At this point, if people are being solid people I totally understand cutting them off.
Two years ago my friend was cheating on his fiance and needed money for an abortion and to get through the week. Two years later he hasn't paid me back a cent and despite me asking him 10 times, he hasn't bothered to pay back anything nor has he reached out to apologize, give me a plan or say anything about the money without me mentioning it first. I really found myself in a jam and needed the money back and he won't pay back a single cent. That told me all I need to know........so I get it. At this point I'm likely never speaking to him again. I wouldn't go on social media and say it but I'd just quietly move on in my life.
It's important to speak on this stuff out loud. More men need to understand that they don't have to accept any and everything from folk while still calling them friends. You'll see countless threads on here where brothers are saying things like "no one gives a fukk about what men feel, we just gotta shut up and work
" And in other threads you'll have brothers arguing in favor of why it's ok to not communicate.
In your case, mans showed you better than he could tell you. He needed you, you came through and when you needed him he's ducking and dodging. If you made a tweet about that experience would that be "female tendencies"?
The less men speak up, the more we're silently helping maintain a system that hurts us.