only issue. Idk about jfk b/c I've never researched him, but mlk had power/popularity issues. He wanted to be the "big man on campus" and have all of the other guy's girls. This was said in his doc by one of his longtime friends. There was clearly something wrong with him.

Just bc a person has a good public persona doesn't mean that they are a good person.
 

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A wimpy little immature bytch, just like I thought. You want someone to coddle you. You don't deserve any sympathy. Cheaters don't deserve sympathy do matter what their gender is.

I looked at the whole situation and I have concluded that you are a trash husband and parent. Your ex wife and children would be better off if the relationship was over and they were in therapy bc they clearly need it. You should speak to someone as well bc you clearly have issues. It's clear you are selfish, immature and have no respect for your wife or children. Your actions and way or thinking prove that you are not fit to be a husband or parent. You will figure it out eventually when you begin cheating again, creating further damage to your family.
Ahh I see. All you want to do is sit and cast judgment. You haven't seen any whole situation and at this point your just trolling. And you give a fukk less about gender equality. If I took that first sentence and used that on you I would be all kinds of sexist pigs or whatever. Kiss my ass and go fukk yourself you miserable piece of shyt.
Matter of fact, why do you give such a fukk about me and my life to post so much in this thread? I mean, who the fukk does this shyt? I posted this shyt to help myself and my conscious, and so that others could see my mistakes and hopefully learn from them. Not for someone like you to come in and pass some bullshyt advice and think you know something.
It's funny you call me a bytch and try to emasculate me even though I have yet to talk down on you and call you a bytch.
So horrible of a person and void of empathy. Parents probably divorced that's why you are projecting so much.
 

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And you give a fukk less about gender equality. If I took that first sentence and used that on you I would be all kinds of sexist pigs or whatever.
You don't care about gender equality, you are just trying to make yourself look and feel better about being trash. I am not a feminist and don't use any of the terms that the tumbrl and social media fad feminist use.
Kiss my ass and go fukk yourself you miserable piece of shyt.
Yes, you do want people in here to kiss your ass and coddle you bc it makes you feel better.

I'm not miserable. A person doesn't have to be miserable to tell others when they are wrong. I'm happy and healthy. All of my financial and medical needs are covered. I'm not struggling in life. & I don't make trash ass decision so there is no drama. :blessed:


Matter of fact, why do you give such a fukk about me and my life to post so much in this thread?
I don't care about you.
I do care about the mental health and well being of children and women who have husbands/dads who damage them like you are doing.It's called empathy. You obviously don't care about them. You only care about yourself and keeping up appearances.

Also, you are the one who keeps quoting me to come back in here and reply to you. After you already claimed you don't care. You do care about my posts. They are bothering you bc there is truth to them.

posted this shyt to help myself and my conscious, and so that others could see my mistakes and hopefully learn from them.

You haven't even learned from your own bad choices. Not mistakes bc it didn't happen on accident.

It's funny you call me a bytch and try to emasculate me

I called you a bytch bc you're in here acting like one. You emasculate yourself with every post, I don't have to try.

Parents probably divorced that's why you are projecting so much
Empathy, not projection.

Yes my parents did divorce. My sister and I were so much happier after they got divorced. So was the rest of the family. They weren't right for eachother and I noticed it since I was 6. There was no more drama and we were relieved. This is exactly how I know what I'm talking about. You won't end it for your own selfish reasons, another reason why you are trash.You are damaging them and it needs to end.

We have much more money than you though and better health insurance since you only make 60k and can't even provide health insurance for your family so they can get the help they need.

some armchair psychologist said so.
Talking about not wanting to be a statistic but being black and downing therapy and mental/emotinal health issues.

I feel sorry for your children.
 
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