I had an affair in 2015. My wife called my side chick this morning.

[Jasmine20]

It just ended up being a missed period due to stress. We maintained contact after I left DC and met up all along the East Coast, but never another pregnancy scare.

So you really gonna raise your wife's love child?

Why didn't she get an abortion? Do you feel like she should give the child to her ex-fling and have him raise it instead of having you take on a father role for a kid that's not yours?

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

So you really gonna raise your wife's love child?

Why didn't she get an abortion? Do you feel like she should give the child to her ex-fling and have him raise it instead of having you take on a father role for a kid that's not yours?

Post 202 explains my feelings on this aspect

 

[brickfare]

I pray the kid breaks the cycle of rachetness and do not grow up to make dumb ass decisions like most nikkas.

yooo so many quotables in this thread

 

[Giselle]

I love how you can just get on a high horse and act holier than thou on some self righteous bullshyt. I have to check myself because I should not care what a random person has to say, but for a random person to say shyt like this. Go fukk yourself. Far from disgusting.


Until you do the shyt, shut the fukk up, I don't think you know how hard it is to maintain for a family while going to school full time and working full time.


I've aired out my L's and shyt, but don't try to shyt on my professional career.

If you were working full time, going to school full time and taking care of your wife and kid like you're supposed to, you wouldn't even have time to cheat. The fact that you took out time from your wife and kid to spend on other women shows even more how much of a trash ass parent and husband you are.

Telling someone they are wrong isn't "acting holier than thou". You knew what you did was wrong and disgusting before you did it. The actions of a terrible husband and father. You decided to be that way, so it's all your fault.

You continue to be disgusting by staying with your wife when she clearly doesn't need to be with you, she needs to be in a therapist's office and so does your child. You are doing no good by staying with her and continuing to cheat.

Me and the good people in the world with sense would never do anything like that. There are thousands of other males in the world working hard for their families and all of them do not behave in the way you did. No one forced you, you decided to live in that trifling way on your own. Stop trying to make excuses like a little bytch. Grow tf up.



Also, bytch, I'm not canadian. I'm black american. You can neg me all you want, but that won't change your reality after you log out.

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[Giselle]

I read through seven pages thinking of something to say but..

God damn, man. God damn.

I feel like if the video wasn't found you would still be messing around town.

Everyone has said most of what needed to be said. But the marriage is over. There will never be trust again. Not all after what you both did to each other.

I'll pray for your daughter, the rest of yall. Well



The majority of dudes in here are saying he fukked up big time. Don't turn this into a male vs female argument

She physically abused him in the relationship. Meanwhile he was running around town with other females, but she didn't know. Once he was caught, she left and he kept going. Wife comes back pregnant by another dude and wants to work on the relationship.

This is a case of 360 degrees of Ls.

He shouldn't have cheated.

She shouldn't have attacked him.

He should get tested for STDs.

She needs her own life to live.

They both need therapy. And a divorce.

Kids will too.

Nah OP, you and your wife have created a life for your children that is going to take a generation to fix.

No, a lot of the males in here are saying he shouldn't have recorded himself and calling his wife a hoe.

They aren't saying that he shouldn't have cheated, they are saying he shouldn't have gotten caught, and they are bashing his wife.

It is not the same thing.

 

[Maxine Shaw]

Also, bytch, I'm not canadian. I'm black american. You can neg me all you want, but that won't change your reality after you log out.

Why is he so goddamned SENSITIVE?!?!? This nikka ain't on *a* pill - he's on THE Pill.

I eat my husband's dikk. Who the fukk dikk is your wife eating? Log off and go raise her and that other dude's child. Dumbass PhD candidate.

It's okay, tho - he takes care of his kids! #lowexpectationhavingmotherfukker

And I see that once again, it's the women OP keeps take shots at. 'Ey, brehs...any of you come under OP's temper tantrums yet?

 

[FeloniousMonk]

She saw a video of me eating my side chick out and then fukking her.

This was your downfall my nig..

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

my lil 2 cents is.. Youve gotta try to do whats right. That way, if you fail.. At least in your heart youll know you tried.

That player life isnt for everybody.. Sounds like you just got caught up in it.

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

Wifey in the kitchen now cooking up some collard greens but I'm scared to eat em
This muhfukka gone wait and kill me in sleep on some Tyler Perry shyt and then go find a light skin nikka that got dreads with my insurance money

#GMB

You didn't want to talk her into the AB?


I think y'all can work it out
She was tripping way before all the shyt u did

I remember the shyt u spoke on before

Get counseling both of yall
Leave dem hoes alone

shyt man I been been married for ten years. We been through ups and downs and had got to a point where a divorce/separation was imminent.

I go down to DC for a summer internship and I strike up a relationship. It gets to the point to where after watching a few episodes of Power and feeling guilty about the parallels to me and Ghosts family life that I told her about my situation.

Fast forward and I move back to where I am. I got hit with the "I missed my period" so a nikka starts sweating bullets. So I fast track my separation and by January, she is set up in Atlanta. Not divorced, but separated. I had done a good job of hiding my infidelilty until the night before she left. She saw a video of me eating my side chick out and then fukking her. fukked everything up but I was surprised I had kept up the charade this long.

So she leaves, and I keep our daughter. I turned into a male thot. In a 6 month window, I had my DC side chick, an African lady, and like three exes texting me on the regular. I even hooked up with a woman from my academic department, and she moved in for a month, but that shyt turned out to be a disaster. It was good sex, but she wanted me to be a nikka that I am not.

I reconciled with my wife, and since she came back in July, all of these muhfukkas have been creating drama. In that time span, she had gotten pregnant, BUT that nikka threatened to kill her and her unborn, and I know people will criticize this decision, but I brought her back home because I hated seeing her being in a toxic situation, and I realized that I will only be comparing women to her for the rest of my life. I never see a future with these hoes, only the next fukk. I want to be a better man but these latest incidences have really made shyt rocky.

DC called my phone around 11 pm after I came back from a Pokemon n smoke walk, and my wife saw it. Long story short both of them went in, and side chick still wants to talk and my wife is mad, but I don't want to lose her so I know I gotta let side chick go. It's gonna fukk her up and she may only date white men after this, because no woman wants to be the other woman, but inevitably they become that. I don't think it's hit her yet, because she still thinks we are getting married one day.

My wife packed her bags but I know she ain't got nowhere to go. Which makes it even that much more sadder. The only way she will leave is if some simp comes and picks her up and even then sex will be obligatory and she already knows that since she is my child's mother, that will never be an option for her. I really want to keep her, I just know that I fukked up a lot over the years. She has too. But it's getting to the point where I see that she has invested her life in me and I keep on hurting her and it is taking a toll on me.

I just need to be a better man.

EDIT: My patna gave me the best advice, you can't give these women the whole dikk, that's how they get crazy. Can't fukk side chicks like you fukk your wife

Umm...Hate to be an ass...but you didn't say ONCE that you love your wife.
you said 10 years...
you said she has my daughter...
you said you tried to save her....

That's sounds like you just want someone around....and she is the most invested

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

If you were working full time, going to school full time and taking care of your wife and kid like you're supposed to, you wouldn't even have time to cheat. The fact that you took out time from your wife and kid to spend on other women shows even more how much of a trash ass parent and husband you are.

Telling someone they are wrong isn't "acting holier than thou". You knew what you did was wrong and disgusting before you did it. The actions of a terrible husband and father. You decided to be that way, so it's all your fault.

You continue to be disgusting by staying with your wife when she clearly doesn't need to be with you, she needs to be in a therapist's office and so does your child. You are doing no good by staying with her and continuing to cheat.

Me and the good people in the world with sense would never do anything like that. There are thousands of other males in the world working hard for their families and all of them do not behave in the way you did. No one forced you, you decided to live in that trifling way on your own. Stop trying to make excuses like a little bytch. Grow tf up.



Also, bytch, I'm not canadian. I'm black american. You can neg me all you want, but that won't change your reality after you log out.

So you say instead of staying with her family and some sense of stability, she should leave and go seek therapy that she does not have access to. That I should drag my daughter through the process of a divorce and let the unborn son be born as a b*stard because some armchair psychologist said so. Sorry to tell you, but I don't want my family to become another statistic. I should have left when I was going through the abuse and shyt, but I stayed. When I saw something that gleaned in my eye and caught my attention, I did what I did.

And I also caution you with the talk about what you would never do because you never know what life has for you around the corner. I guarantee you also that despite this fault in my life, thousands of those who I have impacted in one form or another believe I am a good person. I simply told a truth but that does not make me a horrible person. Do you know how many people cheat?

My reality is good. Like I said, I've gotten shyt off my chest, started the process of healing wounds, and we good.

Why is he so goddamned SENSITIVE?!?!? This nikka ain't on *a* pill - he's on THE Pill.



It's okay, tho - he takes care of his kids! #lowexpectationhavingmotherfukker

And I see that once again, it's the women OP keeps take shots at. 'Ey, brehs...any of you come under OP's temper tantrums yet?

Nobody really took shots at me but y'all. 95% of people offered constructive advice or even cracked jokes, but you and a few others come in trying to be on some holier than thou shyt attacking me as a father. Implying that somehow because of the small glimpse I offered you into my life that I am a bad father. I told that white woman biscuitsnbangers what I did because people love to pop off that "oh she should leave" bullshyt, but if you ain't gonna help with that shyt, shut the fukk up. And if you say that ain't her problem, you're exactly right. Don't nobody gotta sit around and take your fake ass fukking shade when you ignore other shyt I said in here. Just breeze right by the abuse and still act like she is a saint from a Terry Macmillan book, like she is innocent from this shyt. It took two to create this shyt. Instead of leaving her in shyt, and moving on with my merry life to create another, richer family, I would rather work on the one I have right here.
And if you can't comprehend that, then maybe you should save your bullshyt ass logic.

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

Umm...Hate to be an ass...but you didn't say ONCE that you love your wife.
you said 10 years...
you said she has my daughter...
you said you tried to save her....

That's sounds like you just want someone around....and she is the most invested

Interesting obersvation. I love her and would do anything for her, but tbh, to be "in love" is something I don't know if either of us feel. She was probably felt in love with me when I came to get her from the A and we took each other back but idk if she is "in love" with me at the present. And vice versa. Honestly I'm just hoping that comes with time.

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

Interesting obersvation. I love her and would do anything for her, but tbh, to be "in love" is something I don't know if either of us feel. She was probably felt in love with me when I came to get her from the A and we took each other back but idk if she is "in love" with me at the present. And vice versa. Honestly I'm just hoping that comes with time.

No doubt...Prayers up for you breh...

 

[Maxine Shaw]

Nobody really took shots at me but y'all. 95% of people offered constructive advice or even cracked jokes, but you and a few others come in trying to be on some holier than thou shyt attacking me as a father.

*stands on a table*

NOBODY IS ATTACKING YOUR HE-MAN WOMAN HATER ASS AS A fukkING FATHER!!!!

*climbs back down*

if you ain't gonna help with that shyt, shut the fukk up

Or what? What are you going to do to me if I don't, oh penis slangin' one? Do you realize that you can't treat women online like you treat women in real life?

 

[Maxine Shaw]

Nobody really took shots at me but y'all. 95% of people offered constructive advice or even cracked jokes, but you and a few others come in trying to be on some holier than thou shyt attacking me as a father.

*stands on a table*

NOBODY IS ATTACKING YOUR HE-MAN WOMAN HATER ASS AS A fukkING FATHER!!!!

*climbs back down*

 

[marcuz]

*stands on a table*

NOBODY IS ATTACKING YOUR HE-MAN WOMAN HATER ASS AS A fukkING FATHER!!!!

*climbs back down*



Or what? What are you going to do to me if I don't, oh penis slangin' one? Do you realize that you can't treat women online like you treat women in real life?

it's funny cus freddy be putting on the cape for you BW online