You don’t want that breh. I don’t think your girl was being unreasonable. But seems like you are playing mental gymnastics when it comes to y’all future and also not communicating. You claim you feel like you are being pressured to get married yet planned to propose this year anyway. An issue that would easily be resolved by communicating. You think the biggest issue is that you are “carefree” but it sounds like you are a poor communicator. In the end she probably deserves better 
Bro this thread got me to reach out to the woman that walked away from me.
don’t do it; reconsider. Read some literature on the subject
How long you been locked down? How old were you when you met?
It’s bad out here mane
Be blessed with what you got
Yeah, son better look for a single, intelligent woman around 26-29 because he's gonna catch that work as soon as he hops in the dating pool. Hopefully, OP has money to bridge the likely physical gap between him and the younger guys there.
I'm coming into this convo late. But I broke up with my ex a few months back under similar circumstances. Difference is I did have a plan, but she basically had a meltdown; and I mean she had a meltdown...not an argument; and many subsequent arguments about not being married.Pretty much set and in stone now and it all comes to down to my GF thinking I am wasting her time. Her biggest issue is that she feels like I don't set personal goals. Marriage, kids and home buying. To her things have to be perfect on her time.
We almost broke in January because we had a rough past six month, from moving to shyt that were said because she thought I cheated ( I have never cheated and have had p*ssy handed to me on a silver platter and I have said no. The moment we patch shyt up through couples therapy she started pressing marriage 100 mile per hour.
I do want to get married and have kids but I don't like pressure. I was going to do it this year for sure after our rough patch. Despite our differences, she is not a bad woman. There are qualities I look for in a woman such is this woman the type that will be by your side when health issues come up. Kid raising but sometimes she just worries too much about life while I am a carefree guy.
I don't subscribe to GMB lifestyle, we are getting old...lol dont have much time nor do I plan on dating any woman under 30,
Well we met before we actually started dating cause we were in the same black professional circles. So I was kinda just plotting on her from afar for a couple years while fukking hoes. Started dating seriously at 33, we was married by 35.
