I don't respect folks who have babies with randoms that they're just smashing.

[AnonymityX1000]

My main focus in this thread aint folks who have children born out of wedlock. I'm talking about children born out of relationships right here and right now.

We have a horrible history in this country but what you tryna say? Is the White Man standing over your shoulder telling you "bust that nut RIGHT NOW niccer and you better not be wearing a condom!!!"

No but he is saying, " if you want your public assistance nobody can be living in your house without our authorization".

 

[Mike18jj]

Op not wrong at all, these kids deserve to be raised in loving households, not ones you might see your parent every other weekend.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

No but he is saying, " if you want your public assistance nobody can be living in your house without our authorization".

How does that stop you from impregnation a random chic that you was just smashing? You wasn't even tryna be with her, you was just tryna hit. What does what yall are saying have to do with this discussion?

 

[Xcenai]

fully agree with op

 

[Afrodroid]

The opinion is valid and should be taken more seriously by society, people come here talking to op mind his business and stop dikk policing, but when these kids are abused or go around committing crimes the first thing they ask is where the parents are


Hypocrisy at its finest

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Nxgga you.

It is my business when said women are trying to have a connection with me.

I wouldn't care if these weren't women actively trying to be in my life.

It's amazing how the roaches start scattering when you turn on the lights.

Sounds like this is hitting close to home for some of yall.

 

[AnonymityX1000]

How does that stop you from impregnation a random chic that you was just smashing? You wasn't even tryna be with her, you was just tryna hit. What does what yall are saying have to do with this discussion?

If you want to keep it to a very narrow scenario. Her body her choice, the end. Some ladies want to be mothers or don't want to kill fetuses despite the guy not being around.
When you have sex is it ever spontaneous or are all your encounters pre planned?

 

[verbalkint]

Parents pressure us to have kids with random women we just smashing?

More so the females fam but yeah breh...

 

[AnonymityX1000]

The opinion is valid and should be taken more seriously by society, people come here talking to op mind his business and stop dikk policing, but when these kids are abused or go around committing crimes the first thing they ask is where the parents are


Hypocrisy at its finest

Because no one kids from 2 family homes commit crimes. This is a spurious correlation.

 

[Still Benefited]

Parents pressure us to have kids with random women we just smashing?

The god fearing ones do especially. But your parents probably just assume you know the girl if you got her pregnant. Most people dont tell they mama/granny they had a one night stand with a random thot. The women in the family are very likely to put themselves in the womans shoes. And not assume her to be some horrible individual.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Oh no…how will they survive without your respect?

 

[Peachstate]

No but he is saying, " if you want your public assistance nobody can be living in your house without our authorization".

It would have been so easy to skirt this if they really wanted to be there. And it wasn't even that common in the first place.

 

[b. woods]

I got 4 sons by 2 different women. I'm married to the mother of my youngest sons and I was married to the mother of my oldest sons.

I never wanted to be that dude that believed that stupid shyt about men spreading their seeds around without at least trying to be there as a family. That's why we got so many messed up young boys as it is.

Will all of your boys be "Like father, like son" and refuse to the follow team instructions and call their own shyt as well?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

That "just be married" train of thought just doesn't work in the BC. There is no morals, no accountability and no one to hold anyone to any standards. Having a the father in the house doesn't automatically equal a good parent, provider etc.

The best thing women can do is get their money up and have a good support system for her and the child.

The fairytale of the desire of the nuclear family just isn't reflected in reality and hasn't been for generations.

When are these conversations going to be based in reality instead of la la land.

 

[HarlemHottie]

That "just be married" train of thought just doesn't work in the BC. There is no morals, no accountability and no one to hold anyone to any standards. Having a the father in the

Because we're taking advice from former sex workers!