I don't respect folks who have babies with randoms that they're just smashing.

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I didn't say out of wedlock. I said out of relationships.

Really? Either way, what does it have to do w/ what you have going on? I am sure ppl having kids while not in a relationship isn't married.

Ppl make choices. They will live with the outcome of said choice. Got nothing to do with anyone else outside their personal circle.
 

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Even if you want a kid, from a pure financial perspective I just don't see how this would ever be a good idea

You really want to have child support taken out your checks for the next 18 years :dahell: there's no woman in the world that's bad enough to be worth that
 

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As my grandma used to say, "you don't believe fat meat is greasy." Folks believe this shyt is a fairy tale or some simple shyt when it's really not. Having a child is painful, expensive, time consuming, and life altering. Of all the bad decisions a person can make, why make THAT one with some random person? And while I get single parenthood is common now, I don't understand how shame plays so little of a role. For the mom, if your shyt isn't together you're going to need a lot of help from family and/or the father. Yet so many women seem totally fine with the idea of a man not being there. How the fukk? And likewise for men....how are you ok with being a deadbeat? Lot of fathers abandon their child before birth, or within weeks/months of birth. How do you pull that off? Especially after your family learns that your girl is pregnant. Imagine the shame of your mom realizing you're a piece of shyt lol. Couldn't be me.
 

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If you and your baby moms had a child and yall was just freak buddies, respectfully eff you and her. Yall disgust me. You dregs of society.

How much would a condom have cost? How much would a pill cost?

How you have a whole baby with somebody you didn't even care about like that?

Can somebody explain this to me? I'm understanding about a whole lot of things but I don't understand this one.

What brought this on? I met two women recently and I wasn't even mad about the fact that they had a child. We grown folks, I understand.

But when we got to talking about their baby father, they told me "yeah we weren't together. We was just messing around."

I hit the :dahell: cause I can't even fathom having a child with a woman I don't have feelings for.

Discuss.
Were they friends with benefits or actual freak buddies. It’s a clear difference
 
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