Mama said "You aint killing my grandchild
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Not much you can really do from there
"Not much you can really do from there
I don't respect folks who have babies with randoms that they're just smashing.
- Thread starter Neo. The Only. The One.
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In situation like that
80 percent of the blame goes to the men
80 percent of the blame goes to the men
Relationship are a social construct.
Reproduction is instilled in us naturally
No matter what's the norm socially, people are gonna want to fukk and they are gonna have babies...
I personally don't fukk with that baby making shyt tho
Nature could suck my dikk
Reproduction is instilled in us naturally
No matter what's the norm socially, people are gonna want to fukk and they are gonna have babies...
I personally don't fukk with that baby making shyt tho
Nature could suck my dikk
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Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
I don't know if I would say 80% but I will say that this thread would have gone in a completely different direction if I went in on women in the OP and solely blamed them instead of going in on both parties. The same nxggas in here talking about "you should mind your business" would have gone in on the hoes and thots that in their minds are solely responsible for babies being born out of wedlock and even out of relationships.
These dudes don't like being forced to look in the mirror and realize that the blame falls on them too.
sometimes that shyt don't work
but as many nuts as I've busted without any accidental kids, I'm starting to realize a lot of you nikkas ain't really trying that hard to pull out
AnonymityX1000
Veteran
If you really want to talk about it. Many have single mothers in here and you are basically shytting on their mothers and fathers.
And OP how did African Americans develop this problem? Does our history in this country have anything to do with it? How about public assistance rules? It's deeper than just, "Do what society says".
Women always follow men
Imagin if men had set high standards for who they have kids with
Women will switch up quickly and follow
But the “raw regret” gang got no self control
Westbama Heartthrob
Irregular Zero
Believe
Aint you married?
fukk you talking about?
brehs
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
My main focus in this thread aint folks who have children born out of wedlock. I'm talking about children born out of relationships right here and right now.
We have a horrible history in this country but what you tryna say? Is the White Man standing over your shoulder telling you "bust that nut RIGHT NOW niccer and you better not be wearing a condom!!!"
No truer words spoken. Alot of pressure does come from families to have these kids. And when your young and impressionable you think your parents are wise and have your best interest at heart.
What I know is,if these same family members telling people to have the child. Had to take the single mother in because there was no child support or welfare? They would not only do better at protecting their daughters wombs. But they would be funding the abortion themselves.
Ive had abortions before in my pre righteous era,but I am now against it. But I do see alot of decisions are made because no accountability,or burden falls on the women,or families of the women enough. Everybody basically knows the state will take care of it in worst case scenario. Being that women are the ones who make the decision. Them having no real consequences is basically a pro life stance. Abortion or no abortion,the govt is pro life.
So, to provide an answer that isn't something that assumes absolutes are always true:
People often have relationships that change over time, and looking back either while still angry, or looking back in retrospect, the context of the relationship changes.
There are plenty of people that are completely fine with having children because at the time, they're completely certain that the relationship is strong and will last. But somewhere along the way (sometimes even BECAUSE of the pressures of having children), the relationship falls apart. Then looking back, people realize they were fooling themselves, and were really just fukking around compared to where they are in life now.
Given, this obviously doesn't apply to every single couple that has kids without getting married, but it's definitely a lot more common than you'd think.
People often have relationships that change over time, and looking back either while still angry, or looking back in retrospect, the context of the relationship changes.
There are plenty of people that are completely fine with having children because at the time, they're completely certain that the relationship is strong and will last. But somewhere along the way (sometimes even BECAUSE of the pressures of having children), the relationship falls apart. Then looking back, people realize they were fooling themselves, and were really just fukking around compared to where they are in life now.
Given, this obviously doesn't apply to every single couple that has kids without getting married, but it's definitely a lot more common than you'd think.
I got 4 sons by 2 different women. I'm married to the mother of my youngest sons and I was married to the mother of my oldest sons.
I never wanted to be that dude that believed that stupid shyt about men spreading their seeds around without at least trying to be there as a family. That's why we got so many messed up young boys as it is.
I never wanted to be that dude that believed that stupid shyt about men spreading their seeds around without at least trying to be there as a family. That's why we got so many messed up young boys as it is.
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