Op with the title change. I'm guessing thecoli got up in arms about b*stards ? 
I don't respect folks who have babies with randoms that they're just smashing.
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That "just be married" train of thought just doesn't work in the BC. There is no morals, no accountability and no one to hold anyone to any standards. Having a the father in the house doesn't automatically equal a good parent, provider etc.
The best thing women can do is get their money up and have a good support system for her and the child.
The fairytale of the desire of the nuclear family just isn't reflected in reality and hasn't been for generations.
When are these conversations going to be based in reality instead of la la land.
Abortion is a reality, the morning pill is a reality and birth control is one as well.. Why are people having kids and bringing them into f*cked up situations?
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Op with the title change. I'm guessing thecoli got up in arms about b*stards ?
I changed it cause dumbass brehs don't read. I clearly laid out what I was talking about in my OP and they came in discussing a totally different issue.
Ridge Forrester
All Star
A lot of posters here are products of such "unions," but that's none of my business. 
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
A lot of posters here are products of such "unions," but that's none of my business.
I couldn't imagine being the product of a smash and dash
You fighting a losing battle breh but if that's the hill you want to die on knock yourself out
My wife's niece is the poster child of having more kids than a revolution. But here's the dilemma, Chico. Neither she nor I give a fukk about her womb being polluted and that's her business 
Meanwhile, my wife and I got our seed a few years after the marriage, so not my cloud of judgement on folks parade that rock like that. I got bigger fish to fry, like wondering when my corn dogs are ready.
Meanwhile, my wife and I got our seed a few years after the marriage, so not my cloud of judgement on folks parade that rock like that. I got bigger fish to fry, like wondering when my corn dogs are ready.
Elim Garak
Veteran
A condom? 
Cool we're in reality now huh?
If BP didn't have children in "fukked up" situations then AA wouldn't exist. We've literally been in the same fukked situation for hundreds of years.
Abortion is not a solution to a community wide issue because BW lead in abortions and the community is still quite fukked up.
I already presented a solution.
Any man or woman worth a damn is going to be extremely selective in who they procreate with.
Meanwhile these fools continuing the cycle of dogshyt parenting/upbringing with their next generation.
The thing that kills me the most are all the single mothers running around trying to find good role models for their kids. My ol' lady and I have had a few women in the family move closer to us for assistance. They ran their men out of their and their children's lives, don't have much, and can't do much. My wife is like a substitute husband to these women running errands, helping them financially, organizing birthday parties and other events for them. I'm out here with a small tribe of kids doing my best to set a good example. Hosting game nights where I bust they ass in uno, chess, Mario party etc. Take them hiking, teach them to swim, help them with their studies and just generally encourage them as much as I can.
Every time I try get these women to consider getting back with their children's father, it's nothing but hostility. They can't see beyond their own selfish needs to understand the kids they brought into this world need a god damn father. They're on some "if he can't make ME happy, then what do I need him for?". bytch his fukking kids need him
/Rant
Meanwhile these fools continuing the cycle of dogshyt parenting/upbringing with their next generation.
The thing that kills me the most are all the single mothers running around trying to find good role models for their kids. My ol' lady and I have had a few women in the family move closer to us for assistance. They ran their men out of their and their children's lives, don't have much, and can't do much. My wife is like a substitute husband to these women running errands, helping them financially, organizing birthday parties and other events for them. I'm out here with a small tribe of kids doing my best to set a good example. Hosting game nights where I bust they ass in uno, chess, Mario party etc. Take them hiking, teach them to swim, help them with their studies and just generally encourage them as much as I can.
Every time I try get these women to consider getting back with their children's father, it's nothing but hostility. They can't see beyond their own selfish needs to understand the kids they brought into this world need a god damn father. They're on some "if he can't make ME happy, then what do I need him for?". bytch his fukking kids need him
/Rant
Easier to have a baby than finding a legitimate connection 
I have a cousin who had a daughter at 42. She’s not married. Probably figured it was now or never. I know countless women in similar situations who are 35+ who I’m pretty sure did the same.
Becoming a single mother over 30 is a totally different ballgame. There’s a legit ‘expiration’ they face. We in the midst of societal shift it’s no longer just some ghetto shyt
I have a cousin who had a daughter at 42. She’s not married. Probably figured it was now or never. I know countless women in similar situations who are 35+ who I’m pretty sure did the same.
Becoming a single mother over 30 is a totally different ballgame. There’s a legit ‘expiration’ they face. We in the midst of societal shift it’s no longer just some ghetto shyt
TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?
I walk around a little edgy already
Accidents happen
EXACTLY. Mfs love to start in the middle and act clueless. Let's start at the beginning, a woman can't have a man's baby if the man doesn't give her his sperm. Willingly nutting in a woman they don't want to have a baby with is insane
And we the ones who usually initiate sex
And 80 percent of the time it’s the women who stuck with the baby cause them men bounce
Harsh truth tbh
Fred