I don't respect folks who have babies with randoms that they're just smashing.

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Any man or woman worth a damn is going to be extremely selective in who they procreate with.

Meanwhile these fools continuing the cycle of dogshyt parenting/upbringing with their next generation.

The thing that kills me the most are all the single mothers running around trying to find good role models for their kids. My ol' lady and I have had a few women in the family move closer to us for assistance. They ran their men out of their and their children's lives, don't have much, and can't do much. My wife is like a substitute husband to these women running errands, helping them financially, organizing birthday parties and other events for them. I'm out here with a small tribe of kids doing my best to set a good example. Hosting game nights where I bust they ass in uno, chess, Mario party etc. Take them hiking, teach them to swim, help them with their studies and just generally encourage them as much as I can.

Every time I try get these women to consider getting back with their children's father, it's nothing but hostility. They can't see beyond their own selfish needs to understand the kids they brought into this world need a god damn father. They're on some "if he can't make ME happy, then what do I need him for?". bytch his fukking kids need him

/Rant

If these fathers were good, then wouldn’t need to be with the mother to parent their children.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Will all of your boys be "Like father, like son" and refuse to the follow team instructions and call their own shyt as well?

Wouldn't have it any other way

 

[b. woods]

Wouldn't have it any other way

The downside of that is they will be blamed for their teammate's fukkups and the team's overall Ls like you were.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Cool we're in reality now huh?

If BP didn't have children in "fukked up" situations then AA wouldn't exist. We've literally been in the same fukked situation for hundreds of years.

Abortion is not a solution to a community wide issue because BW lead in abortions and the community is still quite fukked up.

I already presented a solution.

This response was wack.. We're talking about people who have kids with individuals they know they're not even serious about.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

If you and your baby moms had a child and yall was just freak buddies, respectfully eff you and her. Yall disgust me. You dregs of society.

How much would a condom have cost? How much would a pill cost?

How you have a whole baby with somebody you didn't even care about like that?

Can somebody explain this to me? I'm understanding about a whole lot of things but I don't understand this one.

What brought this on? I met two women recently and I wasn't even mad about the fact that they had a child. We grown folks, I understand.

But when we got to talking about their baby father, they told me "yeah we weren't together. We was just messing around."

I hit the cause I can't even fathom having a child with a woman I don't have feelings for.

Discuss.

In.

 

[analog]

If these fathers were good, then wouldn’t need to be with the mother to parent their children.

True.

Although one of the father's actually wants custody (both his son and daughter would rather stay with him as well) but the mother, whose a complete mess, will not allow it because of how bad she would look in the eyes of the community

Some of these women be putting up unnecessary roadblocks to spite their ex.

 

[Commish]

OP..

Respectfully..

Why the judgment??

What ppl with kids out of wedlock got going on has nothing to do with you nor where your morals land...

I get not agreeing with having OOWL children. But, to say that ppl who do are the dregs of society is a lil too much!

Best thing is to stand on your morals & principles, practice safe sex and get married before YOU have kids!

IJS..

*shrugs*

 

[Elle Seven]

If these fathers were good, then wouldn’t need to be with the mother to parent their children.

Can you elaborate on this please?

Are you saying a good father can parent effectively if he is not in union with the mother or if he is not living in the home?

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Yeah shyt wild how mfs just be poppin babies out all willy nilly like they are toys or some shyt.

I think those people believe kids give them purpose and/or they need something to love them not realizing this is a lifetime commitment. Mental babies having babies


Edit: Or they are just against abortion

Nah brehs, FEMALES act like babies are living toys.

 

[True Blue Moon]

Mistakes will always happen and people with sense can still salvage the situation, but I can't believe something as common sense as don't make babies with randoms is controversial. God damn.

 

[SunZoo]

Oh no, they don't have your respect! How will they live?

That should have been the end of the thread lol

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Can you elaborate on this please?

Are you saying a good father can parent effectively if he is not in union with the mother or if he is not living in the home?

I am saying a man having access to the mother shouldn't determine if he decides to be a father.

The affectiveness of his parenting would be determined by his particular situation.

 

[analog]

Nah brehs, FEMALES act like babies are living toys.

And it's men handing out babies like candy to these women...

 

[GreenGhxst]

That dahell smilies toward the end got me lmaooo

 

[Scaaar]

Yeah shyt wild how mfs just be poppin babies out all willy nilly like they are toys or some shyt.

I think those people believe kids give them purpose and/or they need something to love them not realizing this is a lifetime commitment. Mental babies having babies


Edit: Or they are just against abortion

Nah they're usually using the baby to fill a void. My little sister used to say she wanted a kid because she saw all the pics people were posting of their kids and wanted to be included. Now her daughter actually here and she's not ready for that burden at all. I told my mom to stop stepping and for her so much she gotta figure some of it out on her own. Especially since she chose a deadbeat to do it with.